Zvepabonde - chikamu chakakosha pane rudo rwekuda, hukuru hwemweya nemitumbi yevanhu vane rudo. Nokudaro, kusava nemafaro, kubatana panguva yehukama hwepedyo idambudziko rechokwadi iro rinoda chisarudzo chakanaka chebvunzo, kuti ungazorore sei munguva yepabonde.
Sei ndisingakwanisi kuzvidzora panguva yepabonde?
Dzimwe nguva musikana (kana kunyange mukadzi) haakwanisi kupora panguva yepabonde nokuti anoramba achizvifunga nezvake: asi kana ndiri kurara zvakanaka, ndichifamba zvakanaka, uye pazamu zuro iyo yakasimuka, uye zviyero zvakaratidza mamwe magiramu 500 - zvakanaka, iwe ungasununguka sei, kana iwe unogara uchitya kuonekwa zvakaipa kana kuti kwete zvepabonde!
Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, iwe unofanira kuzvidzidzisa kuti urege kufunga nezvako iwe nekusakwana kwako, asi maererano neunoda wako uye chido chako chekudanana naye, ipapo iwe uchakanganwa pamusoro pezvakawanda izvo murume wako asingazvioni. Kana zvichienda zvakashata, handigoni kutenda kuti mukadzi ane pimple anogona kunakidza kufadza zvepabonde, unoda kufunga mupfungwa dzako dzose (shangu dzinobwinya, maziso anobudisa maziso, mazamu anooma, ruzivo rwezvinhu zvose zvehupombwe hwomunhu waunoda) - havangapfuuri here rimwe runyararo?
Izvo zvinokanganisa kushushikana kusina kunaka kwakabviswa kubva kubasa kana kubva pakutakura: mukuru akadanidzira, vamwe vekare varoyi vakatsvaga. Uye pfungwa dzose dzinodzokera kune chakaipa chisina kururama.
Muchiitiko ichi, unofanirwa kugadzirira mberi (tora bhati inonhuhwirira, teerera kumimhanzi inonakidza, tarisa firimu yerudo) - zvose zvinogoneka nemurume wako anodiwa. Uye hakuchine mubvunzo wekuti ungadzidza sei kupora paunenge uchiita zvepabonde - iwe uchatotanga kuchinjwa nenzira yakarurama mberi.
Zvepabonde - haisi kuratidzira kwehukama hwepedyo, asiwo zvemweya. Zvichida chikonzero ndechekuti pamwoyo kushungurudzika kune unodiwa. Zviri nani kuti urege kubata dombo muchipfuva chako. Kana kuti uwane hukama, kuchema, kuchema, kana kungokanganwira, pasina kukakavara, asi kubva pamwoyo. Zvose izvo, uye mumwe anobatsira, zvinoenderana nemunhu.
Dzimwe nguva vanobvunza kuti vangazorora sei panguva yepabonde . Asi ichiri chimiro chisingaenzaniswi cheukama. Zvichida haana chaanoda, uye muviri unofananidzira? Mushure mezvose, unogona kuuya nedzimwe nzira dzisingakonzeri kupindura kunorwadza. Nenzira yakawanda, imwe nzira yekubvisa kusununguka panguva yehukama hwepedyo ndeyokuteerera muviri wako. Uye ipapo zvose zvichave zvakanaka.