Kusiyana nerusarura rushoma, ushamwari hwevakadzi hwakasimba uye hunokosha zvechokwadi. Nokudaro, zvisinei kuti ndiani ari kukanganisa kukakavara, rutivi rumwe norumwe ruchida kudzorera hukama nokukurumidza. Muchikamu chino, tichawana kuti taurai kana kuti tiitei, uye kuti tiite, uye tisingazvikuvadze kuzviremekedza.
Nzira yekuyananisa sei neshamwari yako yepamusoro, kana ari iye ane mhosva?
Zvinotanga kutanga nekuziva kuti mumwe munhu haagoni kuva nemhosva yezvose zvachose. Nokudaro, kunyange kana yakawanda yemhosva ichiri pamusoro pemusikana-shamwari, zvakakodzera kubvuma zvikanganiso zvako. Pashure pezvose, zvinowanzoitika kuti kusazvibata kunokonzera chisimba, kutsamwa uye chido chokutsiva pane shamwari , iyo isingabatsiri kudzorera ushamwari. Tora danho rokutanga uchiti: "Ndikangamwire ini, ndinoda kuzvigadzirisa" zvakaoma zvikuru, kunyanya kana pasina chakukumbira ruregerero. Asi ndizvo chaizvo izvozvi zvinopupurira simba rehutano uye kubatsira kweumwe munhu. Mukuwedzera, nekuda kwemashoko akadaro, musikana uyu achanzwisisa zvakajeka zvaanoreva kwauri, uye, zvichida, achakumbirawo kukanganwirwa.
Kana kukumbira ruregerero kwakaunzwa kwauri pasina nguva hurukuro, iwe haufaniri kuuramba uye kuramba uchiita mhirizhonga. Gamuchira kupfidza kwechokwadi kwemunhu uye usamboyeuka zvakare nyaya iyi. Usapindawo mumakonzera ekukakavadzana uye uwane zvido zvisingakoshi, teerera kumashoko anotaurwa mukati mekupisa, uye inzwi rezwi. Zvose izvi hazvina maturo pakuenzanisa nezvakanaka zvehukama hwakasimba.
Nzira yekuyananisa mushure mekukakavara neshamwari yakanakisisa - mamwe mazano:
- Mutaurire kuti zvakakosha sei kwauri, chii chinotora muupenyu hwako;
- kuti uite bhizinesi rezuva nezuva: enda kunotenga, enda kune nzvimbo dzako dzinofarira;
- Usataura nezvekukanganisa kwekasikana wako kune dzimwe nhengo dzekambani, usamuisa pachena muchiedza chakaipa;
- Usayeuchidza musikana wako wekanganiso dzake, usapomera mhosva yapfuura;
- kumirira nguva yakakwana yekudzorera uye kusimbisa ushamwari, pakarepo dzokera hukama hwekare husingazoshandi.
Nzira yekuyananisa sei nemusikana, kana asina mhosva?
Kazhinji kazhinji mutadzi anonzwa akaipisisa. Mushure mezvose, kwete nekuda kwemashoko ako asina kururama kana zviito, iwe unogara uri woga, usina shamwari yakanakisisa, kuzvikudza kwakadaro kunoderera zvikuru. Mhedziso yekutadza uye kuziva kwekuzvidzivirira kwako pachako kunowedzera. Saka, zvakakosha kuti tisanonoka nekuyananisa, asi kuedza kudzorera ushamwari nokukurumidza sezvazvinogona. Usatya kuteterera kukanganwirwa - shamwari yechokwadi ichagara ichibvuma kukumbira ruregerero pasina mazwi asingakoshi uye kushorwa. Zvinokurudzirwa kutaura iwe pachako, kuyanana neshamwari nerubatsiro rweSMS kana kudana foni hazvibviri, nokuti nenzira iyi haugoni kutarisana mumeso ezvo uye kukurukura zvose zvisinganzwisisiki zvishoma.
Nzira yekuyananisa sei neshamwari mukambani?
Muitiko apo kukakavara kwakaitika muboka revanhu vanopfuura vaviri, zvinonyanya kuoma kugadzirisa kukakavara. Munhu wose anonamatira kune maonero avo uye mufambiro wavo, dzimwe nguva kunyange kuedza kuzviisa kune vamwe. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, zvakakosha kuwana chiito ichocho chichasangana neshamwari dzose uye panguva imwechete hachibate manzwiro avo. Zvakakosha kuyeuka pamusoro
- usaedza kugovera kambani;
- Usaita makuhwa pamusoro pevamwe shamwari dzaunenge uine nhengo dzekambani, usashandise mashoko akaudzwa iwe pachako;
- usaedza kuisa zvakananga manzwiro evamwe shamwari paunosangana;
- Edza kuunganidza pamwe chete nekuwana chikonzero chekukonana;
- Kurukurai zvinotaurwa nhengo imwe neimwe yekambani kune mumwe nemumwe;
- taura nezvenzira dzokugadzirisa dambudziko rinosangana nevanhu vose.