Your resume is kind of price list. Iwe unonyora zvaunogona kupa mubhadhari wemari yake. Kuti u "kutengesa" zvinhu zvako, unofanirwa kuziva zvaunogona kuita mubatsiri wako akagadzirira kubhadhara, uye zvaanofunga kuti kuparadza kwemari, kushanda nguva uye hupenyu.
Mukugadzirira kwekudzoka, kazhinji, vanhu vane unyanzvi vanotarisa mibvunzo pamusoro pechokwadi, nechinyorwa chemazuva, digiri, nzvimbo. Hapana kudikanwa kwepfungwa huru, kunyanya kana iwe uine ma diplomas akakwana uye ruzivo rwekunzwa uine chivimbo mundima iyi. Zvisinei, mubvunzo wezvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka maitiro puzzles. Kuzviongorora iwe pachako: a) zvakajeka; b) kusaita seanonyanya kuzvivimba; c) kusava nehanya nehutano hunoshandiswa nemushandirwi, haukwanisi kubvumira mweya?
Mukutaura, urongwa hwehuipi hune unhu hunodiwa chete mukudzoka uye pamubvunzurudzo pachako. Mune zvimwe zvikamu zvehupenyu, isu tinotarisira kuti "maitiro" edu anooneka kune avo vakatipoteredza. Saka, tichaisa pfungwa panyaya yebasa.
Formalism
Kana iwe usina kubvunzwa kuratidza muchidimbu pamusoro pekukanganisa, usaita izvi. Iwe unofanirwa kutsanangura unhu hunonyatsokodzera uye hunobatsira pakuita kwebasa rako rebasa, uye iwe uchabvunzwa pamusoro pekusavhiringidza kwebvunzurudzo. Saka, funga mitemo yekutsanangura maitiro asina kunaka ehurukuro.
- Kana iwe uchiti iwe hauna hurumende, iwe unotofanira kunge wakaonekwa kune mubvunzurwi anozvikudza uye ane manyawi, uyewo asina kutendeseka;
- Kana iwe uchitaura kuti kukanganisa kwako kunotyisa, kuzvitsaurira zvakanyanya, rudo rwekuwedzerwa nguva yakawanda, mugumisiro uchava wakangofanana-uri kunyengedza;
- Iwe uchati pane chimwe chinhu chaicho uye chiduku, kukanganisa kwako kunofanirwa kuve "kufanana", asi usaparadzanisa hutano hwebasa:
- kuvimba nekofi;
- kusvuta;
- ruzivo rwakanyanya rwemamwe mapurogiramu ane makombiyuta (kana ruzivo rwavo harusi mamiriro ekuwana basa);
- tsika yekukanganwa zvinhu pabasa, kusiya mapepa patafura pakupera kwezuva, kukanganwa kubvisa kombiyuta, nezvimwewo.
Ongorora zvinodiwa nevashandi
Chero mamiriro ezvinhu, usati watanga kusiyanisa mhinduro pamusoro pezvakaipa kana maitiro akanaka emuunhu wemunhu, fungidzira iwe panzvimbo yevatariri vanoda uye funga pamusoro pehutano hweunhu hwakanaka hunoshanda iwe.
Iwe unofanirwa kutaura zvakajeka kuti unhu hupi hunodiwa kuti uite basa raunenge uchivhima kwazvo.
Saka, unosangana nehuwandu hwemhando? Kana ukawana chimwe chinhu mukati mako, uye mune fantasy shortlist, inzwa wakasununguka kunyora pasi maitiro ehuwandu mukudzoka kwako. Kana iwe usina, taurira waunoshandira chimwe chinhu zvakare:
- kana pasina ruzivo rwebasa kana unyanzvi, nyora kuti iwe uri nyore kudzidziswa;
- kana pasina hune hune huno hwakanaka, nyora kuti iwe unotota kushanda mukambani iyi, nokuti ...;
- apo iwe unoda "kubata" vasina shangu kune vapenyu, nyora kuti une mukana wekushanda maawa akawanda.
Ndeipi apo zvisina kunaka zvinhu zvisiri chipingamupinyi?
Dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvisina kunaka zvemunhu zvingaita zvinopesana nekumuisa pachena mumutungamiri. Semuenzaniso, zvinoratidzwa kuti zvimwe zvikanganiso zviri mumunhu zvinokonzera hutungamiri muboka, uye kazhinji, kushanda panzvimbo dzeutungamiri, zvingava zvakanaka kuvawana.
Zvinhu zvisina kunaka zvemu mutungamiriri:
- narcissism;
- kunyanya kukwikwidza kwezviitiko;
- mafungiro ekutura kuvanhu;
- kuchengeta zvakasimba mitemo.
Unhu uhwu muhuwandu huwandu hunogona kubatsira munzvimbo dzeutungamiri. Semuenzaniso, kazhinji pane nhoroondo dzenyaya dzinotaura nezvekunyadzisa kune darero rehurukuro, asi kana kupfuurira mutsetse, hukama hwekubatana pamwe chete hahuzove hwekugamuchira vaeni zvakanaka. Uye rudo rwekuchengetwa kwemitemo richave rakanaka kwazvo, kana iwe uchikumbira nzvimbo panzvimbo yemutemo nekuverenga, asi kune imwe nzvimbo yekusika, haisi yakakodzera.