Nhasi, zvinopfuura mazana mashoma emibvunzo mibvunzo inozivikanwa, iyo ichava rubatsiro rwakakosha mubasa kwete chete vevadzidzisi, asiwo yevabereki. Pakati pekuedza kunonakidza kwevechiri kuyaruka, tinosiyanisa zvinotevera:
- muedzo wokugadzirisa unhu hwepfungwa;
- kutsungirira kuedzwa;
- kuedza "Lie detector";
- kuedza Eysenck kuti aone rudzi rwehutano;
- muedzo wokucherechedza;
- muedzo wokuona kusanganisa;
- kuongororwa kwehuwandu hwekufungisisa uye kurangarira;
- miedzo kuti ione kusava nemafungiro evamwe vari kuyaruka.
Icho "Chiyero Chekugumburwa" muedzo
Kumbira mudzidzi wekusekondari kuti apindure nokutendeseka kana achifunga kuti mazwi anotevera ndeechokwadi pamusoro pake:
- Handigoni kuramba ndakanyarara kana chimwe chinhu chinokonzera kusagutsikana kwangu.
- Zvakaoma zvikuru kuti ndiite nharo.
- Ndinotsamwa kana zvichiita kwandiri kuti mumwe munhu ari kundiseka.
- Ini ndinotanga kupopotedzana nyore nyore, ndinokwanisa kunyange kudzorera mumuviri uyo anenge akatadza.
- Ndine chokwadi chokuti ndinokwanisa kuita chero basa ripi nani pane vezera rangu.
- Dzimwe nguva ndinoda kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipa chinotyisa vanhu vanondipoteredza.
- Ndinoda kuseka mhuka.
- Izvi zvinoitika kuti ndinoda kupika pasina chikonzero chakanaka.
- Kana vanhu vakuru vakanditaurira zvandinofanira kuita, ndinoda kuita zvakasiyana.
- Ndinozviona ndiri ndoga uye ndakatsunga.
Zvino zvakakosha kuongororodza migumisiro yechiratidzo ichi nekutsamwa kwevechiri kuyaruka. Mhinduro imwe neimwe yakanaka ndeimwe pfungwa. 1-4 pfungwa dzinoratidza kudzvinyirirwa kwomwana, mapfumbamwe 4-8 - chiratidzo chekurwisana, uye 8-10 pfungwa - chiratidzo chechiratidzo kuvabereki nevadzidzisi, zvichiratidza huwandu hwakanyanya hwehutsinye.
Muedzo wekutambudzika
Pamusoro pekutaura kwemuedzo uyu, wechidiki anofanira kupa chimwe chezvikamu zvitatu zvinogona kupindura: "Kwete" (inofungidzirwa pazvikamu 0), "Hongu, zvirokwazvo" (inofungidzirwa pa 3 nharo) uye "Hongu, dzimwe nguva" (inofungidzirwa pa1 pfungwa). Inobvunzurudzwa yakagadzirirwa kuziva kana mwana ari kushungurudza:
- Kunhuhwirira kwakasimba kwezvinonhuwira?
- Shamwari kana waunodzidza naye paanofanira kumirira nguva ipi?
- Kana mumwe munhu achingoseka pasina chikonzero?
- Kana vabereki kana vadzidzisi vanowanzidzidzisa?
- Kukurukurirana kwakanyanya mukufambiswa kwevanhu?
- Vanhu vanoita basa vachikurukurirana?
- Paunondipa zvinhu zvisina kufadza uye zvisingakoshi?
- Ndirini pandinoudza nyaya yebhuku randinofanira kuverenga?
- Kana paine mafirimu ari pamberi pangu mumwe munhu anoramba achitendeuka uye achitaura?
- Kana mumwe munhu achirova pamisumbu dzangu?
Migumisiro yechiratidzo ichi chekushungurudzika kwezvinetso zvevechiri kuyaruka inoita seyiyi: 26-30 mapepa - mwana ari munharaunda yekushungurudzika kukuru, 15-26 mapepa - anotsamwirwa chete nezvinhu zvisingafadzi, uye mhuri dzemarita hazvikwanisi kumubvisa kunze, pasi pemakore 15 akadzikama uye akachengetedzwa kubva kunhamo.
Muedzo wekutambudzika kwevechiri kuyaruka
Mwana wechidiki achada kuongorora kana mamwe emitauriro yemazinga anotevera anomuteerera: "Anenge nguva dzose" (yakarongwa pamakona mana), "Kazhinji" (inofungidzirwa pamapfumbamwe), "Dzimwe nguva" (inopa 2 pfungwa) uye "Usamboiti" (inopa 1 pfungwa). Mubvunzo wemibvunzo yacho unoita seiyi:
- Zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti ini ndiri munhu akaenzana.
- Kugutsikana ndechekugara kwangu.
- Ini kazhinji ndinofanira kuva nekutya uye kunetseka.
- Ndinoda kufara sevamwe.
- Ndinonzwa sekundikana.
Pandinenge ndichifunga nezvezvinhu zvangu uye nhau dzezuva nezuva, ndinonzwa ndisingafari. - Ndinogara ndichifungisisa, ndakadzikama uye ndinotonhora.
- Kuzvivimba-izvo ndizvo zvandinoshaya.
- Kazhinji ndinotambudzika.
- Nguva yemberi inondityisidzira.
Chigumisiro chemashure makumi matatu kusvika ku40 chinoratidza kuti kuzvidya mwoyo kwave kuchigara nguva dzose kumwana, kubva pamakore gumi nemashanu kusvika ku30 - wechidiki nguva nenguva anonzwa kushungurudzika, asi izvi hazvikanganidzi mupfungwa dzake, pasi pemapfumbamwe - mudzidzi haatombotauri kuzvidya mwoyo.