Kurwisana kwepabonde kwakasiyana-siyana -kuwana sei kuwirirana?

Vamwe vanhu vanogara vachifunga zvepabonde, asi kune vamwe hazvina kunyanya kukosha, mhosva dzose dzehutano dzakasiyana.

Kuhukama muhuviri hwakanaka, kuitira kuti vashandi vave nemafungiro akafanana epabonde. Zvakawanda kuzvidemba kwedu, zvinenge zvisingakwanisi kuvashandura nenzira ipi neipi pasina kukuvara kune utano. Chikonzero cheizvi mahomoni. Somuenzaniso, kana mukadzi ane chirwere chepasi chestrogen mumutumbi, kuwana mutsara kunenge kwakaoma zvikuru, uye pamwe chete.

Mhando dzehutano hwepabonde

Kune 3 mhando mikuru ine maitiro avo.

Kuzvikudza kwepabonde

Vanhu vakadaro vanozivikanwa nechido chenguva dzose uye chido chekuedza mumubhedha, ivo chete 10%. Zvinhu zvakasiyana:

• kutanga kukura pane imwe nzvimbo mumakore gumi nemaviri;
• zvepabonde chimwe chezvinhu zvikuru muupenyu;
• kazhinji vanhu vanorasikirwa nehuwandu hwekutanga, nokuti izvi zvinokosha kwavari;
• kana iwe usingasviki nechido chemumwe wako, anogona kuenda pane imwe.

Kunonoka zvepabonde

Kune vanhu vakadai, zvepabonde hazvina kunyanya kukosha. Icho chimiro chinotangira chete 1% yevanhu. Zvinhu zvakasiyana:

• ubere gare gare;
• zvichida mumwe chete wepabonde kweupenyu hwose;
• zvakakwana kuita zvepabonde kamwechete pamwedzi;
• vanhu vakadaro vanoda rudo uye vamwe rudo.

Avhareji yepabonde

Rudzi rwevanhu vakawanda, inenge 80% yevamwe. Zvinhu zvakasiyana:

• chaizvoizvo, havaiti zvepabonde kanopfuura katatu pavhiki;
• zvinogona kuchinja vashanduki pane imwe nguva, asi kubva panguva ichi chido chakaderedzwa;
• nyore nyore kutarisana kune mumwe wako.

Kubatana kwehupombwe

Zvakanaka, avo vaifambidzana vaiva nemafungiro akafanana. Uyewo, haisi tariro yakaipa yehukama hwehukama hwakadzika uye hwepakati, uyewo hwepakati uye yakakwirira. Kana munhu ane hutano hwakareba hwepabonde uye mukadzi ari pasi, ipapo munhu anokurumidza kufambidzana achabata kuti shamwari yake yakaoma, uye kana zvisinei, zita risina simba richaiswa pamurume.

Zvakadini kana chimiro chisingafanani?

Kuita zvepabonde kwakanaka kunofadza kune vose vari vaviri. Kana iwe uchida mumwe nemumwe, saka kubvumirana kunogona kuwanikwa munyaya iyi.

Kana iwe uine hutano hwepamusoro hwepabonde, uye munhu akaderera pasi:

1. Tora nguva uye uite newawakaroorana naye izvo zvinonzi "zvepabonde purogiramu yepabonde", iyo inotsanangura mazuva ekushanda nekuita zvisingaiti. Iyi nzira, maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, inobatsira kugona kuwirirana munyaya iyi.
2. Isa chirevo che "karoti uye kusunga", kureva kuti, nguva nenguva nguva pester wako, unomupa mitambo yepabonde uye yakafanana, uye pane mamwe mazuva kunotonhorera uye kumiswa. Kutenda kweizvi, iye achanzwisisa kuti iwe hausashandisi kuti iwe ugutsikane.
3. Tarisa pamwe chete zvinonyadzisira, zvinobatsira kukonzera chido chomunhu uye kusiyanisa hupenyu hwako hwepabonde.
4. Tora zvido zvekunyengera kwevakadzi - ita kuti iwe waunoda ane godo , usangokunda.

Kana munhu ari kushanda uye iwe hausi:

1. Muvhimi nemasikirwo evanhu, munhu achakukundisa nenzira ipi zvayo inogoneka, saka fara uye ufare.
2. Basa rako nderokuramba mudiwa wako munharaunda kuitira kuti arege kugumburwa uye haafungi kuti haachadiwi. Dzidza kutaura "kwete" kuitira kuti inzwike kwaari se "hongu", asi remangwana.
3. Edza kuverenga manyozha ane zvepabonde, zvichida ivo vachawedzera chido chako. Pano, somuenzaniso, munguva pfupi yapfuura inonzwa "50 shades ye gray" ichaita zvakanaka.
4. Kana munhu wacho achida kukurumidza kuva neushamwari, uye iwe haudi kuti izvi zvakakwana. ramba uchibvumirana uye ugoita zvepabonde zvakasimba pasina chero yekutanga. Kune munhu waunoda, zvichaita semutambo.