Kubhabhatidzwa kwomwana ndeimwe yemitemo mitatu yakachena yeChechi yeOrthodox umo muviri wecheche inopinda mumvura katatu kuitira kuti isuke kubva kuchivi chekutanga uye zvitadzo zvose zvakaitwa musati wabhabhatidzwa. Panguva imwe chete, mazita eUtsvene Hutsvene - Baba uye Mwanakomana uye Mweya Mutsvene vanodanwa. Kuti uite chikamu muSakaramende yekubhabhatidzwa, vabereki vemucheche vanosarudza vanaparents - amai nababa. Vanamwarikadzi vanotora ivo pachavo mutoro wekudzidzisa mwana mukutenda muna Mwari, utsvene uye huMwari.
Zvinokwanisika kubhabhatidza mwana kumukadzi ane pamuviri, haasi mamiriro ake ezvinhu zvinopesana nekushandiswa kweSakaramende yekubhabhatidzwa - tichaedza kupindura mibvunzo iyi munyaya yedu.
Sei asingagoni kubhabhatidza mukadzi ane pamuviri?
Muitiro wechechi, hapana mubvumo webhaibheri kuti vakadzi vane pamuviri havagoni kubhabhatidza mwana. Mufaro weChechi unokonzerwa nekuti mwana akaberekerwa kuberekwa achabvisa nguva yose yekusununguka uye rudo rwose kubva kuna amai vaduku, uye rucheche, rwakatorwa kubva mumhando, richasiyiwa risina hanya naye. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti mwarikadzi haasi kungofanana nezvinhu zvepanyama uye zvipo zvekuzvarwa kwake, pakutanga - uyu ndiye amai vechipiri. Mushure mezvose, vanamwarikadzi vanopupura zveSakramente yekubhabhatidzwa, avo vakapiwa kutenda kweMwari, uye vanomanikidzwa kumudzidzisa mumitemo yehupenyu hwechiKristu. Nokudaro, izvo zvinorambidzwa mukusarudza vanababa vanonzi:
- chero ipi zvayo chitendero chavo: atheism, Islam, Judaism, Buddhism;
- murume nemudzimai wemhuri imwe chete;
- vanamwarikadzi vasina kubhabhatidzwa.
Nokudaro, Chechi inofunga sekanganiso yemashoko ekuti vakadzi vane pamuviri havagoni kubhabhatidza mwana. Chechi yeOrthodox inopa chete mazano ayo - zvaunofunga nezvekusati waita chisarudzo chinokosha. Apo Sakaramende yekubhabhatidza inowanikwa pamusikana-musikana, maererano nemitemo yechechi, mwarikadzi anochengeta godfather yepamusoro pemaitiro, uye kumukadzi ane pamuviri inonetsa zvikuru, kunyanya pamatanho ekupedzisira ekudzivirira. Kana mukadzi ane pamuviri achipiwa kubhabhatidza mukomana, saka hapana matambudziko, nokuti muchinjikwa hauna kukosha kubhabhatidzwa kwake.
Kana zviitiko izvo vabereki vemusikana vachiri kumanikidzira kuti mukadzi ane pamuviri anobhabhatidza mwana, nemvumo yomupristi, haafaniri kuenda kumitambo (asi inyoreswa mumapepa), ipapo mbuya vanofanira kutora mafonti kubva mumucheche.
Ndinogona kubhabhatidza mwana ane pamuviri here?
Mucheche anogona kubhabhatidzwa, kana mudzimai akanzwa zvakanaka, haana mubvunzo kuti haazoregi kumunamwari, uye achava shamwari yake yechokwadi yeupenyu.
Vanhu vane pamuviri vakabhabhatidzwa here?
Mukadzi ane pamuviri haagoni kubhabhatidza mwana chete, asiwo anobhabhatidzwa, kana asina kubhabhatidzwa kare. Vaprista vanoita rwiyo rweSaramente yeEpiphany vanoti vana vevakadzi vakadai vanozvarwa vakasimba uye vane utano hwakanaka.
Iyo christening ihwo mutsa chaizvo uye unofadza, saka nei musikana asina pamuviri asingafaniri kuita chikamu mumutambo wakanaka zvakadaro? Vapristi vanoti icho uye mwana wavo weramangwana chichabatsira chete.