Chii chinonzwira tsitsi?

Kunzwira ngoni uye tsitsi kune pfungwa dzakasimba, asi zvakadaro zvakasiyana. Kunzwira tsitsi ndiko kukwanisa kunyatsonzwisisa mumwe munhu mumanzwiro ake uye manzwiro ake, uye tsitsi ndekwaniso yekuona kurwadziwa kwomumwe munhu sekwake. Icho chinobva kumhuri iyo munhu anotsungirira tsika dzekunzwira tsitsi, izvo zvaanoshandisa kune vanozivikanwa. Chii chinonzwira tsitsi? Kugona kunyange kuona munhu waunoda kune munhu asingazivi uye kugoverana manzwiro ake.

Dambudziko retsitsi

Usati wasaratidza urombo, zvakakosha kutanga kwete kungoteerera, asi zvakare kunzwa munhu. Nokuda kweizvi, musangano wega uri nani, asi kwete foni yekukurukura kana tsamba. Nenzira iyi chete inokwanisika kunzwisiswa kwakadzama kwekunzwira tsitsi, tsitsi - shure kwezvose, dzimwe nguva zvakakosha kungova pedyo, kugamuchira munhu kana kuteerera.

Kuti uratidze zvakakwana tsitsi nekunzwira tsitsi, zvinokosha kukwanisa kuteerera - uye izvi hazvipi kuvanhu vose. Kutanga, edza kuita zvinhu izvi zvinokosha:

1. Teerera kunze kwekukanganisa, kutarisa mumaziso omunhu kana iye.
2. Edza kunzwisisa kuti chii chinonzi wako interlocutor anonzwa.
3. Teerera zvinyararire, usina mhinduro, kumira uye kuedza kukanganisa mutauriri.
4. Tevera zviratidzo zvomunhu - ari kupedza kana ari kuedza kuvhura here?
5. Vamwe vanhu vanogona kunzwisisa zviri nani kune imwe, kana vachizviratidza ivo pachavo munzvimbo yavo.
6. Usatauri chero mazano kusvikira vabvunzwa.
7. Usataura nezvebhizimisi rako - munhu ane dambudziko, uye zvakakosha kumurega ataure.

Kana mushure mokunge makanyatsoteerera munhu, munogona kunzwisisa kuti mashoko etsitsi anodikanwa kwaari panguva ino.

Nzira yekunzwira tsitsi sei?

Cherechedza, saka, pakusipo kwekunzwira tsitsi, zvinenge zvisingakwanisi kunyatsorondedzera. Kana iwe usingadi kunzwisisa zvinonzwiwa nemunhu uye zvakabatikana zvikuru nekugadzirisa kwepfungwa kumatambudziko avo, pasinei nekuedza kwako kwose kwekuita mararamiro akanaka, unoisa panjodzi kunzwa "kusanzwira tsitsi!".

Kana iwe uri kunyanya kuzvifunga iwe pachako, zviise iwe munzvimbo ye interlocutor, fungidzira kuti zviri kwauri kuti upone mamiriro ake ezvinhu. Funga pamusoro pezvaungada kunzwa panguva ino, rudzi rwekubatsira kwaungatarisira kune vamwe. Icho chido chechokwadi chekufara icho shamwari inokubvumira kuwana mazwi akakodzera mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma zvakadaro.

Kuti ubatsire munhu kutaura uye kutaura zvinangwa zvake kuratidza tsitsi, shandisa mazwi akajeka:

• chii chakaitika kwauri?
• iwe unogona kundiudza here?
• Ndingakubatsira here?
• Iwe unonzwa zvakanaka here?

Aya mazwi mashoma achaita kuti interlocutor iwe wakagadzirira kuteerera uye unofarira chaizvo matambudziko ake.

Nzira yekuratidza sei tsitsi kana paine shungu?

Kune mamiriro ezvinhu umo vanhu vanenge vese vakarasika uye havazivi maitiro avo. Somuenzaniso, kana mumwe wevadiwa vako ane shamwari kana hama yakafa, nguva dzose haisi pachena kuti unozvibata sei-kana kusiya munhu kana kuva pedyo; kana kutaura, kana kuteerera; izvi zvose zvinotungamirira kune chokwadi chokuti vanhu vazhinji, pasinei nechomukati kunzwira tsitsi, kungorega kutaurirana nekuchema, sei munhu ari mukana wokudzima. Nzira yekuita sei mumamiriro ezvinhu aya?

1. Usanyarara. Dana kana kuuya kumunhu uyu uye kumutsigira nemashoko.
2. Usaedza kuwana zvinowedzera ("akatambura kwenguva yakareba kubva kuchirwere"), zviri nani kuti wakanga uri munhu akanaka.
3. Edza kutaura nemunhu pane izvo iye pachake anotanga kukurukura.

Haasi munhu wose anokwanisa kuratidza manzwiro avo, asi vanhu vakadzidza izvi vanova vakanakisisa, shamwari dzinodiwa.