Kune vazhinji vedu, nhoroondo yevanhu vekugarisa yakave chikamu chinokosha chehupenyu. Isu tinoshingaira kushandisa peji redu kuti tikurukure neshamwari, muhukama nevanoda uye kunyange sechirongwa chakakosha chekusimudzira bhizinesi uye kuzvimirira, asi ...
Asi wakambofunga here kuti mifananidzo yako nemifananidzo zvinogona kukuudza pamusoro pechinhu chakasiyana kubva pane zvawakaronga? Zvechokwadi, nhasi uno nyanzvi kubva kune kambani inonyanya kuwanikwa nevanhu mune nhoroondo mbiri pamusoro penyaya yako ichasarudza kuti uri ani semunhu, chii icho ukama hwako neshamwari uye kunyange iwe une dambudziko repfungwa!
Mune rimwe shoko, iwe unoda kuzvitenda, asi iwe hauzvidi, asi kana iwe ukashambadzira zvinhu izvi zvehupenyu pane peji rako, unenge uine hanya zvikuru!
1. Unogara uchicherechedza nzvimbo yako
Maiwe, hapana chimwe chingafadzwa nacho, nokuti bhuku rekugadziriswa kwezvinyorwa zvevamwe rinoti kwete pamusoro pehupenyu hwako hunoshingaira uye hunofadza, asi pamusoro penzira yekudanidzira kunyika kuti ionekwe, inozivikanwa seichibudirira uye inogamuchirwa. Muhuwandu hwevanhu vakadaro, mifananidzo yakawanda kubva kumakwikwi, kuenda kunotengesa uye kunyange kubva kumabhedheni.
Muzhinji, vanhu vane kuzvikudza kwakakwirira kuti vaone kuti vakashanyira pane imwe nzvimbo, zvachose!
2. Unogara uchinyora mapikicha kubva kumitambo
Kuisa mifananidzo pane peji yemufananidzi kana mushure mekudzidziswa, vanhu vanodavira kuti nenzira iyi ivo "vachazvipa" ivo pachavo semunhu ari kushanda pamuviri wavo uye pakukwezva kwavo munharaunda. Mukuita, izvo zvinopesana ndezvokwadi - nyanzvi dzinotaura kuti zvishoma chete muzana gare gare inogona kuzvirumbidza nemigumisiro yakaisvonaka, uye vazhinji, saka, vanongotarisa kukumbira mumwe munhu kuratidzira chimwe chinhu, zvichiitika zvinokonzera kushora kukuru uye kunyange kusekwa!
3. Unogara uchinyora zvifananidzo zvezvamudya kana kuti zvichadya!
Kunakidzwa nechingwa chinonaka uye chakanakisisa nguva dzose chiri chakanaka, asi kutendeza uku kuve "vanhu vakawanda" zvinowedzera kuti iwe unongoda kuwedzerwa kune vamwe.
Nditende, kunyange shamwari dzako dzepedyo hadzina hanya nezvinoitika mudumbu rako!
4. Unowedzera "shamwari" vanhu vakawanda!
Nyanzvi dzezvematongerwo enyika nevarapi vepfungwa vakabvumirana kuti vanhu vanogara vachiwedzera kune shamwari yavo chaiyo yakarongedza (uye kazhinji kunyange vasingazive!) Tambudzika kubva pakuzvikakavara kunyange kusazvida ivo pachavo! Uye zvakasiyana-siyana - vanhu vanoziva ivo pachavo, vanobvuma kuva "shamwari" chete kune vakasanangurwa, avo vepedyo uye avo vanochengetedza ukama hwavo chaihwo!
5. Unozvirumbidza pamusoro pekutenga, kunyanya kana zvakanyorwa zvinhu!
Kutenga kunowanikwa nevasikana vose pasina, asi kana iwe uchidavira kuti kupemberera kutengwa kweiyo gizmos yakakosha uye tag inonyanya kuzivikanwa kune imwe nzvimbo mumusangano wekugarisana kwevanhu, iwe unongova munhu asina kuchengeteka unoda kuonekwa uye kugamuchirwa nemafambiro ake! Iwe unofunga kuti vanhu vanozviremekedza mukuronga, vachapedza kwenguva ino here?
6. Unogara uchitaura nezvekunzwa kwako!
Uye pakupedzisira ... Zvidzidzo zveyunivhesiti yeBirmingham, Edinburgh naHeriot-Walt vanobva kuGreat Britain vatosimbisa kuti vanhu vari mumapato avo vanotsanangura zvakajeka mafungiro, manzwiro nemanzwiro vasinganzwisisi, vanoratidza kuti chaizvoizvo havangoiti haina "zviitiko" chaiye muupenyu chaihwo. Zvakanaka, vanoda vanobudisa "nharo kubva mumba" uye vachitaura pachena pamusoro pekuparadzanisa kana kujekesa hukama, nokudaro nekupedza zvachose nekuparadza zvachose ukama hwepedyo hwevakaroorana!
Ngwarira, nokuti kazhinji uchifunga kuti iwe unoparidzira ruzivo rwakanaka chete pamusoro pako pachako mumagariro evanhu, unogona kuita zvakasiyana. Uye kuwedzera kuzviremekedza zviri nani kuburikidza nerubatsiro uye kutsigirwa kwemumwe nyanzvi.