Kuberekwa ndechimwe chezviitiko zvinokosha muupenyu hwomukadzi chero upi zvake, izvo zvinofanira kutorwa zvakanyanya. Zvisinei, chii chatinofanira kuita kana izvi zvisingaitiki muchokwadi? Nzira yekuziva kuti chii ichocho kurota kwekubereka mukurota, nokuti vakasiyana-siyana vanoridzidzira kurota vari kurota kurota uku nenzira yavo pachavo. Uye kuti uzive kuti chii chawakagadzirira iwe pachako, unofanirwa kuyeuka sezvakanyatsoita nheyo dzehope, somuenzaniso, kana iwe uri kubereka kwako kana mumwe munhu, kana ari mukomana kana musikana, kunzwa kwakanyanya kana kuchena kusara mushure mekumuka .n.
Sei uchirota pamusoro pokubereka mukurota?
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti madzitateguru edu aifunga kuberekwa kwomwana saramente yakakura, uye nehutano pachahwo hwakabatanidzwa huzhinji hwemashura. Zvizhinji zvezviratidzo zvakapona kusvikira nhasi, uye vakadzi vari kugadzirira kubereka mwana, kazhinji vanovatevera, pasinei nokuti vari kubereka iye zvino kwete mumabhati uye kwete pamunda, asi mune zvipatara zvakasiyana pasi pekutarisirwa kwechiremba. Hazvishamisi kuti kurota kwakabatana nekubereka nguva dzose kunokonzera kushungurudzika kukuru. Mushure mezvose, vanogara vachitakura mhosho yakasimba yepfungwa, vachimanikidza kufungidzira kuti chiratidzo chakadaro chakatumirwa nechikonzero chakanaka.
Uye zvechokwadi, kududzirwa kwezviroto pamusoro pekuberekwa kunogona kuwanikwa mumabhuku ose makuru eroto. Semuenzaniso, mukuru weSlavonic Velesov dreambook anotsanangura kuti kuberekwa kwechiedza ndiko kunofanirwa kwemufaro neupfumi; zvinorema - kukundikana, kurasikirwa. Asi bhuku remuroyi Medea rinotora kurota kwakasiyana zvakasiyana-siyana: kuberekwa mukurota kunoreva kuonekwa kwechirevo chitsva, kuvhura kwechiitiko chitsva, dzimwe nhau. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha kana kurota kwakadaro kunoonekwa nemunhu.
Avo vane shungu pamusoro pemubvunzo wekurota kurota kuberekwa, kunogonawo kutarisa bhuku repfungwa rinorota re Freud. Inotaura kuti kuberekwa kwemwana muchiroto kunoreva kushamwaridzana kwevanhu vanozuka kuchaita hupenyu hwako, zvichida ichava musangano unofadza nemunhu anodikanwa kana shamwari yekare yawakagara watarisana naye. Dreambook weGreen Magician Yu Long anozivisa kuti kana iwe ukaberekwa muchiroto chiratidzo chekukunda kukunda matambudziko. Maererano nemwanakomana wekurota weVangi, mukurota, kufa kweumwe munhu wavanenge ava pedyo pakuberekwa - zvino nokukurumidza hukama huri pakati pako huchaderera. Chiedza chinoshanda muroto - iwe uchabatsirwa mumabasa ako.
Sei uchirota kubereka musikana?
Chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuita zvepabonde yemwana anozvarwa muhope. Vaya vanoda kuziva kuti vangarota sei pamusoro pokubereka mwana, zvinokosha kuedza kuyeuka kana musikana ari mukomana. Kana sarudzo yekutanga yakakodzera, ipapo kurara kunofanira kuonekwa seyakanaka chete. Anoti uyo uyo waakarota achauya munguva inofadza muupenyu, achakwanisa kubudirira kuburikidza nebasa rekuzvivaraidza uye anozvipa kune mamwe mari. Kune vakadzi vakaroora, anoratidzira kugamuchirwa kwemashoko akanaka, pamwe nekutanga kwemukati mutsva wehukama hwepabonde nemurume wake.
Sei uchirota kuti iwe unobereka mukomana?
Kana kurota kwacho kuchiitika pakuona kuberekwa komukomana, unofanirwa kutarisira kukusimudzira, kutanga mitsva inofadza, maitiro ebhizimisi, nezvimwe. Anogonawo kupupurira
Sei uchirota kubereka mapatya?
Kurota kunobudirira zvikuru uye pamusoro pekuberekwa kwamababa. Anotaura pamusoro pekuita purogiramu, nhaka, kutora lottery - kureva, pamusoro pekutsvaga kukuru. Kune vakadzi vasina kuroora, anotaura nezvekuroorana, kana kuti rudo rukuru.