Sei tichida vana?

"Sei tichida vana?" Ndiyo mubvunzo unoshamisa uye unoshamisa zvikuru iyo vechidiki vechiduku vanombobvunzana. Vakawanda vevamangwana vabereki vanozvara vana, zvakakwana pasina kufunga nezvekuti nei vachichida. Kunyange zvakadaro, mamwe mapaundi anotungamirirwa nezvimwe zvinangwa, izvo zvatichakuudza pamusoro penyaya yedu.

Sei ndichifanira kuva nevana?

Zvadaro, tinopa mhinduro dzinonyanyozivikanwa kumubvunzo uyu, unogona kunzwiwa kubva kuvasikana vaduku nevarume:

1. Kazhinji kacho vese vakaroorana, pavakabvunzwa kuti nei vachida vana mumhuri yavo, ichiti: "Zvakanaka, rudzi rwemhuri rusina vana?" Vabereki vakadaro vanosarudza kuva nemwana nekuda kwekuti zvakakosha kuti hapana anozvidza, uye nezvimwe zvikonzero zvakadaro. Zvinosuruvarisa, dzimwe nguva amai vechidiki nevatateguru havana kugadzirira kuberekwa kwekuenderera mberi kwavo, uye havatori kuberekwa kwecheche zvakakwana. Kakawanda mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, mwana anorerwa na vanambuya, uye vabereki havaratidzi zvakakodzera mwana wavo.
2. Munguva yekudzidza mubvunzo, nei vana vachida murume, mhinduro yakakurumbira ndeyekuti: "Ndizvo zvakaita mudzimai". Vanababa vakadaro vanotora kuberekwa kwomwana pasina, havafungi kuti zvakafanira kubata nechecheche uye kushandura zvachose kutarisira kwemakumbo kumurume wavo. Mune ramangwana, mhuri dzakadaro dzinowanzoputswa nekuda kwekushaiwa kwekubatanidzwa kwababa mukurera mwana.
3. Pakupedzisira, mubvunzo wekuti nei vana vachida mudzimai, unogona kuwana nhamba yakawanda yemhinduro dzakasiyana. Kazhinji, musikana wechidiki anosarudza kubereka mwana, kuitira kuti pane mumwe munhu anofanira kutarisira, kubatsira mumwe munhu akwegura uye zvichingodaro. Chimwe chezvinhu zvakajairika uye, panguva imwechete, zvikonzero zvepenzi ndezvido zvekuponesa mhuri nekuchengeta murume. Muzviitiko zvizhinji, mhuri dzinoparadzana, pasinei nehuwandu hwevana vari mavari, uye mukadzi anobva atanga kutakurwa nekuzvarwa kwemumwe mwana.

Mhinduro yemubvunzo uyu wakaoma inogona kunge yakasiyana. Munhu wose mukuru anozvisarudzira kana vana vachimuda kana kwete, uye kana zvakadaro, sei. Asi zvinonyatsokosha here kusava nechokwadi chekudiwa kwekuberekwa? Hapana anoziva nechokwadi kana kune hupenyu hupenyu huripo, saka zvakakosha kusiya chikamu - vana vako. Mushure mezvose, chero hupi hwehupfumi hwuri chinhu hahuenzaniswi nehupenyu hutsva.

Uye, kuwedzera, mwana anofanira kugovana naye upenyu hwake hurefu uye hunofadza. Kugovera naye zviduku zviduku uye zvikuru, kuratidza nyika iyo achararama. Kumudzidzisa kufamba, kutaura, kuverenga, kuverenga, kunzwira tsitsi nevanoda. Uye, pakupedzisira, kuti anzwe zvakakosha: "Amai nababa, ndinokudai!", Nokuti hapana chichazotsiva mufaro uyu.