Apo vanhu vakandibvunza pamusoro pehukama hwangu hweplanonic, chinhu chekutanga chinouya mupfungwa ndechekuyeuka shamwari yehuduku. Takafamba nguva dzose pamwe chete, tichibata maoko, uye dzimwe nguva, pamusangano wekuchinja kweusiku kwevabereki vomumwe munhu, tairara pamubhedha umwe wakakura, tichinyararira munhu wese muhafu yedu. Iyo inoramba ichiti "Tili-tiri-hlama!" Kutitambudza isu kose; Muroori nomwenga! "Hazvina kunyadziswa, seyimbo yezvirongwa zvedu zvakakura.
Saka, ngatinzwisise pamwe kuti chii chinoreva "platonic relationships" zvinoreva. Nenzira, mutsara uyu unoreva ukama hworudo hwakashata, umo mune zvepabonde zvachose.
Kana tikataura nezvenyaya dzakakwirira, zvino rudo rweamai kumwana, manzwiro omudzidzi anoyemura kumudzidzisi wake, rudo rweZimbabwe, nokuti Mwari anogona kushanda semuenzaniso wakanaka kwazvo wehukama hweplatoniki.
Asi ngatidzokerei kune rudo rweplanonic hukama. Zvechokwadi, pane zvikonzero zvakanaka kwazvo zvekumusoro kwakadaro - somuenzaniso, yakanyanya kukwegura yevamwe vaviri kana zvimwe zvirwere zvisingaregi kurarama hupenyu hwepabonde hwepanyama. Pano iwe unogona kupa mienzaniso mizhinji kubva kuvadzidzi. Somuenzaniso, mu "Gone With the Wind" Ashley Wilks akamanikidzwa kusiya upenyu hwepabonde nemudzimai wake, nokuti akanga asingakwanisi kubereka. Asi kazhinji kacho kukokwa kwepaconic kunongova danho rokutanga rokumusoro kusvika kunzvimbo yakanaka inonzi Rudo. Mushure mezvose, rudo rwechokwadi runotanga nekuyemura kwechinhu chekunzwa nekurota kwekunaka, hukama hwechokwadi uye hwakachena.
Muenzaniso wakazara weroto pamusoro pekuda rudo kunosanganisira kuvapo kwechidziro uyo anobvumirana nokuda kwekadzi wake kune chero ani zvake ane shujaa, kunyange kunyengeri. Uye mukadzi wemwoyo paari, chokwadi, inofananidzira uye unhu husingagoneki, iyo inobata iyo isingambofungi sacrilege.
Zvinotaridzika, izvi zvine chokuita nehupenyu chaihwo? Zvinokwanisika here munguva yedu kuva rudo rwakadaro rwepaconic?
Chaizvoizvo, chiitiko ichi chakanyanya kufanana, kunyanya pakati pevechiri kuyaruka. Ndiko panguva ino iyo kukosha kwaPlato kunzvimbo yakasununguka yekukura kwepfungwa-manzwiro evanhu.
Zvichida, mumwe nomumwe wedu achayeuka mudzidzi wechikoro chesekondari, uyo ainyatsocherechedza kuchikoro kuchinja, uye kunyange vamwe vaduku, vadzidzisi vane tsvimbo, vane nharo dzakasangana nekutya kukuru. Hazvina kudaro ipapo, pasinei nekurota kwekugunzva zvisingabatsiri, kutarisa uye caresses, takauya mupfungwa dzedu pamusoro pebhaal sex.
Kazhinji pazera iri, zvinoshamisa kuzvitsvaga zvifananidzo pakati pevadzidzisi, vateereri vakakurumbira uye vatori vechikamu mumutambo weTV. Mushure mezvose, kushamwaridzana kwakadaro kwepoloniki kune imwe nzvimbo uye pamwe nekugona kunogona kubudirira kunoziva kukosha kwemanzwiro akakwidziridzwa uye chinangwa chechinhu chavanonamata, asi panguva imwechete hazvizvifananidzi kune chero chigumisiro. Zvakanaka, kupenya kwemanzwiro, kusakwanisa kwechinhu chokunamatira kuchaita kuti ruzivo rweplanonic huve rusingakanganwiki. Ndiani asingayeuki rudo rwake rwekutanga?
Zvose izvi, chokwadi, zvinotyisa kwazvo, asi magwepistori anoratidza kuti chero kukokwe kwepaconic kunofanirwa kuenda kumatanho ekuziva kwayo, kureva, kuedza kukwezva kutarira, kuramba uri woga, nezvimwe. Iyi ndiyo nzira iyo vechidiki vanodzidza kutaura nevakomana vakasiyana, vari kugadzirira kuchinja kune hukama hwevanhu vakuru. Kubva kubudirira kubudirira kwebasa iri kunobva paupenyu hwavo hwehupenyu hwehupenyu hwehupenyu uye huchava chii.
Kana tichitaura nezvevanhu vakuru vane utano hwakanaka, zvakasikwa uye zvakajairika, kana nehukama hwepedyo pakati pavo pachava nekukanganiswa kwepabonde kune umwe neumwe.
Zvechokwadi, mumwe munhu ane ukama padanho rekukurukurirana kweplonioni kwenguva refu, mumwe - zvishoma. Izvo zvinoenderana nezvimwe zvinhu: kurera, kutya kusakanganiswa kwekutarisa, kutya kwekupiswa, kusasvibiswa kwehutano, uye kungova muduku. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti kurota kwepabonde pamusoro peZvirokwazvo hazvikuvadzi hupenyu hwako nekutarisira kusingaperi kana kuongororwa kwomumwe wako nesimba. Uye fungidzira iwe pachako: zvisinei kuti tiri kurota zvakadini pamusoro pechirudo chakanaka, zivo kuti iwe unofadza kumunhu wako, inoita kuti tifare zvechokwadi uye tive nechivimbo matiri uye muhukama.