Simba remumwe munhu anofungidzira rinonyanya kuoneka kuvana, kana chimwe chinhu chiri pachena. Zvino inotanga kuona vamwe vana uye inoseka mumwe munhu akave akasiyana navo.
Iro psychology yekuvimba nemumwe munhu kufunga kwakaoma zvikuru. Maererano nevasayendisiti, izvi zvakabva kwenguva yakareba, apo vanhu vaigara mumombe, uye kuti vararame, zvakanga zvakakodzera kusungirirana pamwechete.
Asi ikozvino, pane imwe nguva apo zvisikwa zviri pamusoro pezvimwe zvose, kunzwa kwekuregerera uye chido chekufadza muvakidzani kunongodzivisa.
Kutaura nezvokuti ungamira sei zvichienderana nemafungiro eumwe munhu, zvakakosha kubhadhara nzira dzepfungwa dzekuregeredza pfungwa dzevamwe.
Munhu wose anofanira kuedza kumira zvichienderana nemafungiro evamwe, kubva pane tsika yakaipa. Kutanga, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti munhu wese akaenzana, ndicho chikonzero pfungwa dzevamwe vanhu dzisinganyanyi kukosha kupfuura dzako.
Zvadaro, zvakakosha kuziva kuti chinangwa chei chinogadzirirwa hupenyu. Uye tarisa pane zviito zvako zvose kuburikidza nejeri rechinangwa ichi. Kana mumwe munhu akaseka iwe uye achifunga kuti wakanganisa, saka, zvichida, uyu munhu chipingamupinyi pakuzadzisa chinangwa ichi, uye iwe haufaniri kuisa hanya nazvo.
Nzira yekubvisa sei kuvimba nemafungiro eumwe munhu?
Kana iwe wakatotamira pane maonero ehurumende chero ipi zvayo yaunovimba nayo zvakakwana, iwe unofanirwa kushandisa nzira yakasiyana.
Yeuka kana munhu uyu akaita zvikanganiso muupenyu hwake. Kana mhinduro yacho hongu, zvino maonero ako haafaniri kutendeseka kwako kusingazungunuki.
Edza kuwedzera denderedzwa rako rezivo - tsvaga vanhu vanofunga. Kunzwa kuti iwe hausi woga nguva dzose wakapa chivimbo mune chero basa.
Mubvunzo wekuti ungamira sei kutarisa kufunga kweumwe munhu kune kukosha kunoshamisa munguva yedu, nokuti kubudirira kubudirira, pane kungoramba chete - zvakakosha kumira kunze kwevanhu kuti vaonekwe.