Musoro wekukura kwevanhu nhasi uri pamiromo yevose. Akazvipira mabhuku akawanda, marudzi ose ekudzidziswa, nezvimwe. Kune vanhu vanonzwisisa izwi iri sekudzidza kubva pane zvakaitika uye ruzivo, kukwidza hutano hwehuchenjeri, asi vanhu vakadaro vanogona kuva nezvinetso nekukurukurirana uye kuzviremekedza. Nokudaro, kukura kwomunhu oga uye kuzvidzora kune pfungwa dzakadzama dzinosanganisira zvose zvehupenyu hwehupenyu.
Nzira yekutanga kuzvidzora sei?
Inofanira kutaurirwa kuti izvi zvinopfuurira uye pasina kubatanidzwa kwevanhu, nokuti anokura, "mapfundo emakumbo," anokonzera kugadzirisa uye saka anogadzirisa unhu hwake hwemukati. Asi kushingaira kwekukura kweumwe munhu kune rimwe basa rakasiyana, richiratidza kuti munhu anozviisa akazviisa chinangwa muupenyu uye anoenda kwaari, anoedza kuhuwana uye anochinja zvaanotenda kwaari. Iyi nzira haigoneki kunze kwekuzvitsvaira, kukunda kwezuva nezuva pamusoro pako uye kutya kwako. Muhutano hwekuzvikudziridza, kukura kwomunhu kunonzi nzira yekufara nekubudirira .
Chii chaunoda kuti uzviite? Heano mamwe ematanho:
- Kuzvida iwe nerudo rusingadi. Usapomera mhosva yezvikanganiso, usazvidza. Pane kudaro, zvipe iwe mukana wekuti nguva inotevera yaunoedza kuita zviri nani, shandura chimwe chinhu, chichakubatsira iwe kuzvitarisa iwe nemaziso akasiyana.
- Tora mutoro wehupenyu hwako iwe pachako. Vakawanda vanokanganisa kukanganisa kwavo kune ani zvake, vasingazivi kuti iyi ndiyo mamiriro emwana, uye kwete evanhu vakuru. Zvinotanga kutanga kuita chimwe chinhu kunze kwekuvhara vanhu vari pedyo. Semuenzaniso, kuzvitsvaga kuwana rimwe basa, enderera chero dzidzo dzekudzidzisa kana kukwira kumusoro kweEverest. Hungu, zvichange zvichityisa, asi zviri shure kwechitsva uye zvisingazivikanwi kuti chimwe chinhu chichazarura chichakurudzira kukura kwevanhu.
- Kuzvidzivirira kwevanhu kunopa kurasikirwa kwezvose zvisina kunaka, izvo zvinoita kuti hupenyu huve nani. Kune mumwe munhu tsika dzakaipa, asi kune mumwe munhu denderedzwa yekukurukurirana. Zvakakosha kutenda mukati mako uye kuti hupenyu hunogona kuva hwakanaka, iwe unongoda kuite danho rekutanga.
- Kuzvidzivirira kumadzimai ndeyekusiya kushorwa kweumwe munhu, kusanganisira ini. Kune vanhu vasina kukwana, uye kana chido chokururamisa mumwe munhu achimuka, iwe unongoda kubvunza, uye izvi zvichaita sei kuti hupenyu hwako hufare uye hufare?
Pane zvakawanda zvakadai, asi chinhu chikuru hachisi chokudzokorora hupenyu hwako nekuda kwemazuva. Yakapfupika uye zvinokosha kuti urarame iko pano uye ikozvino, uye naizvozvo iyo yakanga isinganyanyi kunetseka nokuda kwekusava nemakore yakabviswa.