Mubvunzo wekuti ingava zvinhu zvakakura sei, kunetseka varume (uye dzimwe nguva vakadzi) kwenguva refu. Kunyanya iye zvino, apo Indaneti yakazadza zviziviso zvinoshambadza nezvekuwedzera kwepenisi. Yenguva yekutora "i", kamwechete uye yose, kusarudza kukosha kwehukuru.
Mubvunzo wekuti chirume chinotarisirwa here, vakadzi vanofanira kusarudza, vakarurama? Kuda kwake munhu achagamuchira chero zvipi zvaro, asi kune mumwe waanofambidzana naye. Zvisinei, zviitiko izvi kazhinji hazvina maturo, sezvo vakadzi vakawanda vanoona panguva yepabonde kwete vaginal, asi clitoral orgasm, iyo iyo yakakura yepenisheni inogona kuisa mutsauko.
Mukukurukurirana kwevakadzi pamusoro pekuti ukuru hwepenisi yakakosha sei, unogona kunzwa kunyunyuta pamusoro pemuviri mukuru kwazvo, nokuti zvinotambudza. Muchiitiko ichi, hukuru hukuru hunogona kuonekwa hwakanyanya kupfuura huduku. Ndicho chikonzero nei nhema yokuti "zvakanyanya, zviri nani" hazvina zvikonzero chaiwo. Nenzira iyi, ukuru hwepenisheni inokosha kunze kwekuti ndeyekuona zvinonyadzisira chete.
Mukufunga kwepfungwa, ukuru hwepenisi hunokosha kana murume akaoma nekuda kweizvi. Nokuti munhu ane chivimbo anogona nyore nyore kuwana nzira yekugutsikana nemudzimai kune chero mamiriro ezvinhu. Usakanganwa kuti kune matambudziko akasiyana anopa zvakawanda, kana kana uchida, kupinda mukati kudarika, nekuda kwaungagona mune chero zvipi zvayo kugona kukunda zvepabonde. Nokudaro, kunyange kana uwandu hwepenisi hwakakosha mune zvepabonde, uye chero zvakadaro zvose zvinogona kutarisirwa. Izvo zvingava "mudiwa akanaka" zviri mumurume pachake, mukuda kwake kufadza mumwe wako, uye kwete muhukuru hwomuviri wake. Mushure mezvose, kana munhu asingadi kugutsa musikana uye anongobatsira zvake oga, ipapo chero chiyero chaasina kukwanisa kuzvikudza nacho, mukadzi haafariri kuita zvepabonde naye.