Sei kukanganwa mukomana?

Zvaiita sokunge nokusingaperi. Zvaiita sokuti hapana kana uye hapana chinogona kukuparadzanisa iwe. Iwe wakadzungaira uchifamba-famba neguta wakabata maoko, iwe wakanga uchitya uye uchifara, uye vaipfuura-vachinyemwerera, vachikutarisa pamugwagwa ... Uye zvino zvapera. Iwe hausisiri pamwe chete. Uye kunyange kana kuparadzana kuri kuita kwako, kubvisa munhu waunoda mupfungwa kwakaoma zvikuru. Zvinosuruvarisa, hakuna mushonga we rudo, rudo, tsika. Hapana chiremba kwauri pamubvunzo uyu: "Chii chaunofanira kuita kuti ukanganwe mukomana uyu?" Haazopinduri uye anopa mishonga yaanonwa, uye pakarepo yakava yakanaka. Zviri mumusoro wako, uye iwe chete unoziva kukanganwa wako wekare-mukomana nokusingaperi. Ngatiedzei kuwana nzira pamwe chete.

Kutanga, taurira shamwari dzako dzose neshamwari yako yega kuti hausisiri murume, uye uri kuedza kuwana nzira dzekukanganwa uyu. Regai zvizivikanwe kuti hausisiri pamwe chete. Iwe haufaniri kuti vakuyeuchidze pamusoro pake zvakare.

Vamwe vasikana vanoedza kuwana nzira yekubuda mumamiriro ezvinhu kuburikidza nekuteerera mazano evanodzidza nezvepfungwa. Uye vanokurudzira chii? Kubva pane mazano akasiyana-siyana ekufunga nezvekukanganwa mukomana, kucherechedza kwangu kwakakonzerwa nechimwe, chinonyanya kufadza, mumaonero angu, mazano. Iwe unofanirwa kuuya nemutsara wemutsara. Zvakanaka, chimwe chinhu chine "Zvakanaka ..." kana, seScarlett akati: "Handichafungi nezvazvo nhasi, ndichafunga mangwana." Uye nguva dzose kana pfungwa dzako dzichidzokera kumashure, unoda kudzokorora mutsara uyu. Zvichida, kwenguva yekutanga iwe unofanira kuitaura zvakare, asi chii chaungaita? Moscow haina kusimbiswa nokukurumidza.

Gara pasi, tora chigamba chepepa uye nyora pamusoro payo zvinhu zvose zvisina kunaka zvekare wako. Unofunga kuti haanazvo here? Munhu wese ane zvayo, hatingozvioni ivo pavanoswedera pedyo, kana vari murudo. Iwe unotanga, iwe uchazviona iwe pera.

Kurukura kakawanda neshamwari. Enda navo kuti vafambe muzvitoro kana kungogara mu cafe. Izvo zviri nani kudarika chero nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinokupa mazano ekukanganwa murume. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, kana iwe usingafambi zvakanaka nezvinyorwa zvepakutanga, dzichawana zvikanganiso zvakawanda muwaimbova mukomana wako, kunyange dai waiva negodo rekuvanzika.

Enda kunzvimbo yakanaka. Gadzira zvakaputika bvudzi kana kuti kadhiinja shandura bvudzi rako, shandura ruvara. Vanotaura kuti migumo yebvudzi iri kuenda kune zvose zvese zvatisingadi, uye shure kwezvose, isu nemwi tinongoda kuibvisa, zvakanaka?

Chii chimwe chandingaita kuti ndikanganwe mukomana uyu? Iva nemhiko mukudzidza kana basa. Ndokusaka iye wamusiya munguva pfupi yapfuura. Icho ndechokuda kwemazwi uye rudo. Ino ndiyo nguva yekubata. Shenya munzvimbo yaro uye ipapo, pakutanga, kuzvikudza kwako kuchakwira, uye rwechipiri, iwe uchava nenguva shoma yekuyeuka mukomana uye kutambura pamusoro payo!

Zatei achichenesa imba. Zvakakosha kupukuta dzose mashefu evhu, zvechokwadi, pane dzakawanda zvipo zvavakapiwa. Sarudza bhokisi rakasiyana, kana iri rakaderera chetafura yefurafura, mauri iwe usingaoneke, uye uise zvinhu zvose zvinomuyeuchidza nezvomuimbova munhu. Mamwe mapepa ako akabatana, zvipo zvake zvose uye mapcards. Nenzira, panguva ino, hazvingave zvakaipa kuti ubvise mashizha ayo nemamera kubva papefoni. Zvadaro, rimwe zuva, uchawana zvose izvi, uye izvi zvinyorwa zvichaita kuti iwe unyeuke zvinonakidza. Rimwe zuva, asi kwete ikozvino.

Nenzira yakawanda, nzira yakanakisisa yekukanganwa mumwe munhu ndeyekuwana imwe! Enda kumabhuku uye uende mumapaki, enda kumamyuziyamu uye mafirimu, unosangana nevakomana uye uchitamba navo. Iye zvino haisi kungoita chete kuti iwe uite izvi, kwekutanga kokupedzisira munguva yepfumbamwe yenguva, asi zvakare inokosha zvachose. Mumugwagwa wako, munharaunda yako, muguta rako, kana vakawanda vakanaka, uye mumwe nomumwe wavo nemufaro achakubatsira kukanganwa murume, kunyange iye pachake asina kuziva nezvazvo!