Saramente yekubhabhatidzwa kwechecheche nhasi yakakomberedzwa nehukuru hwezvitendero. Vabereki vakawanda, vanoteerera shamwari dzavo uye hama, vanopedzisira vaona kuti kuburikidza nerubatsiro rwemuitiro uyu vachaponesa mwana wavo kubva pazvirwere, iye acharara zvakanaka uye ave akanyarara. Ichokwadi, saramende yemubhapatidzo wemwana inowanikwa mumucheche anopinda muChechi. Iyi mhemberero inobvumira mwana kugamuchira kubva kuna Mwari nyasha dzaMweya Mutsvene. Uyewo, rubhabhatidzo runobatsira mwana kukura mumweya, kusimbisa murutendo rwake nekuda Mwari nomuvakidzani.
Zvinosuruvarisa, vabereki vazhinji vanobhabhatidza vana vavo, vachibhadhara mutero kumashini. Pasina kupinda muhutano hwepedyo hweSaramente yekubhabhatidzwa kwevana, vabereki vanogona, villy-nilly, kuputsa mitemo mimwe yemitambo, iyo inonyanya kukosha kumwana. Uye sezvo saramende yemubhapatidzo wemwana kuberekwa kwake kwemweya, anofanira kunge akagadzirira zvakanaka.
Kugadzirira kweSakaramende yekubhabhatidzwa
Chokutanga pane zvose, vabereki nevanamwarikadzi vemunguva yemberi vanofanira kushanyira kereke iyo kubhabhatidzwa kuchaitwa. Pamusangano pachawo iwe waunoda: muchinjikwa kumwana wako, shati yechiKristu, tauro uye makenduru. Zvose izvi zvinogona kutengwa pachitoro chechechi. Maererano netsika, muchinjikwa uye mufananidzo nemufananidzo wemubati anopiwa mwana nevanamwari vake. Pamberi pokubhabhatidzwa kwevabereki uye godfather, munhu anofanira kureurura muchechi uye kutora kudyidzana.
Vabereki vanofanira kuziva kuti sevanamwari vasingakwanisi kusarudza: vatongi, vanhu vari pasi pezera remakore gumi nemaviri, vakaroorana.
Shandamende yakabhabhatidzwa sei?
Nzira yemazuva ano yekubhapatidzwa inobva pane imwe ndima inobva muBhaibheri, apo Johane Mubhabhatidzi akabhabhatidza Jesu Kristu. Saramende yekubhabhatidzwa kwevana vachechedzirwa katatu yevana mumvura nekudzokorora mamwe minyengetero. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, inobvumirwa kudururira mwana katatu nemvura. Hezvino izvo zvinorehwa nesakaramende yekubhabhatidzwa kwechecheche zvinoita se:
- Vabereki uye vanamwarikadzi vanofanira kuva vatendi vechiKristu;
- vanamwarikadzi vanofanira kutaura mazwi akavanzika;
- mwana wacho anofanira kubhabhatidzwa katatu mumvura.
Munguva yekare, vana vakabhabhatidzwa pazuva rechinomwe rokuberekwa. Munharaunda yemazuva ano, kutevedzera mutemo uyu hazvidiwi. Asi vabereki vanoda kubhabhatidza mwana pazuva 8, rangarirai kuti mukadzi haabvumirwi kushanyira kereke kwemazuva makumi mana mushure mokuberekwa. Muchiitiko ichi, mwana ari mumaoko emaanamwari, uye amai vamire pamusuwo wechechi.
Panguva yemubhabhatidzo, mwana anopiwa zita iro riripo kune Vatsvene. Pakupedzisira, yaiva tsika yekupa mwana zita raSaint, uyo akazvarwa musi iwoyo. Nhasi, mwana anogona kubhabhatidzwa nemazita chero ani zvake. Kana zita iro vabereki rakapa vana vavo pakuberekwa harisipo kubva pababa, ipapo muprista anosarudza zita iro rinoenderana nekubhabhatidzwa.
Vana vari pasi pemakore manomwe ekubhapatidzwa vanoda chete kubvumirwa kwevabereki vavo. Pazera kubva pamakore manomwe kusvika ku14 kubhabhatidza, kubvumirana kwomwana kunokosha zvakare. Mushure memakore gumi nemana, kubvumirwa kwevabereki hakudi.
Pamwe pamwe nesakaramende yekubhabhatidzwa, saramende yekumanikidzwa inoitwa. Kuitwa Chrismation chirongwa chinotarisirwa kusati kwave kubatanidzwa , izvo zvinoitika kana pazuva rekubhabhatidzwa, kana mushure mechinguva mushure maro.
Saramende yekubhapatidzwa kwechecheche inokosha uye inoyevedza tsika, iyo vabereki vanofanira kutarisirwa nezvose zvinotarisirwa. Rubhabhatidzo runozarura mukova wemwana munyika yemweya, uye mune izvi anoda rubatsiro rwevabereki vake.