Kuonekwa kwomwana mumhuri hakusi mufaro uye mufaro chete, asiwo mamwe matambudziko, uye kana mwana wechipiri akaberekwa, uye kunyange nekamupfupi kadiki mushure mekutanga, manzwiro ose nezvinetso zvinowedzera kaviri. Vakawanda vanogona vanaamai vemamiriro ekunze vanotya kuitika kwezvinetso, kutya kwakasiyana-siyana uye kusava nechokwadi kunodzivhiringidza panguva yekuzvitakura kwechipiri. Mumwe munhu anotya kuti rudo rwake harukwani kune vana vaviri, uye mumwe munhu anotya nedambudziko redzimba remhuri. Kana iwe uchitenda mhinduro dzemamamu evana paInternet, zvakaoma chete gore rokutanga, zvino rinowedzera nyore.
Chokutanga pane zvose, panguva yekuzvitakura kunokosha kugadzirira mwana akwegura kuti aonekwe nhengo itsva yemhuri. Tsanangura kunononoka kuti nokukurumidza iye achava neshamwari yakanakisisa uye murume wepedyo, hama yake kana hanzvadzi. Dzidzisa mwana wako kuzvimiririra, uye iva nechokwadi chekumurumbidza kana ari kukubatsira neimwe nzira. Kusimudza mamiriro ekunze hakutambudziki iwe kana iwe uchienda kune iyo zvinyararire, zvakashata uye pasina manzwiro asina kufanira. Zvakakosha kugadzirisa maitiro ezuva remamiriro ekunze kuitira kuti pave pasina mamiriro apo amai vanofanira kubvarurwa pakati pevana vaviri.
Nzira nekutadza kubereka vana-mamiriro okunze
Muchitarisiko chevana, mamiriro ekunze mumhuri ane zvinyorwa zvayo uye minuses. Kubatsira kukuru, hongu, ndeyekuti vana vachava shamwari dzepamberi mune ramangwana, zvinodiwa zvinodiwa nemitambo zvichavaunganidza pamwechete. Kungova nharo huru "ye" mamiriro ekunze ndiyo mhinduro yemari yezvemari, kunyanya pakutanga kwekutanga: zvinhu, zvipfeko, zvidhori zvichabva nhaka kubva kumwana mukuru kuduku kusvika kune muduku, izvo zvichachengetedza bhajeti yemhuri. Vanaamai vakawanda vane mubvunzo: sei kufamba nemagodkami? Uye tarirai ito inenge iri dambudziko, asi yakagadziriswa! Zvose zvinoenderana nenguva yegore, nguva yevana nehutano hwavo, kuvapo kwevamwe vanovabatsira, uye mararamiro ehupenyu hwemai. Kuti ubatsire kuuya muchengeti wepamusoro kana kupfigira mwana; hama dzinenge dzakagadzirira kuenda newe munzira; nzvimbo dzekutamba dzevana. Chinhu chikuru, yeuka: kuberekwa kwemamiriro ekunze hakufaniri kukumanikidza kutyisa, panguva yakakodzera iwe uchava nemitambo yako, uye kufamba nevana vaviri, kukudzwa kuzviita, kunotanga kuunza mufaro kune vana chete.
Iye zvino, kazhinji hapana munhu anosarudza kumwana wechitatu, uye kuonekwa mumhuri yehutano hwakasiyana-siyana yehutano ndeyechokwadi pamwe.
Kunzwisisa nzira yekugadzirisa nayo pogodki inouya chete nehupenyu, hapana kana iwe unogona kuora mwoyo uye kutya. Iva nechokwadi chekuratidza rudo rwako kumakumbo maviri, zvichida pakutanga pakutanga kunyange kumwana mukuru, kuitira kuti asanzwire godo kana kusabatsiri. Kurukura pamwe nemamwe madzimai emamiriro ekunze, kugoverana manzwiro ako uye zvakaitika. Iva nechokwadi, hauzombozvidembi zvakadaro danho rinokurumidza, uye mushure mechinguva, iwe uchayeuka nguva ino yehupenyu nekumwemwerera uye unyoro.