Nzira yekusunungura munhu sei mufaro usingakanganwiki?

Kune zvakawanda zvinyorwa zvehukama hwepedyo hwekufadza sei munhu anodikanwa, naizvozvo nyaya ino haisi pamusoro peiyo.

Pano iwe uchataurirwa nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana kutsanangura nzira yekuendesa kunakidzwa kukuru kune murume kwete muimba yekurara chete, asi kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzehupenyu hwako pamwechete.

Vakawanda vakadzi, kupinda muukama nemurume, vachienda kunogara naye, yeuka chete uye kuti ungaita sei muhukama hwepedyo kuitira kuchengetedza unodikanwa "navo". Sezvo zvinouya kuhupenyu, zvinetso zviduku zvekugara pamwe chete, madzimai anowanzomira pakufa uye kunze kwekuti zvipikisa uye kuchema hazvigone kubuda mumamiriro acho ezvinhu.

Iwe unogona sei kufadza murume?

Shoko rakanaka uye katsi rakanaka, tingati chii nezvevamiriri vehurumende yakasimba. MuEgypt yekare yaitenda kuti kana musikana achida mukati, murume wake achadawo. Kufanana kwechimiro chechikadzi neyechiremera chiri pachena. Varume, semakati, kune zvisingaiti ndezvechokwadi chekusava nechokwadi kwavo uye kuti mudzimai akasika kuti atarisire avo vanodiwa. Mukadzi anofanira kunzwisisa chimiro chakadai uye kuchibata nekunzwisisa. Muenzaniso wekuita kwakanaka munyaya iyi haungavhiringidzi murume wacho kwezana zana nguva yokuti kamputi iri kushanda mukicheni, uye kumurumbidza nekuda kwechinhu chakanaka chaakatoita.

Aya mazano anotevera ekutsvaga kufadza kusina kufanira kumurume ane hanya nezvose zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti nzira inoenda kumwoyo wemurume inorara mudumbu. Ongorora mukicheni pasina chero kutya, nokuti iwe unofarira hakuna mumwe munhu anoziva zvinonakidza kufadza wake getter. Panguva imwe chete, kana zvichiitika, zvakakosha kugadzira chimwe chinhu maererano neshoko rakagadziriswa.Shure kwezvose, mukicheni, semamwe mavamwe "ma workshop ekugadzira," fiasco inogona kuitika, uye munhu, pasinei neizvi, achauya ane nzara kubva kubasa uye achida kudya. Uyewo yeuka kuti kuvhenekera kwechiedza uye Saladi haifaniri kunzwisiswa nevadiwa vako, nokuti hutano hwakasimba hunozivikanwa nekuda kwekudhakwa kwenyama, yakakwirira-calori uye zvikafu zvinovaka muviri.

Sezvo tatoona nheyo inoti "nzira yekuunza nayo mufaro chaiyo kune mazano evanhu" haisi nyore, sezvinoonekwa pakutanga zvinoratidzika. Kubva kumusikana kuti anzwisise unyanzvi huno hwakaoma hunoda kushanda nesimba nekushivirira. Chiitiko mumubhedha chakanaka, asi usina kukwanisa kuwirirana pamwe muupenyu hwezuva nezuva, hukama hwako huchava hurefu kwenguva refu, saka iwe unofanirwa kuteerera mazano evadzidzisi.