Mubereki mumwe nomumwe anoedza kumutsa mwana wake, zvichibva pane zvaanofunga pamusoro pezvaanofanira kuva munhu mukuru. Tinoda kukura kubva kumukomana muduku ane simba, ane njere, murume akangwara uye ane ushingi, anokwanisa kuva mutarisiri uye mudziviriri wemhuri yake. Mukadzi, maererano nemafungiro anowanzozivikanwa, anofanira kuva mudzimai munyoro uye akaoma, ane mutsa uye ane rudo, mudzimai ane rudo namai, muchengeti wemusha.
Maererano nezvinodiwa, tinosimudza vanakomana vedu nevanasikana. Mukuvakwa kwekakodzero yakakwana yehutano (hutano hwepabonde) yekudzidzira kwevana vabereki nevadzidzisi vanobatsirwa nemitambo yakadaro, maererano nevana vana vakadzidza maitiro ekuita.
Mutambo wacho senzira yekudzidzisa vechikoro
Mutambo, maererano nevadzidzisi, ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekudzidza chero chinhu. Mushure mezvose, vana vane makore 3-5 havagone kugara pamadhoroki, vachida kubvunzwa. Kutamba, mwana wacho haafungi nezvekuti ichi chiri kudzidza uye chimwe chinhu chavanoda kubva kwaari. Anongoita zvinonakidza kwaari zviito uye nyore, anonyatsoyeuka mashoko akawanda anodiwa.
Kuita zvepabonde kwevadzidzi vekuchikoro ndeimwe nzira yekutsanangura kuti vasikana nevakomana vanofanira kuzvibata sei, chii chinotonga tsika dzavo munzanga inoteerera. Izvo zvakasimbiswa kwenguva refu zve "vakomana nevanasikana, zviputi" zvave zvichingoitika kwenguva refu, nzira dzemazuva ano dzekuvandudza kwekutanga dzinotaura zvakajeka. Mukuwedzera, muganhu pakati pemabasa ehurume nehukadzi hunowanzosvibiswa, vakadzi vakawanda vanofarira pfungwa dzevakadzi. Nokuda kweizvi, zviri kuoma zvikuru kuti chizvarwa chechidiki chienderane nebasa ravo, uye vabereki vazhinji uye zvikurukuru vanambuya vanopesana nemitambo mitsva, apo mitambo yevakomana muhombwa ne "vanasikana-amai" haisi kungogadziriswa, asi vanokurudzirwa, uye vasikana vanorota kuva kwete amai veimba, asi, vanoti, mutungamiriri wehurumende.
Mienzaniso yemitambo yebonde muchikoro chechikoro
Vadzidzisi vekorojiko vane basa rinokosha munyaya iyi. Kushandisa nguva yakawanda nevana, vane mukana wekuchinja maitiro avo, kusanganisira zvepabonde, nenzira yakarurama. Semuenzaniso, vakomana vanofanira kudzidziswa kuti hazvigone kukanganisa vasikana, nokuti ivo vasina simba; Pane zvakasiyana, zvakakosha kupa vasikana nzvimbo, tambai mberi, fungai uye mubatsire. Izvi zvinogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nemitambo inotevera, iyo inokurudzirwa pakati pemapoka uye mapoka makuru, nokuti iri pwere iri duku kuti vana vanodzidza sayenzi yekukurukurirana pamwe chete.
- "Musha unofarira . " Kumbira vana kuti vabike kudya kwekudya uchishanda chikafu. Vabatsire kuti vaparidzire mabasa: vasikana vanorayira, vakomana vanobatsira. Mushure memutambo, taura nevana, vaudze kuti vanababa vanofanira kugara vachibatsira amai vari pamba. Tsvaga kuti ndiani uye sei angabatsira amai vako kumba.
- Imba Youshamwari . Garai vana vose vari mudenderedzwa nemumwe (mukomana-musikana) uye muvape muumbi. Tanga imwe tsanangudzo yemugadziri mudenderedzwa, uye regai mwana mumwe nomumwe, aisungirire kune iyo inotevera uye apfuurire, achati kuonga kumumiri wevakomana vakasiyana. Somuenzaniso: Vanya chii? - Akanaka, akasimba, anomhanyira zvakasimba, anosvetuka kumusoro, haagumbidzi vasikana, haarwi. Masha chii? - Akanaka, ane mutsa, akatendeseka, akarurama, nezvimwewo. Uyu mutambo unobatsira vana kuti vanzwisise kuti mumunhu wese pane chimwe chinhu chakanaka chinogona uye chakakosha kuva shamwari pakati pavo. Vaka imba "yehukama" yakakura kubva kumugadziri.
- "Hama . " Itai kuti vana vadzidze nezvehutano hwehukama hwemhuri uye edza kuyeuka kuti ndiani ane: kune vanasekuru naambuya ivo vana vazukuru, vanamainini nevamunini - vazukuru, nezvimwewo. Mumutambo uyu, makadhi ane mazwi akanyorwa pamusoro pavo achave akabatsira. Iwe unogona kuita mhuri duku yemhuri yavo.
- "Vanasikana Vamai . " Uyu mutambo mumhuri chaiyo - vasikana vanove mummai, uye vakomana - baba. Vabereki vanoenda kushanda, vanaamai vanorera vana. Zvadaro basa rinoshanduka - papa ane zuva uye anogara kumba nemwana, uye Amai vanoenda kunoshanda. Uyu mutambo unobatsira mwana mumwe nomumwe kuti anzwisise kuti zvose zviri zviviri mumhuri ndizvo zvakakosha uye zvakaenzana zvakaoma.