Nzvimbo yehutano hwemunhu chiratidzo chekukwirira kwepamusoro munharaunda inotorwa nomunhu. Izvi hazvirevi kuti tsanangudzo yemabasa: chimiro chomunhu chinogona kusiyana zvichienderana nehutano hwake, makore, chikwata chemhuri kana basa. Iyi nharaunda pahutano hwemagariro haisi kungotarisa nzvimbo yemunhu, asi inopawo simba kune dzimwe kodzero nemabasa. Kune rumwe rutivi rwevanhu, vanogona kunge vakasiyana.
Nzira yekuziva sei nzvimbo yemagariro evanhu?
Hazvisiko kufunga kuti munhu mumwe nomumwe ane unhu hwemunhu. Mumwe nomumwe wedu ane zvigadziro zvakasiyana panguva imwechete, izvo zvinoenderana nehurongwa hwavanotaura. Semuenzaniso, mukadzi wehutano hwemagariro evanhu anogona kuva mazhinji-akabatanidzwa: iye, somuenzaniso, ane mudzimai, amai, mwanasikana, hanzvadzi, mushandi wekambani, wechiKristu, uye nhengo yehurumende. Zvose zvezvikamu izvi zvinonzi nzvimbo yakagadzirirwa. Kubva pamuenzaniso wepamusoro, tinoona chinogadzirisa hutano hwevanhu: iyi ndiyo mamiriro ekuroorana, uye maonero ezvitendero, uye basa rezvemhizha, uye zvido zvevanhu, nezvimwewo.
Sezvo mutemo, munhu iyeye pachake anogadzirisa unhu hwake hwemagariro evanhu-zvepfungwa, asi izvi zvinobatanidzwa neboka iro vamwe vanhu vanozivikanwa, pakutanga. Mukuwedzera, zvinogona kuchinja mararamiro ehupenyu hwemunhu: somuenzaniso, tinoshandura mamiriro edu apo patinowana dzidzo yakakwirira, kugadzira mhuri, kuwana basa idzva, nezvimwe.
Mitauro yemagariro evanhu
Kune miviri miviri mikuru yezviremera zvevanhu pahutano hwevanhu: inowanikwa uye yakatarwa (yakaberekerwa) yehuwandu hwehupenyu. Chokutanga chazvo chinoratidzwa nemunhu anowana muhupenyu hwake: hutano hwezvedzidzo, maonero ezvematongerwe enyika, basa, nezvimwewo. Izvo zvakatemerwa zvehutano hwevanhu ndezvezvinopihwa kuvanhu nemasikirwo: nyika, mutauro, nzvimbo yekuzvarwa, nezvimwe.
Zvisinei, haasi mitemo yese yemagariro evanhukadzi nevarume inofananidzwa zvakaenzana nevamwe. Vamwe vavo vanoremekedzwa, uye vamwe - pane zvinopesana. Ukuru hwekukudzwa kunobva pane zvakadai sekushandiswa kweimwe nzvimbo yevanhu uye hutano hunoshanda huri munharaunda iyoyo.
Mukuwedzera, pane mhando dzakasiyana dzehupenyu hwehutano hwevanhu: munhu oga uye boka. Chimiro cheunhu pachake inzvimbo yepamusoro yeboka duku revanhu, iro rinosangana nemunhu nguva dzose. Somuenzaniso, boka iri rinogona kuva mhuri, vashandi kana kambani yeshamwari. Sezvo mutemo, iye anotsunga nezvounhu hwake uye unhu hwakasiyana-siyana hweunhu.
Boka rehutano hunofanidza munhu semunhu weboka guru revanhu. Izvi zvinosanganisira nzvimbo yemunhu se
Zvichienderana nehutano hwevanhu, munhu anochinja maitiro ake. Somuenzaniso, pamusha murume baba nababa, uye anozvibata maererano. Uye kubasa iye purofesa uye mudzidzisi, uye, saizvozvo, achaita zvakasiyana zvakasiyana. Zvichienderana nekuti munhu anonyatsoenderana sei kana mumwe wehutano hwake, vanotaura pamusoro pekukwanisa kwake kuzadzikisa maitiro ake evanhu. Ndicho chikonzero kune mazwi akadaro se "muongorori akanaka", "baba vakaipa", "shamwari yakanakisisa" - izvi zvose zvinoratidza chirevo ichi. Uye munhu mumwechete iyeye anogona kukwanisa kutarisana nemabasa avo evanhu, sei angave "akaipa" kubva pane imwe nzvimbo yekuona uye "yakanaka" pane imwe.