Kana mucheche hwomwana chinetso chikuru chevabereki chaive kuchengetedza hutano hwake, zvino muhucheche vanotarisana nezvinetso zvekurera nekudzokorora zvakare. Muchikamu chino, tichakurukura nzira dzokurwisana nechiitiko chakadai chakafanana mumamiriro evechiri kuyaruka sekunyengera.
Kunyadzisa inzira yakashata, ine utsinye uye isina utsinye yokukurukura nevamwe vanhu.
Kuvimbika kwevechidiki hakusi nguva dzose kunoratidzwa, asi kunongororwa kune zvimwe zvinhu:
- pamhuri;
- kazhinji vaisangana nevasingazivi, zvikurukuru vacheti, vana vaduku nevakadzi;
- vadzidzisi kana vaunodzidza navo.
Zvinokonzera kukonzerwa nekuyaruka
- utsinye hunofungwa rwechipiri, hunoonekwa pamusoro pekuchinja kwehutano hwevanhu vakuru, mitemo kana mararamiro ehupenyu, saka wechidiki anotaura kupesana kwake pamusoro peizvi;
- dambudziko remakore - nguva iyi inobatanidza nemafungiro e "kuitika kwekusakosha" - kushungurudza manzwiro emuviri wemwana chero chikonzero chipi nechipi, muviri wechiri kuyaruka unoshandisa izvi sekudzivirirwa kwekudzivirira kusanyanya kuderedza;
- kutsvaga miganhu yevakabvumirwa - iyo huru "neoplasm" yevechiri kuyaruka "mafungiro evanhu vakuru," uye vanoshandisa unyengeri uye unyengeri kurondedzera ndima yavo, kudzivirira kodzero yemafungiro avo;
- muenzaniso wega wevabereki;
- kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pezvakarurama zvezviito zvavo;
- zvinopesana nevadzidzi vekirasi kana zvipingamupinyi nezvidzidzo - kunyengera kunoshandiswa semuedzo wekutarisa matambudziko avo;
- kutungamirirwa kwekambani yakaipa - maererano nemutemo "Ndiri kufanana nevamwe vose", kuitira kuti tisasvike;
- kuwirirana mune dzidzo - vana vanoshandiswa kuva vasina tsika uye vasingateereri pavanotanga kusvika kuchikoro uye kuchikoro, vachiri kuyaruka - vanowedzera kukanganisa kwavo;
- kushaya simba pakati pevabereki - izvi zvinoitika nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana (kurasikirwa nebasa, kunyatsoratidzika, kukanganisa kwehukama hwevanhu, kuonekwa, kusakundikana kweupenyu, nezvimwewo).
Mazano kuvabereki: chii chaunofanira kuita?
Zvikonzero zvekuratidzwa kwekunyengera zvakanyanya, asi iwe unogona kuchinja hutsika uhwu uchishandisa mazano anotevera:
- shandura mararamiro ako (tevera kutaura uye nzira yekukurukura mumhuri);
- bvisa mararamiro ekutaurirana, tanga kuteerera nekugamuchira maonero evechiri kuyaruka, i.e. kuumba ushamwari;
- kunyarara kugadzikana nekurwiswa kwekunyengera kwevechiri kuyaruka, usatsamwira, usaratidze kuvhiringidzika kwako, asi usakanganwe;
- akadana chete maitiro ake akaipa, pasina kuchinja kune unhu;
- Dzidzisai mwana kuti aparadze mafungiro asina kunaka uye atumira zviitiko mune imwe nzira;
- anoziva kodzero yake yekuzvimiririra (kumusimbisa kuzvidzivirira zvishoma);
- tora matanho pamusoro pokuti anopika kamwechete, kusvikira yava tsika, somuenzaniso: pinda kurangwa kana kubhadhara mari pamakate;
- tsanangura kwaari kana uchigona kushandisa kutuka;
- panguva ipi zvayo usabvumira kusaremekedza iwe pachako, kuratidza kuti iwe unofanira kuremekedzwa kana iwe haungamuremekedzi;
- kunzwira tsitsi nematambudziko ake, kumubatsira kunze kwokugadzirisa, kazhinji kuratidza kuti unomuda;
- Usazvitsvakira zvisingabviri, kana akaziva kuti haagoni kuzadzisa zvaunoda, achadzivirirwa nekunyengera nekunyengera;
- mumhuri umo panofanira kuva nemimwe mitemo yekubata kune vose, uye kwete iye chete, kana zvisingaiti kune mumwe munhu, tinofanira kubva takurukura izvi;
- kunyange mushure mekukakavara, muratidze mwana wenyu kuti munomuda, asi zvakadaro iwe uchapomera mhosva dzakadaro.
Chinhu chakakosha mukudzidzisa vechidiki ndekugara uchifarira hupenyu hwake kuitira kuti urege kushevedza kuchinja kwakakosha uye kubvumira kushamwaridzana kwako nemwana kuti asaputika. Ipapo haazove asina hanya newe kana mumwe munhu.