Nhasi tichaedza kuongorora nzira yekukumbira ruregerero kubva kumurume kana iwe uchinzwa une mhosva. Uye nokuda kwekutanga zvakakosha kunzwisisa iwe pachako mitemo mikuru yekukumbira ruregerero kumurume:
- Zvechokwadi, mudiwa anodikanwa anoda kuuya nemashoko akanaka ekukumbira ruregerero, asi mutemo mukuru ndeyokuti kutendeuka kwako kunofanira kunge kwakarurama. Kunyatsokumbira ruregerero kwakakosha hazvikoshi zvakanyanya, kunyanya kana iwe wakagumburwa zvakanyanya;
- uyo anodiwa anofanira kunzwisisa kuti iwe unoziva kukanganisa kwako uye unoda kuvandudza mamiriro acho;
- Usaedza kuzviruramisa kuburikidza nekukanganisa mukukumbira ruregerero kune wako unoda kupomerwa guy. Hausi kuedza kuchinja chikamu chemhosva pamapfudzi ake, kuchidzorera mberi kwekupedzisira-ikozvino uri kukumbira kukanganwirwa;
- Usazvibatanidza, iwe usanyadzisa iwe pachako. Kumbira kukanganwirwa pane zvauri kunyangadza.
Nzira yekukumbira ruregerero kumurume?
Asi, hongu, zvichienderana nemamiriro acho ezvinhu, kukumbira ruregerero kumunhu kunogona kunge kwakasiyana kwazvo:
- pragmatic. Kana kukakavara kwakakomba, zvadaro zviri nani kugadzirisa uye kukurukura kukurukura. Kunyanya kana chikonzero chacho chifanotungamirirwa netsanangudzo. Kutaura zvaunofunga kuti hazvina kunaka mukati mako (uye kwete maitiro ake), unowedzera mukana wekutaura. Kunyanya kana iwe ukakumbira ruregerero kumurume wako, nokuti matambudziko ose mumhuri anofanira kutaurirana uye kugadziriswa pamwe chete, uye kwete zamyazyvatsya mabstract phrases;
- romantic. Zvinotendwa kuti chimiro chekukumbira ruregerero chakakodzera kuvasikana, asi izvi hazvirevi kuti munhu akagumburwa haafaniri kufara kugamuchira kubva kwauri chiratidzo chekucherechedza. Vakomana havasi kuparadzwa nemaitiro akanaka, uye kazhinji ndiyo nhanho iyi inobatsira kukonzera munhu akakanganisa kutaura. Iwe unogona kumubika keke nerunyorwa, ita bhaniro nekukumbira ruregerero, kuimba pasi pehwindo rewindo, kazhinji-kuratidza mafungiro;
- yakanyorwa. Kunyunyuta kwakanyorerwa kune munhu anodiwa ndiyo nzira yakanaka kune avo vasingazivi nzira yokusarudza mazwi. Chokutanga, saka iwe unogona kufunga pamusoro pezwi rimwe nerimwe, zvakanaka uye nemwoyo wose kuratidza kuzvidemba kwako. Kana mhosva yacho isingakoshi, iwe unogona
zviisei kumashoko akanaka ekunyora kana tsanangudzo pamusoro porusvingo mune social network; - humorous. Iyi nzira yakakodzera kana iwe uine mhosva "nenzira iri nyore" uye unonzwa kuti mukomana pachake haamirire, ndingakuregerera sei iwe. Mupe nguva inonakidza, kutumira kadhi rakashata, kana, somuenzaniso, kupa zvidhina nemashoko ayo anofanira kuiswa nokukurumidza mune hwaro hwehukama hwakasimba.
Nzira ipi yaungasarudza kusarudza, enda kumagumo. Sezvo madzitateguru edu akati: hakuna munhu anokanganisa chete asingatomboiti. Achakuregerera, iwe uchaona!