Mumazuva ekare, vakaroora uye vakaroorana vasina kukumbira kubvumirwa kwevechidiki, vachitungamirirwa nemutemo: "Achave ane mwoyo murefu-achawira murudo," uye kazhinji avo vanofamba pasi pekorona havana kunzwa manzwiro evanhu vavo vemazuva ano.
Nguva dzave dzakashandurwa, uye mubvunzo wekuda kwemaviri zvakarewo. Asi kuti ungawira sei murudo nemunhu wausingafungi manzwiro akadzika, uye kana iwe uchida kumanikidzira kumuda.
Anondida, uye ini?
Mamiriro ayo munhu anonyatsoda, uye imwe inosangana nemanzwiro eushamwari ane ushamwari, haisi matsva, asi magwepistori anotaura kuti hazvina tariro.
Nzira yekuwira sei murudo nemurume, kana iwe usingadi kumuda, asi anonyatsonakidzwa newe uye ari pedyo nemweya? Kunzwa kwerudo kwaari kunogona kuberekwa kana iwe uchida chaizvo.
Haisi chakavanzika chokuti rudo "ruchida rweAfrica" runopisa, uye runopisa. Kusimba kwakasimba kwenguva refu kunoberekwa pamusana pehukama uye kuremekedzana. Kana munhu ari murudo newe, iwe uri mudiwa chaizvo, zvose zvichabuda.
Ndinoda kuda!
Kuda mumwe munhu anokuda iwe, vanapfungwa dzepfungwa vanoti, hazvisi zvakaoma zvachose:
- edza zvakanyanya sekukwanisa kuva pamwe chete: zvichabatsira kuziva zvakadzama munhu ari murudo newe, uye zvinokwanisika kuti uchava ne "dzakawanda zvekubatana";
- usakurumidza kuita chisarudzo chairo pamusoro pekuyemura kwako: kuramba pano hakuna maturo, uye kungwarira uye kushivirira kuchabatsira kuona zvigaro zvaro uye kukanganisa sekunge kune kunze;
- usakakaha kana iwe unogona kuda munhu nekufamba kwenguva: hupenyu hunoonekwa hunofadza, kunyanya kana misangano pamwe naye ichikupa mufaro, uye anofarira iwe. Edza kuona mukati mazvo sezvinogona napo zvakanaka, kwete kupa zvakakosha zvidimbu zviduku uye zvikanganiso: shure kwezvose, mushure mezvose, hausi mutumwa kana muenzaniso.
Zvisinei, kusarudza kuti iwe unogona kuda munhu nenguva, usazvisunga kuti ude mumwe munhu asingafadzi kwauri, kana usina kukodzera rudo rwako . Kuita zvechisimba pamusoro pezvako uye kuurayiwa hakuna kubva pano: kana pasina huni uye manzwiro akanaka, hazvizoregi uye hazvizovi murudo.