Mumwe mutorwa muedzo kune vakadzi vasina kuroora vanoramba vakashamwaridzana naye. Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare ushamwari hwakadaro hunokura kuva chimwe chinhu chikuru. Kunyange zvazvo chirevo chakazivikanwa chichiti: "Iwe haugoni kuvaka mufaro kune rimwe dambudziko romumwe munhu" uye munhu wese anodanidzira "haabate murume wemumwe munhu", kazhinji mukadzi haaiti.
Kubvisa murume kunze kwemhuri hakusi nyore. Icho chiri chimiro chevarume vasina "kuenda." Zvechokwadi vanogona kuedzwa uye kubvumirana nekuita zvepabonde kwenguva pfupi, asi sarudza kuchinja kwenyika yose uye kusiya imba inofadza uye kuda mudzimai hazvikwanisi kune wese.
Vakadzi vazhinji vanobvuma pachena: "Ndinoda murume wemumwe munhu" kana kuti "Ndinoda murume wemumwe munhu", asi ndizvo chaizvoizvo? Usati waedza kutungamirira munhu kufunga, unoda here? Ndezvipi zvikonzero zvawakasarudza kutora danho iri? Kana iwe uchikurudzirwa nechishuwo chokurova mudzimai wepamusoro, shandisa bheji kana kusimudzira kuzviremekedza kwako, saka iyi haisi iyo inokurudzira zvikuru. Mushure mezvose, mushure mekunge iwe uchitarisana nemunyengeri anokwanisa uye nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare zvichaendesa pane mumwe mukadzi wechidiki uye anoyemura.
Nzira yekurova sei mumwe murume wemumwe munhu?
Zvechokwadi, iwe unogona kuenda uye nenzira iri nyore - kubata murume wemumwe munhu. Zvisinei, iyo nzira inoguma inogumira. Privorot inofanira kutsigirwa uye kana rimwe zuva iwe ukakanganwa kuidya, iwe unopedzisira uchitadza kurasikirwa nomunhu kamwe chete. Mukuwedzera, kubva kune zvakadaro kune varume vanowanzotambura noutano hwakanyanya.
Murume wemumwe murume mudzimai womumwe munhu - murume nemudzimai avo, zvichida kunze kwetsika kana nekuda kwevana vavo, vanorarama pamwe chete, asi manzwiro avo ave nguva yakazorora. Nzira yekuwana sei mumwe murume wemumwe munhu? Kunyangwe mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, hazvisi nyore kuwana munhu, asi zvichiri kuitika. Kuti uite izvi, nguva dzose ugarepo, umukurudzire nekuita zvepabonde, teerera zvakanyatsonaka, asi usava shamwari yake yakanaka uye kunyanya kukosha usamutsamwisa munhu - hapana munhu anofarira kuteerera hurukuro pane foni nemumwe murume.
Kana kuvhima vamwe varume vakatanga kuva tsika, zvino iyi chiratidzo chechokwadi chematambudziko emhuri. Kazhinji anobvumirana nevakadzi vakadzi razluchnitsy, vane hanya zvikuru. Uye kuisimudza nemufananidzo wakadaro hazvibviri.