Hazvina mhosva kuti amai vake vanomuda sei, zvisinei kuti anoda sei kuva naye nguva dzose uye kuva shamwari yake yepamwoyo, mumoyo make anonzwisisa kuti rudo rwevabereki haisi chinhu, mwana anoda shamwari dzezera. Ushamwari hwevana hausi chinhu asi chiitiko chekutanga cheukama hwepedyo hwemweya. Paanenge achivaka ukama hwakanaka, mwana anodzidza kukurukura nevamwe vanhu muchitsiko chakaenzana, kutarisana nehuro hwake, kuratidza ruremekedzo nemaonero evamwe vanhu, vauye kuzobatsira, kukanganwira nekukumbira kukanganwirwa, kugoverana nekutarisira. Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinocherechedza kuti pamabatiro akaita ukama hwomukomana neshamwari, kufungidzira kwake, mumuviri, mupfungwa uye mupfungwa kunobva pane zvakawanda. Kana mwana asingakwanisi kuwana shamwari, saka humwe hukama hwehukama huripo husingawanikwi kwaari, nyika huru inoramba iripo, chakavanzika chakazadza zvakavanzika zvekubatana, fictions, mitambo, kukwidza uye kukakavara, izvo zvinowanzoitika "nokusingaperi."
Mitemo yehukama nevana iri nyore - pazera remakore, vana vanosarudza shamwari intuitively, maererano neshoko rokuti "se-usada". Vamwe vana vanovhura kusangana nevanhu vatsva uye vanova neanofara mune imwe kambani yekubva yava yavo pachavo. Vanobva vawana shamwari-shamwari. Uye zvakadini kana mwana nemasikirwo ane nyadzi uye asingagoni kuwana shamwari? Zvakadini kana iye asingazivi kuti angava sei shamwari? Pasina rubatsiro rwevabereki uye rutsigiro munyaya iyi, haagoni kuita.
Kudzidzisa sei mwana kuti ave shamwari?
- Chero ushamwari hupi hunotanga neshamwari. Kazhinji mwana wacho haadi kuva shamwari, nokuti haangozivi kuti angaziva sei. Dzidzisai mwana wenyu izvi unyanzvi, achitamba nevana vake vanofarira zvidhori zvakasiyana zvekufambidzana mumamiriro akasiyana. Tsanangura kuti zvakanyanya zvinoenderana nemafungiro nemafungiro emeso, naizvozvo kana iwe usangana newe haugoni kuva beech uye frown. Uye zvechokwadi haufaniri kuwira mukuora mwoyo, kana muchipikisana nechipo chokuzivana nekuramba, iwe unongoda kuedza zvakare zvishoma gare gare.
- Ratidza mwana wacho kuzara uye ruzivo rwehukama hwehukama nemuenzaniso - taurira shamwari dzako dzehuduku, nezvemitambo ipi yawakamboita, kuti wakapedza nguva pamwe chete, ndezvipi zvakavanzika zvawakanga uine, mararamiro ako uye akayananisa. Taura naye pamusoro pekuti shamwari chii, icho chinokosha kuvana nevakuru.
- Zvichida chikonzero chokuti hakuna munhu anofambidzana nemwana akavanzwa mukuti iye ane godo rezviyero zvake uye haatauri nemunhu. Taura nezvazvo nechecheche, tsanangura kwaari kuti hazvifaniri kutora zvigaro zvemafirimu zvekufambisa, asi izvo zvaunoda kupa kuti utambe kune vamwe vana. Kumbira mwana kuti atore vamwe vana vane masukisi, maapuro kana makiki.
- Rongedza vana vomunharaunda mamwe mararamiro evanhu vakawanda - kutamba bhora, kutanga kite, kuenda kumitambo, firimu kana zoo. Vana vachawana zvakawanda zvekunakidza uye vachava nemisoro yekukurukurirana.
- Usati "Kwete" kana mwana achida kukoka mumwe weshamwari dzake kuti ashanyire. Itai pakati pezvigadzirwa zvematayari ipapo pachave izvo zvichange zviri izvo zvinonakidza uye zvinonakidza kutamba neshamwari.
Usasvike kubatana nemitambo yevana, asi usatora nzvimbo inotungamirira. - Nguva nenguva, bvunza mwana kuti zvinhu zviri sei neshamwari dzake. Mukukurukurirana, kazhinji kurumbidza vana izvo mwana wako akasarudza seshamwari, ngaaite kuti anzwe kutsigirwa kwako uye kubvumirwa.
- Siya kodzero yekusarudza shamwari kumwana pachake. Usaisa mvumo yakakosha kune avo vanofunga, neizvi zvinomutsa chido chemwana chekuita.
Dzidzisa mwana wako kuti ave shamwari, nokuti dzimwe shamwari dzevecheche dzinova shamwari dzechokwadi muhupenyu hwedu uye munguva yemberi.