Kune rumwe rudzi rwevakadzi, vachitarisa pairi, rinoratidzika kuti ivo vanobata. Nokudaro, varume vazhinji vanofunga kuti zvakanakisisa kuti vasapinda mungozi uye usashuva kuti uzive zvakadaro. Mushure mezvose, mukukwikwidzana kwevanhu vakadaro vakasiyana-siyana, havaoni chero tariro ipi zvayo yekunyaradza. Hongu, uye vanofunga nezvehupenyu hwevanhu, hwakafanana nehutema hwebhuruu, asi zvechokwadi kwete sechinhu chechikadzi.
Ngatiedzei kuona kuti vakadzi vanozivikanwa sekutaura kwakasimba, chii nhoroondo yezvakabva pamashoko ekuti "bhuruu yekushambadzira" uye chii chinofanira kuitwa kuti isati ipiwa chikamu chakadai.
Mutsara inonzi "blue stocking". Nhoroondo yezvinoitika
Zvinowanzofungidzirwa kuti mazwi okuti "bhuruu yekushambadzira" yakatanga muna 1760 mu UK mu salon yemunyori Montague. Rimwe bhuku rinotaura kuti munhu anoshanda zvikuru munharaunda ino aiva mumwe mushanduri, muzvidzidzo - musayendisiti, munyori Stillingfleet. Panzvimbo pezvisikwa zvakasvibirira zvisikwa, kupfeka kwaro kwairehwa nemaitiro, aipfeka masokisi emvere dzebhuruu. Kana akashaya chikamu che saloni, ungano yakataura kuti haikwanise kutanga pasina "bhokisi rebhuruu". Ndiko kuti, "murume" wokutanga akapiwa chikamu ichi. Gare gare vakatanga kunzi vamiririri vevakadzi vasina simba, avo vaingofarira nesayenzi uye mabhuku, avo vasina kufunga kuti zvakakosha kutarisira kana kugadzira mhuri, nezvimwe. Nokukurumidza, sangano rakatangwa nekunyengera se "Blue Stocking Society."
MuRussia shoko iri rakabva kuFrance.
Saka, muParis, muzana remakore rechi17 maiva nemaroni, basa guru raiitwa nevakadzi. Vakasika shoko rokuti "vakadzi vakadzidza". Anna Moore, uyo akanga ari muBrithani "Blue Stockings Society" mune imwe yezvinyorwa zvake zvinoshamisa, akataura kuti zita rechiFrench rakabva mukushandurwa kwakashata uye chaiwo kwezwi rechiChirungu "bluestocking".
Mune rimwe basa reKekhov rinogona kusangana nemunhu akadaro anonzi "blue stocking": "
"Zvakanakirei kuva bhuruu yekuisa." Bhuruu inokwana ... Damn it! Kwete mukadzi uye kwete murume, uye naizvozvo pakati nepakati, kwete icho kana ichi. "
Mukadzi - "ruvara rwebhuruu"
Hazvizove zvisingashamisi kusarudza kuti ndudzii yevakadzi vanoriidza.
Nokudaro, kunze vanhu vakadaro vanozviratidza pachavo uye kuzvininipisa kwechitarisiko: kusakwana kwezvishongo, zvipfeko, mavara matsvuku, mararamiro emhando yezvokupfeka, hachisi chinhu chisingaoneki mumufananidzo wekunze. Nemaitiro avo, vakadzi vakadaro vanogunun'una, vanogona kugadziriswa mumamiriro ekusuwa, kusuruvara, kushungurudzika. Kana iyo "yebhuruu inotakura" uye inzwa chimwe chinhu pamusoro pekuita zvepabonde, maitiro evakadzi, coquetry, ipapo muupenyu hwangu hunoramba kushandisa izvi chero zvikonzero.
Vakadzi vakadaro vakagadzirira kuzvipa zvinhu zvose zvavanoda, kushanda zvakaoma, izvo "bhuruu" zvinoreva, vane unhu hwakanaka hunogona kuongororwa.
Zvinoshamisa kuti, asi mudzimai asina kujairika, akadai anogona kukwanisa murume. Kazhinji "bhokisi rebhuruu" rinokonzera kugadzikana, wakakura, wakagadzirirwa mumiriri wehafu yakasimba yevanhu. Iye, kutanga kune zvose, anokoshesa nekudzika kwenyika yepakati, mano eunyanzvi evakadzi vakadaro uye anoona zviyiyo kumwoyo wemukadzi ane unhu hwakaoma zvakadaro.
Vakadzi - "ruvara rwebhuruu" vanoda kushandisa zvizhinji
Hazviiti kuti uve bhuruu yekushambadzira?
Kana iwe uchinzwisisa kuti iwe hauna hukama, kuzvivimba, ipapo imwe yenzira dzisingasviki kuva "bhokisi rebhuruu" iri kudzokorora, kusimbisa kwekuzvivimba. Kana iwe unoda kukudziridza unyanzvi hwako hwekutaurirana pamwe chete nevakomana vakasiyana, uye nevanhuwo zvavo. Edza kutarisa mukadzi, tarisa zviratidzo zvako, maitiro, gait.
Saka, mukadzi wese, pasinei nokuti anopa ruzivo rwezvesayenzi kana anoda kushandura nguva yakawanda achizvitengera zvipfeko zvake, anofanira kuziva kuti anofanira kugara achikudziridza humai maari. Mushure mezvose, iri ndiro hwaro hwemumwe mukadzi.