Bhuku rinozivikanwa remakore makumi mana nemakumi mana rainzi Ben Affleck pane peji rake rekushandurudza vanhu rakanyora shoko risina kutarisirwa richiti akanga atambura nekudhakwa kwemakore akawanda, uye chete nekuda kwekutsigirwa nemudzimai wake, Jennifer Garner, akakwanisa kutsungirira kuderedzwa uku.
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Muna 2001, Ben akaziva kuti aisagona kuzovapo pasina doro. Yaiva panguva iyoye akayeuka kuti zvinorevei kuva baba vane doro, nokuti baba vake vakatambura nehutera uhwu. Sevana, Affleck akaona vabereki vazhinji vachikakavara nokuti baba vake vanonwa. Iyi tsika yakatungamirira kukuti baba vakasiya mhuri, uye amai vakakurira Ben nemukoma wake oga. Zvadaro sangano reHollywood actor rakazvivimbisa kuti haazomboti anwe. Zvisinei, kufarirwa, mari uye hupenyu muHollywood zvinomira chimwe chinyorwa chekuita, uye Ben akadhakwa nedoro. Zvakanaka kuti mutambi akaziva kare kuti aida rubatsiro munharaunda ino uye akatendeukira kuZvimbiso zvekuvandudza kliniki muMalibu.
Kubva panguva iyo, makore gumi nematanhatu apfuura, uye Ben achifara achiudza shamwari neshamwari dzake kuti akaporeswa. Mashoko akadaro anogona kuwanikwa mumutsara wake:
"Ndiri kufara kuzivisa munhu wose kuti ndakakunda kukunda matambudziko ose uye ndikabvisa kudhakwa. Iye zvino ndinogona kutaura nechivimbo kuti zvakakosha kukumbira rubatsiro munyaya iyi, sekunge kune mamwe maitiro. Hapana chakanyadzisa kana chakaipa. Munhu chete haagoni kugadzirisa dambudziko iri. Mukuwedzera, iwe unofanira kutanga uchinzwisisa kuti kurapa kuchave kwenguva refu. Ndakatora kwemakore gumi nematanhatu uye ndoga nokuda kwekutsigirwa kwepedyo ndisingakwanise kuipedzisa. Ndinoda kuratidza nemuenzaniso wangu kuti muhupenyu zvinokwanisika kukurira chero kuvimba. Usatya kutora danho rokutanga. Iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti mushure mokunge waenda kuburikidza nekurapa, iwe unogona kurarama hupenyu husati hwakasiyana, iyo yauchayeuka nerudo uye mufaro. Zvakakosha kwandiri kuti vana vangu naJennifer vafare. Vongai ivo nekuda kwavo, kunyanya Jen. Makore ose aya akarera mumwe wevana vedu. Iwe haugoni kufungidzira kuti izvi zvakaoma sei. Ini ndakagadzirira hupenyu hwangu hwose kumubvunza ruregerero kwemakore gumi akapfuura. "
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Garner uye Affleck vakasarudza kusarambana
Muna 2005, mhizha yacho yakabudisa nhau kuti Garner naAffleck vakaroorana. Mumubatanidzwa vaive nevana vatatu: vasikana Violet, avo vava nemakore 11, uye Serafima Rose ane makore 8, uyewo mwanakomana Samuil, iye zvino ava nemakore mashanu. Muna 2015, nemhaka yezvinetso zvewaini naBen, vaviri vacho vakasarudza kurarama vari voga. Anenge pakarepo mune zvenhau pane mharidzo yavakatanga kurambana, asi vateereri ivo pachavo havana kusimbisa idzi nhau. Mwedzi mishomanana yapfuura yakava kuzivikanwa kuti Jennifer naBen vanogara pamwe chete.