Zvichipa rwiyo rwehupenyu hwemazuva ano, kazhinji vasikana vanofanirwa kusanganisa basa nekudzidza. Nhasi tinokukoka kuti utaure pamusoro penyaya yekubatanidza basa nekudzidza, nokuti kune vakawanda hazvisi basa rakanyanya.
Shanda pamwe nekubatanidzwa kwezvidzidzo
Zvakakodzera here kutamba kese yakadaro? Mushure mezvose, zvakaoma chaizvo kudzidza nehurongwa hwakadaro hwakabatikana. Kune rumwe rutivi, kana mudzidzi achikwanisa kusvika kushanda zvichida pedyo nehukuru hwake, achave nemukana kwete kungowana unyanzvi hunodiwa uye unyanzvi, kukudziridza unyanzvi hwake hwokukurukurirana , asiwo tarisiro yekuwedzera kukura mune izvi.
Ndosaka vazhinji vevanhu vechidiki nhasi vari kushanda pamwe chete nekudzidza kwavo. Ichi chinoitika kune munhu wose, hongu, chinobatsira zvikuru: mudzidzi anovaka pfungwa yekuita basa , anova, zvishoma nezvishoma kuzvimiririra mune zvemari, uye anotanga kuziva kukosha kwemari apo iye anovawana nemabasa ake anowanzoshanda.
Asi basa mushure mechikoro rinogona kune mumwe munhu kuratidza kuva mutoro usingatsungiriri kwete muurongwa chaiwo (iwe zvechokwadi uchava nenguva shoma), asiwo mune zvepfungwa. Wakagadzirira kuderedza nguva yekukurukurirana neshamwari dzako, kusiya nguva yakasununguka uye iwe unoziva here kuti basa rako richapetwa kaviri. Hazvizoshandisi kupindira nekudzidza kwako here? Kana iwe uine chivimbo mune unyanzvi hwako, saka iyi ndiyo sarudzo yekuchengetera iwe.
Yeuka kuti iwe uchagara uine matambudziko akasiyana-siyana, iwe unoda kubhadhara mutengo wakadaro wekudzidzisa kwako here? Iwe unogona kusimbisa hupenyu hwako zvishomanana kana iwe ukanyevera vadzidzisi nezvehutano hwako hwakabatikana, kunyange, nhamo, kwete vose vanobata mazwi akadaro nekunzwisisa kuvadzidzi, kunyange kana basa ravo rakananga zvakananga nehutano hwakasarudzwa. Kune rumwe rutivi, vamwe vadzidzisi vachasangana newe uye vacharemekedza kune mudzidzi akadaro. Iva nechokwadi chekuti urambe uine ukama hwehukama neaunodzidza navo, saka iwe unogona kugara uine ruzivo pamusoro pezvinhu zvose uye usapotsa zvidzidzo zvinokosha zvikuru. Uyezve edza kuonana nevadzidzi vechikoro chepamusoro - unogona kutora kubva kune mabhuku akare ehurukuro nehurukuro, dzidzo kana mapepa ekuedza uye mhinduro dzemamiriro ekuongorora. Mukuwedzera, hapana chinonyadzisa mukati kana iwe uchinge wataurira mumwe munhu kuti abatsire kuita zvidzidzo. Ichokwadi kuti izvi hazvirevi kuti iwe unogona kuzvidzora uye, sezvinowanzoitwa, kutaura, "chikwata" pane zvidzidzo zvako, asi mukukurumidza unogona kugadzirisa dambudziko nenzira iyi.
Kana chidzidzo chacho chikamu chechiitiko chebasa
Kana iwe uine mukana wekushanda uchidzidza, uye iwe unyanzvi basa rakasarudzwa - edza kusapotsa mukana uyu. Iwe haugone kuwana ruzivo rwakakodzera uye unyanzvi, asiwo uve nebhuku rebasa. Zvinonyatsojeka kuti kwauri iwe zvino mafungiro pamusoro pokurega basa hauna maturo, uye iwe haufungi nezvekukwegura zvachose. Asi ikozvino ikozvino nehuwandu hwekugadziriswa kweanoshandira yako huchaendesa kufarira mubhadharo wepensheni, uye saizvozvo, uchawana mari mune chikamu chekubhadhara mari yako yeramangwana penheyo. Izvo zvose izvi hazvina mubvunzo kushandiswa kwebasa rehurumende. Mukuwedzera, iwe une mukana wekugamuchira chimwe chigumbuso kuchikoro.
Ndinoda kukuyeuchidza zvakare kuti zvakakosha sei kuverenga mikana uye mikana yemuviri wako. Iwe unoda kudzorera simba rako, iva nechokwadi chekutora nguva yakakwana yeawa yekurara, edza kudya zvakanaka uye kugovera mutoro. Hazvina mhosva kuti unovimbisa sei basa rako kana kudzidza, pasina mamiriro ako unogona kuisa hutano hwako hutsva, saka edza kusarudza kubva pane zvakaipa zvose zvishoma. Mukuwedzera, iwe unoda rubatsiro rwetsika rwevanoda uye hama, saka ramba uchitaura navo, purogiramu yako yakabatikana, pasinei nezvose, inofanira kukuunza iwe pedyo navo. Saka, edza kupedza nguva imwe neimwe yega neavo vanoda chaizvo iwe nekutsigira kwako.