Apo mukadzi anodzidza kuti murume wake atanga imwe, kunyange husiku humwe, mubvunzo wakaoma zvikuru unongomuka pamberi pake: unokangamwira kutengesa here? Mhosva imwe neimwe inofanirwa kuongororwa zvakasiyana, zvichiongorora mamiriro ezvinhu ose.
Kukangamwira kutengeswa kwemurume wake?
Vakadzi vazhinji vanopikisa kuti kukanganwira kutengeswa kwemurume wavo havazivi kuti pasinei nechisarudzo chavo ikozvino, mukutsamwa kwehasha, mukadzi wacho achatora soro seunyanzvi kana kukwanisa kukanganwira. Ichokwadi ndechokuti izvi hazvisi zvevanhu vose. Uye dzimwe nguva kunyange mudiwa ane rudo, uyo akatanga kutora murume wake kumashure, mushure memwedzi kana maviri asingakwanisi kumira ndokusiya. Ichi ndechokuti aifunga kuti anogona kukanganwira - asi kwete, yakanga isiri yake.
Panewo mamiriro akasiyana: kutanga mukadzi anodzinga mudzimai, uye ipapo, mushure mechinguva, anotorazve. Uye izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti iye anokwanisa kukanganwa pamusoro peizvi, uye nokuti kushamwaridzana kwake kune mumwe murume kwakave kwakasimba kudarika chisarudzo chakatorwa. Ndicho chikonzero nei uchiteerera iwe pachako, rangarira kuti iwe unowanzoita sei. Kunze kweizvozvo iwe unogona kuita chisarudzo chakanaka.
Zvakakosha here kukanganwira kukanganisa kwemurume wake?
Kunyengedzera kunogona kunge kwakasiyana. Kana yaiva njodzi isingazoitikizve, haisi chikonzero chokuparadza mhuri. Asi kana ichikwira pamwe chete, uye iwe usachibata kwete kwekutanga, pane imwe nguva yekufungidzira. Zvisinei, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, madzimai dzimwe nguva vanovhara maziso avo kune zviri kuitika.
Chinhu chakaoma kukuregerera kukanganisa kune murume akangotanga ukama kune rumwe rutivi, pane kungofara nemapfambi. Muchiitiko ichi, chisarudzo chokupedzisira ndecheyu. Chinhu chinokosha, kuongorora zvinogadziriswa nemurume iye pachake, akazvidemba here zvakaitika? Iko kupfidza kwake kwechokwadi kunopa tariro kuti imba yako inogona uye inofanira kuponeswa.