Maonero ehupenyu hwedu anowanzokosha. Chimwe chemaitiro akajairika - basa re nanny rinogona kuitwa chete nemukadzi. Ichokwadi, maitiro evakadzi anotora kuvapo kweunhu hwakakosha unhu sekutaura kwepfungwa, intuition, kumusoro. Asi mushure mezvose, varume vane nhamba yakawanda yezvakanaka, izvo zvinobatsira zvikuru pakurera nekudzidziswa kwevana: demokarasi, kufamba, basa, kutsungirira, simba remuviri uye kuongorora pfungwa.
Kwemazana emakumi emakore mumhuri dzakanaka uye dzakanaka-dzimba, vadzidzisi vevanakomana vakashandira vadzidzisi vevarume chete. Mabasa evanodzidzisa aisanganisira mabasa ekutarisira vana, kushanda kwekudzidzisa kwavo. Munzira dzakawanda kupararira kwevadzidzisi vevarume kwakakonzerwa nepamusoro-soro yevadzidzi kana vachienzaniswa nevakadzi.
Parizvino, kune nzira yekudzorera varume kune basa. Chinonyanya kuzivikanwa chido chekubhadhara varume vanorarama munyika dzekuMadokero, uko zvinopfuura 4% zve "mannies" zvinoshandiswa mubasa romumwe munhu dzidzo (kubatana kwemashoko echiChirungu murume - "murume" uye nanny - "nanny").
Mune zvipi zvipi unosarudza nanny yemurume?
- Paunorera mwana mumhuri isina kukwana, amai vasina kuroora vanobhadhara nanny yemurume kuti vatsigire kukanganisa kwechirume chemurume pamukomana. Izvi zvinonyanya kuitika kana mwana asina vana sekuru kana vanamume vanogona kutora chikamu mukurera. Kukoka mutungamiri kumukomana, mai vanoedza kumubatsira nemurume wemuenzaniso wekuzvibata, uye kumusikana iyo zvakakosha kugadzira mufananidzo wakanaka wemunhu.
- Mamiriro ezvinhu mumhuri yakakwana, umo baba vakaita sekuti vakangoita: zvakangoita kwete kumba pamusana pemabasa kana zvimwe zvikonzero. Kunyatsofunga kuti mwana haana hutano hwemurume, vabereki vanobhadhara nanny murume.
- Dzimwe nguva kune zviitiko apo mwana akaroorwa kwete kungova nanny, asi zvinoreva kuti munhu uyu achaita kuti mwana adzivirire. Mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro anomuka mumhuri umo kune ngozi yekubvuta mumwe munhu kubva kumhuri yake kuitira chinangwa chekushungurudza kana zvitsva. Zvechokwadi, munyaya iyi, zvidikanwi zvinokosha zvinowanikwa pa "mustached nanny" - anofanirwa kuva neimwe chikwata chekuchengetedza mabasa. Pasina mubvunzo, mabasa edzidzisi akadaro anonyanya kudhura.
- Mune zvimwe zviitiko, murume semanny anonyanya kungoita nokuti simba revarume rinodiwa. Zviduku zvisingabatsiri zvikwata zvevashandi vashoma vari kufamba. Imwe-mukoti-kwete chete anodzidzisa nekudzidzisa, asi anoitawo zviito zvakaoma kutakura mwana, nezvimwewo.
- Munhu-mudzidzisi dzimwe nguva anokumbirwa kuti ashande chikonzero chakakwana chechikonzero - godo revakadzi. Izvi zvinoitika kuti mitambo chaiyo inowanikwa mumhuri nokuti mudzimai wako anoedzwa neannyana wechidiki. Mukadzi ane ruzivo runorwadza, kana ndiani anotya mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, angasarudza kusarudza nanny mukomana mukurera mwana. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, kusarudzwa kwenzara yemurume kunobatsira kudzivisa kusawirirana kwemhuri.
Munguva yekuongororwa, 8 kubva pavabereki vakapindura kuti vanofunga kuti zvinogamuchirwa kuva nanny se nanny. Uyezve, vashomanana vakapindura vakati vaida kuti vana vavo vave nemudzidzisi wechikadzi. Vamwe vanoitawo muongororo iyi vanotenda kuti kusarudza nanny yemwana hakufaniri kuenzaniswa nehutano, nokuda kwavo basa hwemushandi rinokosha zvikuru. Zvichida, mukoti-mukadzi ane zvinangwa zvinowanzodiwa chete pakuchengetedza vana vaduku zvikuru - vana vanorema uye
A nanny-mukadzi kana nanny-murume? Zviri kwauri! Kana uchitsvaga nanny yemwana wako, shandisa mazano emasangano anozivikanwa. Iva nechokwadi chekuverenga mazano kubva kumabasa ako apfuura, tora nguva yekutaura nevakatsvaga mune imwe nzvimbo yekuona dhigirii dhigirii, mazano pamusoro pekupedzwa kwezvikoro zvakasiyana. Cherechedza kuti mudzidzi wepamusoro uye mudzidzi achasangana sei. Vana - chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muhupenyu, naizvozvo, chengetedza maitiro evanhu vakadaro vakakosha muhupenyu hwavo nehutoro hwakakwana.