Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha mumamiriro ezvinhu aya hachisi chokudanidzira uye kunyomba mudzidzi, achitaura kuti ane pfungwa dzakaderera. Saka iwe unogona kukanganisa vana vako uye kunyange kukuvadza psyche yake, kunyanya kana iri mune izvo zvinonzi makore ekuchinja. Kutaura zvazviri, chikonzero nei mwana achidzidza zvakashata, mumatambudziko akawanda, haambovi nechokuita nehuchenjeri hwake. Kana uchitarisana nechinetso chakasiyana, iwe unogona kusarudza maitiro akanaka ekuzvibata kubatsira mudzidzi kudzidza purogiramu.
Zvimwe zvinokonzera
- Chikonzero chinonyanya kukosha chekushanda kusina kunaka, zvisinei hazvo chingave chinonzwika, chiremerera chakazara, icho chinobva, ichocho, zvakare, chirongwa chisina kururama, kukanganisa uye kubvumidza.
- Chikonzero chekuongorora kusagutsikana kungave kusina hukama hwakanaka nemudzidzisi kana vaunodzidza navo. Vabereki vanofanira kuongorora mibvunzo iri kuitika mumwana kuchikoro, uye vanoita chisarudzo, zvichienderana nemamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo.
- Uyezve, mudzidzi angave asingafariri mune imwe nyaya, asi mune imwe nzvimbo anodzidza matunhu matsva. Zvichida zvakakosha kufunga nezvekutamira kune imwe nzvimbo yepamusoro yezvidzidzo.
- Mukuwedzera, hatifaniri kutora zvido zvevabereki. Vamwe vanaamai navanababa vanoshamisika kuti nei mwana wacho achidzidza zvakashata kare apo panzvimbo ye "nguva dzose" mudzidzi anonyanya kukosha anowana "mana". Muchiitiko ichi, vabereki vanofanira kuenzanisa zvido zvavo uye kwete kuvhundutsa mwana wavo, uye kurumbidza.
- Kazhinji, kukanganisa kwekuti mwana akangoerekana adzidza zvakashata inova kurambana kwevabereki, rufu kana chirwere chakakomba chomunhu waanoda uye mamwe matambudziko epfungwa. Zvechokwadi, unofanira kuita zvose zvaunogona kuti ubatsire mudzidzi kukunda kushungurudzika, asi nguva chete inogona kuchinja zvachose mamiriro acho ezvinhu.