Izvi zvinotyisa pakuona zvakaitika kare zvichakupa kutenda mune zvishamiso uye kukanganwira mwoyo wemunhu!
Uye izvi zvose zvakatanga makore makumi mana apfuura, munaAugust 1977, apo mumwe wevanamukoti vezvipatara muIowa akanzwa kuchema kwakanyanya kwemucheche kubva mubhakiti ye "medical" yezvechiremba ...
Melissa Auden
Zvakaitika kuti yaiva musikana ari kuchema - Melissa Oden, uyo akapona mushure mekunge amai vake vane makore 19 vaine mazuva mashanu ekubvisa pamuviri wehydrochloric mumwedzi wechisere kuti vamuponese kubva pamuviri asingadiwi!
Asi chokwadi chinotyisa chezvenyaya iyi ndechekuti amai vaMelissa vakanga vasingazivi zvino nezve "nzira isina kubudirira". Uye munhu uyo akakumbira kunyarara pamusoro pemubhedha uripo wevashandi vose waiva mukoti wezvipatara uye amai vake muchikamu, kureva, mbuya vaMelissa!
Iwe haugoni kuzvitenda, asi mwana wacho akanyatsotsungirirwa kumativi ose ehupenyu hwehupenyu, nokuti akazvarwa akayera pasi pe1 kg, uye mushure mekuedza kwemazuva mashanu ane tsvina akavaka jaundice, kufema kwaiva kwakaoma uye kuputika kwakaramba kuri kutambudzika!
Asi, neruremekedzo, nyanzvi dzezvechiremba 'kufungidzira kuti musikana wacho haakwanisi kuona, kunzwa uye kupera shure mushure mekusimbiswa hazvibvumirwi. Vhiki nhatu gare gare, Melissa akaendeswa kune imwe ward, uye mwedzi mitatu gare gare akagamuchirwa naLinda naRon Odena, avo vakava vabereki chaivo vorudo kwaari.
Zvinonzwisisika kuti mhuri yeOden yakanga yava kutokura nehanzvadzi yakagamuchirwa yaTammy, uye apo Melissa akanga ane mwedzi mitanhatu, vakaroorana vaiva nemwanakomana, Dustin, pasinei nekuzivikanwa kwe "kusununguka"!
Ndiine hanzvadzi yekukurudzira Tammy
Nenzira, Linda naRon havana kuvanza kubva kuna Melissa kuti akazogamuchirwa, asi chokwadi chokuti akapona pashure pokubvisa pamuviri, musikana akadzidza pa14.
Ipapo "chokwadi" ichi chakabaya mwoyo mafungiro evechiri kuyaruka - Melissa akagadzira bulimia, zvinetso zvewaini zvakatanga, uye kuwedzera kune zvose, kurwadziwa kwake mupfungwa, akaedza kunyura, kuita ... zvepabonde.
Uye kana musikana uyu akaponeswa kamwe chete, ipapo kungozviparadza iyeye wechipiri iye asina kubvumira. Pakapera chikoro, Melissa akazvibatanidza pamwe ndokuva mudzidzi paYunivhesiti yeSouth Dakota. Iwe haungatendi uyo, nechinguva chisinganzwisisiki, aidzidzisa ikoko ... mbuya vaida kumuuraya! Nezve izvi Melissa akadzidza zvishoma, asi mukirasi migwagwa yavo haina kupindirana.
Mumufananidzo: Melissa nemurume wake - ane makore 42 IT-nyanzvi Ryan
Pa19, Melissa akasarudza kuwana vabereki vake. Kubvira panguva iyoyo, mushumo wehupenyu hwake hutsva muguta umo amai vake vakambobvisa pamuviri vakatanga ...
Musikana wacho anobvuma kuti kushanda munzvimbo dzekuchengetedza mabhuku uye kushambadzira mumapepanhau kwaiva kuparadza kwakakwana kwenguva. Chigumisiro chekutanga chakaonekwa makore 11 chete gare gare, apo akakwanisa kuwana kero yekuru nanasekuru vake. Akanyora tsamba uye akatowana mhinduro kubva kuna sekuru vake. Zvakazoitika kuti akanga asingazivi nezvemwana aripo, asi nemudzimai wake nemwanasikana kwenguva refu haatauri uye haazive kuti varipi zvino ...
Mumufananidzo: Olivia Melissa akazvara mwanasikana wavo mukuru muchipatara, uko amai vake vakambobvisa pamuviri!
Kwapera nguva yakati, Melissa akawana kero yebaba vake chaiyo, akaedza kutaura naye, asi pasina! Iwe haungatendi, asi tsamba kuna baba vake yakawira mumaoko emhuri yake mushure mekufa kwake. Vakataurawo kuti baba vaMelissa vaiwanzoyeuka kuti akanga anyara nezvimwe muupenyu hwake. Maiwe, zvakazoitika kuti aiziva nezvekuuya kwekubvisa pamuviri uye haana kudzivirira musikana wake - amai vaMelissa. Zvisinei, haana kutsunga kugadzirisa chikanganiso nekuda kwekunyadziswa, uye zvakare yakanga yava kunonoka ...
Zvakanaka, kufara kwezviitiko kwakatanga nemanzwiro ayo amai vomukadzi waMelissa vakaziva nyaya iyi. Akabatsira musikana kuwana "kurasikirwa" uye akaudza nyaya yekuberekwa kwake. Zvakabva zvaitika kuti vabereki vaMelissa vakaungana mukoroji, uye vakatanga rudo. Amai vake vakanga vari mutambi, nokuti avo vaienda kumwedzi zvisina kufanira vakanga vakajairika. Muchidimbu, musati mutevedzeri wechitatu, haana kunyunyuta chero chinhu, uye pasi pekutonga kwake zvose zvakatorwa naamai vake (mbuya vaMelissa). Iwe unotoziva kare nhoroondo yekubvisa pamuviri.
Iwe haugoni kuzvitenda, asi kunyange mushure mekunge Melissa awana amai vake, havana kutsunga kusangana kwenguva yakareba uye chete vakanyora! Munhu wose aitya kurambwa uye ainetseka zvikuru!
Melissa anobvuma kuti haaiti zvakaipa pamusoro paamai vake uye akamuregerera zvachose:
"Yaiva rwendo rurefu uye rwunorwadza kubva pakunyadziswa nekutsamwa kusvika pakutenda nekuregererwa. Asi ini ndinoramba kurarama nehasha - iyi handiyo nzira yangu. Uye mumoyo mangu pane nzvimbo yekuregererwa kwekuru vangu nababa ... "
Nenzira, nhasi Melissa anofara muwanano uye anounza vana vaviri. Uye akasangana nehanzvadzi dzake mbiri. Asi zvinonyanya kukosha - Melissa akasika nheyo yaanobatsira nayo "avo vanobvisa pamuviri", saiye pachake. Uye akasangana nevanhu 223 vakaponeswa!