Unofunga kuti iwe uri musikana anobudirira, anoyevedza uyo anoziva kunzwisisa vanhu, uye anokwanisa kunzwa nemakamuri mashomanana emumwe wako akakodzera iwe iwe manheru here? Asi, zvinosuwisa, makore anobhururuka asingatambudzi, uye chiroto chomuchato, chawave uchirota kwenguva refu, iwe hauna kukwanisa kuve kamwe chete wakapfeka. Uye, kubva pane izvi, mubvunzo unomuka: "Saka unowana sei shamwari yehupenyu hwako?"
A Step to Life Changes
1. Cherechedza chinhu chinodiwa . Saka, danho rekutanga rinobatsira kuchinja ikozvino muhupenyu hwemhuri ndicho chinodiwa kuti udzidze kuona varume munharaunda yako. Izvi zvinofanira kushandiswa kunyange kana munhu wechidiki ari kuita basa rokugadzira mapuranga akaputsika mumba mako. Edza kuremekedza munhu wose, pasinei nehupenyu hwake, mari yemamiriro. Kutenda kweizvi, iwe uchakwanisa kuwedzera maitiro ekutsvaga kwako. Zvakare, dzidza kuongorora zviratidzo zvekucherechedza zvakatumirwa kwauri nevarume.
Kuti uwedzere hutano hwekuona munhu akakodzera mune zvepabonde, edza mupfungwa kupa rumbidzo kune chero munhu upi zvake achasangana newe munzira munzira yose. Chinhu chikuru ndechekudzidza panharaunda ino kuti uve nemaonero akanaka . Mushure mechinguva, musingazvicherechedzi, muchasvoda nemwoyo wose kunyange kune avo vamusina kuteerera kare.
2. Ipai murume wacho mukana wokuzviratidza . Kana iwe uchishamiswa nekutsvaga mune ramangwana, ipapo, kumashoko maduku, tarisa maitiro ako. Asi semugumisiro weizvi, munhu angasarudzwa haazokwanisa kuzviratidza kwauri semweya wemurume anoedza kudzivisa unhu humutarisa zuva rega rega, semhuka inopambwa. Bvisai nzvimbo ye "mukutsvaga kwakatsvaga" mafungiro akadaro, sekunge iwe une mumwe munhu. Kuti uite izvi, edza kugadzikana pasi, kunyemwerera, taurira iwe kuti munhu wese anotaridzika kuva akanaka kwazvo kwauri. Dzokorora iwe kazhinji kacho iwe usingadi kuita maonero akanaka kune ani zvake.
Nekubatsirwa kwemuitiro uyu, iwe hauzogoni kungokonzera varumekadzi, asiwo unokwanisa kuzivisa kufarira kwevechidiki avo vakambove vakavanza.
3. Tererai vanhu vose . Mutemo wehupenyu hwekupikisa unotaura kuti hazvigoneki kuti kana iwe uri kunyora pane chikwata chekufambidzana chete chikabvongodzwa, chikafu chemaziso, ivo vanotanga kukupindura. Enda kubva kune zvakatarisana uye funga muhupenyu hwako hwepamberi huwandu chaizvo avo avo vangave vasina kufunga, zvakare, vangadai vasina kutarisa, kunyange dai akanga agere patafura iri pedyo mune cafe. Nhamba dzezveruzhinji dzekudyidzana nebhukuro dzinopa zano rekuyeuchidza kuti mashureti anokanganisa akaberekwazve apo apo pedo kwavari ndeyeiye mukadzi chaiye anovada.
Teerera kune avo vari pedyo newe, kuripa zvakananga. Edza kufungidzira vanhu vakadaro sechiratidzo chakanaka chekupedzisira, zvichiratidza kushamwaridzana kwako. Yeuka kuti iwe unokwanisa kuva pedyo pasina humwe kuratidzwa kwe resonance chero ipi zvayo, uye yako uye pamwe naye, inoratidza kuvapo mauri emagetsi (mamwe magetsi ehupombwe). Uye izvi, zvakare, zvinopa chiedza chemavara kune hufambiro mukuvandudzwa kwehukama.
4. Tsanangudzo yekubatana kwepakutanga . Usakurumidza kufungidzira, sarudza uyo waunofamba naye kuatari usingatauri nemunhu uyu. Pasina kutaura kwevanhu, matanho kumhuri yemhuri haana maturo. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti hukama hune unyanzvi. Asi kunyanya kushamwaridzana (somuenzaniso, nerubatsiro rwema numerology) kunogona kutsanangurwa uye ndiye iye anotakura mashoko anokosha uye ane chinangwa. Saka, kana nokukurukurirana iwe pachako iwe unoramba nyore nyore uyo anonyanya kuda
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinokurudzira pakutanga kwekutanga kufambidzana kutarisa murume kune humwe unhu hunokosha hwaunodzidza kumuremekedza:
- mafungiro kune vakadzi;
- mari (iyi igirazi reumwe munhu muhukama);
- kunyanya uye mutoro;
- izvo unhu hunokoshesa mundima yakasiyana.