Hapana mukadzi pazuva remuchato wake kunyange kweminiti anofungidzira nezvekuti kuroorana mune ramangwana kungave kusingabudiriri. Asi humwe humwe humwe humwe husingazivikanwi, nokuti kurambana ndeyemazuva ano uye hutsinye, asi chokwadi chokuti mumwe nomumwe wechitatu wevakaroorana vanosangana.
Apo kuparara kwemhuri kunongoda murume nomudzimai bedzi, nyaya yekurambana inogadziriswa zvikuru nenzira yakabudirira. Uye zvakadini kana pane kurambana mumhuri nemwana muduku kusvika gore kana kana mudzimai ane pamuviri? Zvinoita here?
Izvo zviri pamutemo
Maererano nemitemo yakagadziriswa yakanyorwa nevatongi mumutemo weMhuri Code, kodzero yekuisa chikumbiro neRegistri Office yekugumisa kuroorana mushure mekunge mwana asati asvika gore rimwe chete anogoverwa chete mumumwe wako. Murume asina kubvumirwa naye haana kodzero yekutanga nyaya yekurambana. Mutemo iwoyo unosimbisa kana mudzimai ari nepamuviri. Kana kukwanisa kuvepo, ipapo kurambana kusati kwaberekwa mwana uye nekuvapo kwecheche kunongobvira chete pamutemo wemudzimai.
Hurumende dzehurumende dzinoedza nguva dzose kutora nzvimbo yevana. Chero hupi hukama hunoumbwa pakati pemudzimai nemurume, nokuda kwemwana, amai nababa - nyika yakasiyana-siyana yakasiyana-siyana inosangana naye. Iko tsika chaiye ndeyotevera: hutongi, uye kurambana nevana vaduku mumhuri inowanikwa mumatare chete, mushure mokuisa chikumbiro ichi kupa nguva yekugonekana kwekuyananisa kwevakaroorana, iyo inowanikwa mumwedzi. Ipapo vakaroorana vari kumirira kutongwa kwematare, izvo zvinogona kubva kune imwe kusvika matatu. Izvi zvinotorawo mwedzi yakawanda. Kuti udzivirire tape tsvuku yakadaro, usakurumidza kuisa kune kurambana. Zvinotoneka kuti kwechinguva kusvikira mwana atendeuka gore rimwe chete, kurambana hakuchadiwi. Haisi chakavanzika chokuti mwana muedzo kune mhuri yechidiki. Mugore rose, zvose zvinogona kugadziriswa, uye mikana yekurambana nemwana ane gore rimwe chete mumaoko ake icharamba ichiyeuchidza.
Mazano ekuva madzimai
Kana zvidimbu zvekapu yakaputsika zvisingagoni kuiswa pamwe chete, uye iwe wakaita chikadhi chisarudzo chokurambana pakarepo mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana, usafunga kunyange nezvekuti upenyu hupfuura! Nguva iyo mukadzi akarambana ainge asina kunaka, ari kure shure. Pano pane mafungiro avo eimbova madzimai, nekuda kwechiitiko chinosuruvarisa asi chinokosha, mune ramangwana kuumba mararamiro akazara uye anofara, achifunga nezvekukanganisa kwakaitwa mune imwe yapfuura.
Avo vachakuudza kuti vana vanoda chete vanababa vavo, musateerera. Zvechokwadi, kumhanya nemurume wechidiki asinganzwisisiki muhofisi yekunyora hakubatsiri, asi kuramba murume anobatsira iwe uye mwana ari asina maturo.
Hazvina mhosva kuti kurambana kwako kwakarwa sei, usatora mitoro yayo pamwana. Usazvidza baba vake, ramba uine hukama hwepamusoro nehukama muhama yake. Yeuka, pakuguma, kuti kunyange munguva ichangopfuura iwe wakafamba uchifara nemurume uyu pasi pekorona, ndokubva wamupa mwana. Kunyange kana zvichiita kwauri kuti matenga akawira pamusoro wako, ramba uchizvikudza - "zvose zvichapfuura, uye izvi-zvakare."
Mwana wacho anofanira kunzwa kuti rudo rwevabereki kwaari haruna kuora simba shure kwekurambana. Kana kune vana vaduku zvikuru nguva iyi yehupenyu hwako inogona kupfuura isingazivi, saka vakuru vachafanirwa kutsanangura zvose. Usavarambidza. Uye chinhu chinonyanya kukosha: vanaamai vasina kuroorwa havasipo! "Amai vega" inongova mutemo wepamutemo. Munhu angave akasurukirwa sei kana maminitsi ose ehupenyu azadzwa nekutarisira mwana anokura? Usarega mafungiro asina kunaka achitora mafungiro ako. Nhasi, basa guru nderokudzidzisa murume mutsva, uyo achazova munhu. Murume akakodzera uye baba vakanaka vana vako, iwe zvechokwadi uchasangana.