Vana vazhinji uye vadzidzi vane kukwana kwakakwana kwechido chekudzidza, izvo zvinosangana zvakananga nemigumisiro nekuongororwa. Kuti ubatsire mwana wako kudzidza, unogona kushandisa mano okudzidza, mhedzisiro yaro inogona kuongororwa munguva yemberi iri pedyo. Somugumisiro, kune chido mukudzidza, kutarisirwa kunooneka, uye iwe unogona kutarisira nhanho kana uchipedza miedzo.
Kunyengera kudzidza pamberi pekuongorora
Nhamba huru yevadzidzi haigoni kupedza miedzo kana kutonga, nokuti vanonzwa kufara kwakasimba. Kuti utsungirire zviitiko, iwe unogona kuita rite. Kana asiri mudzidzi uyo achazviita, chigumisiro chichaderedzwa zvikuru. Usiku huno husati hwaongorora, iwe unofanirwa kurega muimba, uchienda newe chinyorwa kana bhuku raakadzidziswa. Pamusoro pehurukuro yakasarudzwa iwe unofanira kuverenga urongwa uhwu:
"Zvose zvakagamuchirwa zvakasimba uye zvakasimba mumusoro wemuranda (s) aMwari (-i) (zita rake). Nokudaro akabudirira kushandisa zvose zvaanoziva pamangwanani ekuongorora. Uye muongorori anofanira kunge akachengetwa zvakanaka uye achamubatsira mune zvose. Anonzwisisa zvose, anobvumira uye anoongorora zvakanaka. Regai tekiti yemuranda (-a) yaMwari (-yi) (zita rake) iite zvakanaka uye inobata rombo. Zvichava zvakadaro uye kwete. Ameni. "
Rangano yacho inofanira kudzokororwa katatu, uye ipapo, chinyorwa kana bhuku, iise pasi pemutsiro. Pakarepo mushure meizvi zvakakosha kuenda kunorara.
Chirongwa chekudzidza zvakanakisisa
Mhemberero iri pasi apa inobvumira kuzarura matarenda aripo, izvo zvichabatsira mwana kuti ave akachenjera zvikuru. Kuti uitungamirire, unoda kugadzirira girazi remvura dzvene, imwe munyu, madota uye banga. Kana pasina mvura yakachena pedyo, ipapo unogona kushandisa mvura yekuchera kana mvura yakawanda yemapombi, asi inofanira kugara munzvimbo ine rima kwevhiki. Mvura iyi inofanira kuisa mishonga mitatu yemunyu, iyo inofanira kutorwa nechingwe uye zviduku. Uyezve wedzera mazimbe matatu, ayo anotorwawo neminwe yakafanana. Nhanho inotevera ndeyokutora muchinjikwa pamusoro pegirazi remvura nemubati wemiseve, zvichifamba kubva kumusoro kusvikira pasi, uye kubva kurudyi kuenda kuruboshwe. Panguva iyi pamba, unofanira kuverenga urongwa hwokudzidza:
"Mifungo inokurumidza, bhizinesi irikurumidza, chiyeuchidzo chakasimba! Uchenjeri nouchenjeri hunobatana mumvura, Uyai pamwe mose kumuranda waMwari (zita) enda. Kumwana ane pfungwa dzangu akabwinya, pfungwa dzakakanganisa munhu wose. Kubvira zvino uye nokusingaperi. Ameni! "
Mvura inofanira kuchengetwa kunze kwekusvika kwevasingazivi kwemazuva makumi mana. Pashure pacho, inodururwa.
Kunyengera kwehovha mukudzidza
Kuti uite tsika iyi, unoda kubvisa bhatani kubva kumapfekidzi omudzidzi, waanogara achigara. Vhenekera mwenje wechechi, uye batisisa bhomanana kwechinguva pamusoro pemurazvo, uye nekukurumidza uikandire mune girazi rakazara nemvura. Zvadaro verenga mazwi aya:
"Uya nehomwe, nhamo, kumuranda (y) waMwari (mu), uye kwete kwete mhanza yakanaka, asi rombo rechokwadi, kumutakura (iye) pakudzidzisa, mupfungwa uye pakutaura. Ini ndinokupa zvakasimba iwe, ndinokukumbira. Nokudaro matambudziko ose anopfuura, uye mufaro zuva nezuva unouya kumuranda (y) waMwari (mu) mukudzidza kubudirira! Zvakasimba shoko rangu, hakuna mumwe! Ameni. "
Bhodhi yacho yakanyatsoputirwa nehuga, uyezve, isa pasi panzvimbo. Chinhu chakaoma hachikwanisi kupfeka kwemazuva manomwe uye munguva ino zvinokurudzirwa kuti udye zvakanyanya shuga uye uchi. Kana nguva yakabvumwa yapfuura, zvakakosha kushambidza chinhu chacho, kuchiita uye kuchipfeka kwevhiki vhiki imwe neimwe.