Kana ukama hwasvika pakumirira, uye mumwe wevamwe vanobvisa kusuruvara kune mumwe, zvinogara zvichishungurudza uye kunyanya kumukadzi, nokuti anoziva kuti haasati adiwa uye asingadikanwi nemurume wake. Kuziva kuti munhu akaparara pasina rudo zvakaoma zvikuru, asi nekuti vamwe vanoramba vachiita muhukama hwakanaka uye vanozvinyengera ivo pachavo. Asi nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare tichafanira kutarisana nechokwadi. Kana munhu asingadi mukadzi, zvino zviratidzo zvipi zvinoratidza izvi - munyaya ino.
Unonzwisisa sei kuti munhu haadi?
Ichokwadi, kunyange mubvunzo chaiyo we rudo rwemumwe wako ndiyo chiratidzo chokutanga. Pashure pezvose, hazvina kusimuka kubva pane chinhu. Saka, pane zvimwe zviratidzo zvinotyisa izvo mukadzi wacho akabatwa mutukutu uye akaziva kuti chimwe chinhu chiri muhukama hwakashata. Kana munhu asingachadi mukadzi, iwe unogona kuzvinzwisisa nezviratidzo zvinotevera:
- mumwe wake anorega kutsaurira mukadzi kune zvirongwa zvake. Haana kubvunzana naye uye nepamusoro pekukwanisa kubvumira kupinda kune bhizinesi rake. Anogumisa kugovana zvakaitika kune kubasa, anovanza mabhuku mumasangano evanhu , etc ;;
- anoedza zvishoma kudarika kushanyira kumba. Anouya ane zvikonzero zvekugara pabasa, pakupera kwevhiki anosiya neshamwari dzekuroveza, kushamba, kuenda kuimba yekugeza, nezvimwe;
- anoisa zvaanoda kupfuura zvido zvemhuri, mwana nemudzimai. Ndiko kuti, murume wacho haachadi kuva nehanya kune avo vari pedyo uye kuva akavimbika pamapfudzi kwavari;
- kana munhu asingadi, uye anofara, zvino chiratidzo chakajeka chei ndiyo mafungiro emutengi. Izvi zvinoreva kuti anova munhu wekuzvarwa uye achida chete kana achida chimwe chinhu. Kana agamuchira kana asina kugamuchira waidiwa, zvakare anotanga kusazvidza shamwari yake;
- murume akarega kurega, kwete chete haatauri kuti anodikanwa, asiwo kumhura, uye mune zvose, mune zvose zvese, uye anotanga kucherechedza kukanganisa kwechitarisiko uye anovaudza;
- hapana chido chokubata, haachagoni kunyengetera, kutsvoda, kudzivisa misangano yepedyo;
- anorega kutevera mazwi ake mumakakatanwa ezvinhu, anogona kunyomba, kugumbura kana kuratidza kusaremekedza.
Muvanhu vose, munhu akadaro anongotsauka kuona mumwe wake ari pedyo naye uye maitiro ake ose uye maitiro ake anoratidza kuti haana hanya nemararamiro ake uye kuti anofema sei, angave ane hupenyu. Haana hanya nezvoutano hwake, mupfungwa uye mumuviri nyaradzo uye haana godo, nokuti haatyi kurasikirwa. Zvose izvi zviratidzo zvakananga kana zvisiri izvo zvinoratidza kusava nerudo, uye chii chaunofanira kuita nezvazvo - kugovera kana kuedza kuchengetedza ukama, mukadzi mumwe nomumwe anosarudza zvake.