Zvose zvinotanga kusingaoneki. Kutanga-kunwa chete pamazororo. Zvadaro-pakupera kwevhiki. Gare gare - zvakare zvakare pakati pevhiki. Zvishoma nezvishoma, migumisiro ye "gulyas" -kubva pazvimedu zvakaputsika kusvika kumotokari yakaputsika-yakawedzerwawo. Kana murume anonwa, kakawanda haazvizivi, asi achapindura nechinhu chakadai: "Iwe hausati waona kuti vanonwa sei!". Asi nzira yekuzvibata kumudzimai wako mumamiriro ezvinhu aya mubvunzo wakaoma, uye zviri nani kuti usanonoka chisarudzo.
Dzimwe nhamba
Hazvisi chakavanzika chokuti chero munhu upi zvake anowedzera kunwa doro pazvikamu zvokutanga haaoni izvi sechinetso. "Pashure pezvose, vanonwa zvose!" - vanhu vakadaro vanoti. Havakwanisi kuongorora mhedzisiro chaiyo yevanopesana navo, kana kuziva kuti vakagara kwenguva yakareba nemiganhu ye "chimiro". Maererano nehuwandu, semuenzaniso, muRussia kune vanopfuura mamiriyoni makumi matatu ekunwa kwevarume - zvinoreva zvinenge zvese zvechipiri.
Zvinowanzoitika kuti murume anonwa uye anonyomba, uye mukadzi achiri kusarudza kumurwira kusvikira kumugumo. Kusava neruzivo uye ruzivo munharaunda iyi zvinowanzoita kuti mudzimai asarudze nzira dzisingabatsiri dze "kubatsira" munhu. Zvichakadaro, nhamba dzinozivisa zvinotyisa zviitiko: gore rose 12 000 vakadzi vanofa nemhirizhonga mudzimba , uye muhuwandu hwemhosva dzinosanganiswa nekudhakwa. Ndicho chikonzero, kana iwe ukaona kuti murume akatanga kunwa, funga kuti chii chaunofanira kuita.
Chii chandinofanira kuita kana murume wangu anonwa?
Mukadzi anofanira kuratidza kusimba uye kutanga wekutanga kugadza miganhu: hapana kunwa kumba. Zvakakosha kutora mamiriro akajeka, echokwadi panyaya iyi. Uye chinhu chekutanga chekuita ndechokuti uzviratidze kumurume kuti anodhakwa uye zvinetso nedoro. Nokuti izvi zvakakosha kuita zviito zvinotevera:
- Tanga kalendari, umo mwedzi, tarisa mazuva ose paanonwa, chiyero chakadhakwa, nemigumisiro yakaipa.
- Sezvinyorwa, nyora zvinhu zvose zvisingafadzi uye kurasikirwa kwakaitika kwaari nekuda kwekunwa kwake.
- Imwe mapepa akazvitsaurirwa kuverenga zvinodhaka zvewaini, zvigadzirwa zvakabatana uye kubhadharwa kwemigumisiro.
- Nenzira imwecheteyo, kumuputira doro rinodhakwa paikamera, kana kunyora pasi mhaurirano parekodha.
Paunowana humwe uchapupu hwakakwana, iwe unofanirwa kumuswedera - kunyatsozvidzora uye nekunaka-uye kunyatsotaura kuti unofunga kuti anoda rubatsiro. Uye mumuratidze humwe humwe uchapupu hwokuti nei aigona kutomidzwa kunwa doro mukutanga. Kurova pane izvi kunofanirwa kuva kusvikira ataura "Ndiri chidhakwa." Kana mushure mekunge abvuma kurapwa, unogona kuenda kuna chiremba. Kurapa pasina kubvumirwa hakuzoiti chero chinhu.
Asi ziva: mushure mokunge hapana kana kudzoka shure. Iwe haugone kuchengeta doro rewaini mumba mako, zvibvumira kunyange kune mazororo. Rimwe girazi, rimwe girazi rinogona kuparadza mwedzi yose, uye kunyange makore ekushanda uye kudzorera zvinhu zvose kusvika kune zero point.
Chii chandinofanira kuita kana murume wangu anonwa zvakanyanya uye nguva dzose?
Kana iwe ukaona kuti "kudhakwa kwake" kunowanzowedzera mumurume, uye anoramba achirasikirwa nehupenyu hwake mushure mekunwa, nemigumisiro yakaoma zvikuru yekunwa kwake, uye zvose zvinowedzera utsinye - funga, asi kune chimwe chinhu chinorwisana nacho here?
Maererano nenhamba dzinosuruvarisa, hapana makumi maviri kubva kune makumi matatu kubva kune makumi matatu kubva kune makumi maviri kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana kubva kune makumi mana. Vakawanda vanodzokorora zvakare, uye hupenyu hwose hwemhuri yakadaro hunova hurumende dzekudzikama kwekudhakwa kwekudhakwa. Iwe unoda kurarama mumhuri yakadaro here? Usakanganwa kuti kushungurudzika kwekuvapo kwechidhakwa pamusha nguva dzose kunoshungurudza mwana wechirwere chepfungwa. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, zviri nyore kubva pakarepo, pane kuedza kuponesa munhu asingazvirwi. Usambofa wakakanganwa nezvechinhu ichi.