Kutsvaga kuzvidza mumwe munhu nokuda kwechiuvinism maererano noupenyu hwemhuri, tinotsamwa: "Hungu ndiDomostroy vamwe". Asi mafungiro aya mubhuku rino anonzwisiswa, zvichida mumamiriro evanhu vemazuva ano, mamwe mazano ayo achave akakodzera here?
Domostroy: A Little Story
Zita rakazara chechivako ichi cheRussia mabhuku ndeche "Bhuku Rinonzi Domostroy." Zvinotendwa kuti basa ndiro chigumisiro chebasa rekubatana kwezvizvarwa zvakasiyana-siyana. Kunyangwe shanduro yakakurumbira ye Sylvester yakaisvonaka - murevereri weIvan the Terrible. Gare gare, "Bhuku rinonzi Domostroy" rakavandudzwa ne hieromonk weMoscow Chudov Monastery, uye gare gare naHegumen Karion muzana remakore rechi17. Mune shanduro iyi, maBhaibheri ose akange aripo panguva iyoyo akabatanidzwa.
Domostroy aiva nemitemo yekuremekedza tsar (muchinda), akaudza nezvehutungamiri hwehupfumi, akataura pamusoro pekuchengetwa kwemitemo yechitendero, paivawo nemashoko kubva kuna baba kumwanakomana. Uye dzidziso dzakawanda dzeDomostroi pamusoro pemufambiro wemudzimai, murume nevana vari mumhuri vanozivikanwa. Iyi mirayiridzo inokonzera kusimba kwakasimba, vazhinji vakadzi vanovatarisa zvakananga chauvinistic uye nomwoyo wose vanonzwira tsitsi nevakadzi vavo vakararama munguva iyoyo. Asi isu madzitateguru edu anonyatsokodzera kuvanzwira tsitsi, kana kuti takatora misoro uye hatina kunzwisisa here?
Domostroi mitemo yemhuri yanhasi
- Bhuku rinotaura kuti mudzimai ane mutsa, akanyarara, mudzimai anoshanda zvakaoma korona kumurume wake, anoita kuti ave noukama hwakanaka. Asi izvi hazvisi izvo here? Pamberi pemashure evarume vakawanda vanobudirira vakadzi vavo vakachenjera. Ichokwadi kuti kune vakadzi vemazuva ano kuti vave mumumvuri wemurume akabudirira angaita seasingagamuchiri, asi kutsigira murume wake hazvirevi kuti hazvibudiriri munharaunda yake, chinhu chakakosha ndechokusarudza kodzero yake.
- Mukuunganidzwa kwemirayiridzo pane mazano ekukurukurirana zuva nezuva pamusoro peimba. Munyika yanhasi, iyi murayiridzo inobatsirawo - zvichida kwete zuva rega rega, asi kamwe kamwe pavhiki kutaura pamusoro pemabasa epamba uye bhajeti inokosha. Saka iwe unogona kunyatsoona uyo anopa mari yekushanda mumba.
- Domostroy anorayira mudzimai wake kuti ataure chete nevaya vanodiwa nemurume, uye vari kushanyirwa kuti varambe vachikurukura zvakanaka uye chenjerera kudhakwa. Zvose mazano anonzwisisika, kunze kwekuti kuwana mvumo kubva kumurume kunogona kukonzera mukadzi wemazuva ano. Kunyangwe ndichikumbira murume wangu mvumo yekusangana neshamwari inzira yakanaka kwazvo yekunyadzisa varume kuzvikudza. Mvumo yemurume mumwecheteyo ichapa (kana pasina mafungiro akaipa), uye mushure mokunge mubvunzo iwoyo manzwiro ekukosha kwawo pauri achawedzera kazhinji.
- Uyewo mubhuku pane mazano asina kupa mhosva vanhu vatinokurukura navo, kwete kuparadzira makuhwa uye kusareva mazwi akaipa. Uyewo mazano akanaka - makuhwa uye maduku asina kunaka haana kumboita chero ani zvake, uye mukurumbira wemunhu anonyengera makuhwa vanhu vashomanana muhupenyu vanobatsira.
- Domostroy anokuraira kuti usagara panze uye usabatwa zvisina kunaka. Uye aya mazano haasi asina chokwadi - misangano yakareba kwazvo nevatenzi imutoro, uye isu tose tinoziva izvo zvinowanzoguma kune marudzi ose emakambani nemasangano ane ruzha. Zviwande, kupandukira, zviitiko zvevhesi uye makuhwa - izvi zvose hazvidiwi kune ani zvake, saka iwe unoda kusiya nguva yezororo, kusvikira yakatendeuka kubva kunyorera kusvika "kuvhara."
- Panewo mazano pamusoro pokugamuchira vaeni, bhuku racho rinorayira zvakanaka kuti vagamuchire munhu wese, taura kune mumwe nomumwe uye chimwe chinhu chinofadza. Uye handizvo here hwaro hwezvinhu zvose zvemazuva ano zvekukurukurirana? Iva neshamwari, uwane shoko rine mutsa uye kunyemwerera kune muenzi wose, uye vanhu vachakuonga.
- Kana murume achiona kuti furazi iri dambudziko, saka ndiro basa rake kudzidzisa mudzimai wake. Kana iye anonzwisisa zvinhu zvose, saka rumbidza uye ruremekedzo, uye kana mudzimai asingateereri mashoko omurume wake, ipapo anofanira kurangwa. Uye akarova, akanganwirwa,
asi mumwe mushure mokumwe zvakaipa hazvigoni uye kurarama murudo uye kutenderana. Iyi pfungwa yeDomostroi inokonzera kusawirirana kukuru, asi nekuita zvishoma nezvishoma kwekanguva uye kuchinja mazano kune zvamazuva ano, tinogamuchira kukurudzira kuti tikwanise kuziva zvikanganiso zvedu uye tendera zvikanganiso kune imwe. Uye mukugadzirisa matambudziko ose, kuremekedzana uye, zvechokwadi, rudo runofanira kubatsira.
Iyo inosvika Domostroy uye yemhuri dzemazuva ano inokwanisa kupa mazano akawanda anobatsira, uye chauvinism mune dzidziso haisi kuonekwa. Uye kune avo vanotenda zvakasiyana, nhoroondo inofanira kurangarirwa - munguva dzehondo dzinogara dziripo uye maitiro emiganhu, zvingadai zvisina kudaro, kunze kwekuti mukadzi wemhosva anotungamirirwa nehondo aisakwanisa kuonekwa somusoro wemhuri, naizvozvo shoko romurume wake raive rakasarudza. Asi mumhuri umo manzwiro aive akanaka, vakaroorana vakasarudza pamwe chete, naizvozvo kuda "Zano nerudo".