Pavanotengesa vanotaura zvakawanda uye kazhinji, iyi ndeimwe yemibvunzo iyo vakadzi nevarume vanofarira. Haisi chakavanzika chokuti hupombwe huri nani kupfuura mukadzi. Iyo iri munzira dzose yakaruramiswa nekuti varume vakangoita zvikaita samarita, kuti ivo vanopandukira hazvibatanidzi nemanzwiro. Asi kana mukadzi akaenda kune rumwe rutivi, ipapo hukama hwacho hwakapa zvakadzika, uye zvinenge zvisingakwanisi kuvaponesa.
Nhamba dzevakadzi nevakadzi dzinochinja
Kune deta inotaura kuti mune imwe neimwe mhuri yechitatu, mumwe wevakaroorana ane ukama hwomukati. Panguva imwe chete mumakore achangobva kupfuura, vakadzi vari mune izvi zviratidzo havaregi kure kumashure kwevarume, uye gore rimwe nerimwe nhamba yavo inowedzera, asi nhamba yevarume vane vadzidzisi vavo haisi nguva dzose.
Kutengesa kwevakadzi, sezvinoratidzwa nehuwandu, hunopesana nevarume pakuti mune makumi mashanu ematambudziko anotungamirira kukanganisa kwakakwana muhukama nemudzimai, uye 5% chete yevarume vanoenda kuna tenzikadzi wepamberi. Ngationgororei zvikonzero zvekusiyana kwakakosha mune zviratidzo.
Psychology yeupombwe hwevakadzi
Pane pfungwa yokuti hapana kusatendeka kwevakadzi musimboti, nokuti zvakaoma zvikuru kuti pabonde rakanaka kupinda muukama hwepedyo husina manzwiro, ivo vari kunyanya kufunga nezvehukama hwavo husingaperi uye hupenyu hwavo. Vakanga vachiri vaduku vakaisa basa remuchengetedzi wemhuri, iyo isingakwanisi kuisa pachena mhuri yacho kune ngozi yakadaro. Iye zvino pfungwa iyi iri kuve isina kushanda. Vatariri vemusha iye zvino kazhinji vanozvifunga ivo vanoteerera zvido zvavo uye vanojaira kuitevera.
Asi kukanganisa kwevarume nevakadzi kusati kwakasiyana zvachose muzvikonzero zvavo nekuzviisa pasi maonero avo kwavari. Kune mukadzi, nyaya dzisingatauriki ndeyekunyengedzera, apo varume vanobata maitiro avo nekutenda kwakanyanya, asi vashomanana vanogona kukanganwira kutengeswa kwevakaroorana navo.
Kune munhu, chikonzero chekupandukira chinogona kungova chido chisingaiti, uye hazvirevi kuti hazvirevi kuti haadi mudzimai wake. Zvinokonzera kusavimbika kwevakadzi zvakasiyana zvakasiyana uye zvinoratidza matambudziko mazhinji muhukama hwevasikana. Ngationei,
- iyo inogona kukanganisa pabonde rakanaka kutarisa ukama hutsva:
- kusava nehanya kwechikamu chemudzimai;
- kusagutsikana nemumwe wako (tiri kutaura pamusoro pehupenyu hwepedyo hwevanhu vaviri, uye pamusoro pemamiriro ekunyama, kuvapo kwezvinhu zvinodiwa, nezvimwewo);
- kuzvidzora, kufunga kwekusava nehanya nevanhu;
- kusuruvara uye chido chokunzvenga kubva purogiramu;
- kutsiva kune mumwe munhu akachinja, nezvimwewo.
Zviratidzo zvekusatendeka kwevakadzi
Varume havabhadhara zvakanyanya zvinhu zviduku, savakadzi. Saka, dzimwe nguva vakadzi havafungi kuti zvakafanira kunyatsovanza hukama hwavo. Iwe ungaziva sei chikadzi chifeve?
Chinhu chekutanga chinogona kukubvumira iwe kuchinja kuonekwa. Kana musikana wacho asina kumbozviona achizviona, uye iye zvino haasi kurega mari yekugadzira manicure, pedicure, mangwanani oga oga anoita chimiro, pakarepo anowedzera uye haaedzi kukwezva murume wake, saka haana kumuitira iye.
Yechipiri ndiyo tsika itsva. Kana shamwari ikangoerekana yatanga nekushamisika nguva dzose kushanyira muimba yekurovedza, pakarepo yakava nehanya nenziyo yemitambo kana kuti kokutanga iyo yakaisa mutsara wekutsvaga paIndaneti, kunyange zvazvo pasina munhu ari kutamba kumba, zvinoreva kuti mumwe munhu ari pedyo naye anoita zvaanoda.
Imwe nzira, iwe ungaziva sei hupombwe - zvinhu zvitsva. Zvipfeko zvisina chikonzero chakakosha, zvinhu zvitsva zvinodhura, kunyange kuwedzera mubhadharo kwakanga kusiri kutaura, zvitsva, zvinonhuwira uye zvipfeko - chiratidzo chechokwadi.
Uye zvakakosha here kutaura pamusoro pekunyunyuta kwemashoko, mharidzo uye kakawanda uye nguva refu inosangana neshamwari?
Chero zvazvingava, kuchinja kwehukama huchava pachena, uye, zvichida, kusinganzwisisiki. Kune vashandi, iyi muedzo inogona kuva chiitiko chokufungisisa uye kushanda paukama hwako kana chikonzero chekutora danho rakasununguka uye kusunungurwa.