Kubvira pauduku takadzidziswa kuti rudo runokwanisika chete pakati pomukomana nemusikana, uye hukama hwepabonde imwechete hunomira kunze kwemutemo. Takakurira, munhu wose aive nemafungiro ake pamusoro pevateveri vemunhu mumwe chete, asi pano bisexuality inowanzoita kuti vanhu vakawanda vavhiringidzike. Ndezvakanaka here kuti tibate vose vari varumekadzi sevakaroorana navo?
Zvinokonzera bisexuality varume nevakadzi
Pakutanga, bisexuality yaifungidzirwa chete kubva pakuona kwehupenyu. Tiri kutaura pamusoro pemakwenzi, vanhu vaiva nevakadzi nevanhurume. MuMiddle Ages, vanhu vakadaro vaionekwa sechibereko chedhiyabhorosi uye vakaurayiwa. Gare gare, vanhu ve "pakati peboka" vakamira kutambudza uye vakatanga kuita basa, vachisiya zvepabonde zvakafanana.
Kana tichitaura pamusoro pekuita zvepabonde sechinhu chisingadiwi, zvino mupiro mukuru mukudzidza kwechiitiko ichi wakagadzirwa naSagmund Freud. Pamberi pake pakanga pane pfungwa yokuti munhu atoberekwa ane unhu hwepabonde. Freud akaratidzawo kuti vanhu vasingazivi kuti vose vanoita zvepabonde, kureva kuti, mumunhu wese kubva pakuberekwa kune vose varume nevakadzi masangano epfungwa. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, apo iwe uchikura, zvinhu zvose zvinosanganiswa nevanhurume nevasikana vakasiyana-siyana zviri kubudiswa kunze. Kutsvakurudza kwakakura munharaunda iyi kwaitungamirirwa naA Kinsey, uyo akawana kuti hukama hwevakadzi huri chinhu chisingawanzwisisiki - inenge 28% yevasikana uye 46% yevarume vane chido chekuita zvepabonde kana kuti vane ruzivo rwakashata nevarume vavo zvepabonde.
Kune bisexuality yakajairika here?
Pasinei nekutsvakurudza kwose, masayendisiti achiri kukwanisa kunzwisisa kuti boka ripi rinofanirwa kufungidzirwa busxuality - kusvika pakukanganisa kwepfungwa kana humwe unhu hwekusimudzira. Dzimwe nyanzvi dzinokakavadzana kuti kuvapo kwevakadzi kana kuti varume vanoita zvepabonde, vachizviona sechiitiko chekutsvaga kubva kune tsika dzepabonde zvechikadzi kune ungochani. Kunyange zvazvo vakawanda vachiri kunowanzoreva kuti kufarira kwevamwe kune vamiririri vevakomana nemukadzi kune imwe nzira yekuita zvepabonde, pane nzira yekuvanza ungochani hwavo. Zvakanaka, kana zviri pachena kuti vakwekwe zvepabonde zvakadaro kana kwete, zviri kumunhu mumwe nomumwe kuzvisarudzira.
Muedzo wevakadzi bisexuality
Uye unoziva sei kana munhu ari bondexual? Mukuonekwa, izvi hazvibviri kutsanangurira, zvinotora kufunga kwepfungwa yekuongororwa, inotungamirirwa nemumwe nyanzvi kana wega. Icho hachisi chiyero chimwe chekuziva zviratidzo zvehupombwe. Mimwe miedzo inotarisa muenzaniso wekuita unhu hwemunhu uye pamusoro peshoko iri rinotaura nezvemagariro evanhu kana zvepabonde. Vamwe vanoratidzira kuongorora maitiro avo epabonde, mafungiro, zvido uye zvavanoda kuti vatsanangurire dambudziko rehupenyu hwavo hwepabonde. Icho chinonyanya kukosha kushandisa sero kubva muchikwata chechipiri, sezvo vazhinji vevakadzi pamwe chete nevakadzikadzi vane tsika dzakanaka dzevanhu vakasiyana nevasikana.
Kuti uone kushuva kwako kune izvi kana kuti rudzi rwekuita zvepabonde, pindura mibvunzo inotevera.
- unonzwa uchida shamwari yako yepamwoyo here? Wanga uchida kumukumbundira, kumunamatira, zvichida kumunyaradza nechimwe chinhu here? Unofarira kugunzva kwake here?
- Unogona here kuenda kune imwe kuedza kuti uedze bisexuality yako?
- Kunakidzwa kwevakadzi kunokufadza here? Iwe unofunga nezvechikadzi chine simba here? Unoyemura maitiro akanaka echikadzi here?
- kuverenga pamusoro pebisexuality, unofunga kuti iwe pachako unotungamira sei, unonzwa uine kutya kwekugona kuenda kune imwe "musasa"?
- unonzwa urombo, rudo, tsitsi, unoda kunzwisisa uye kukanganwira kune vamwe here?
- iwe unonzwa sei? Zvine nyore here kuti iwe uchinje imwe mafungiro kune mumwe, zviri nyore kukubvisa iwe-kuseka, kukanganisa, kutsamwa, kufara kana kunyadziswa?
- Unoona here kurota kunotyisa? Unofunga zvepabonde here?
- Iwe unowanzoda kuita zvepabonde here? Iwe unofarira zvinogadziriswa, zvidzidzo uye kusiyana kwepabonde here? Iwe unofunga kuti mune zvepabonde hausi
Zvinogona here kuve nekurambidzwa chero bedzi vaviri vari vaviri vari kufara vachiitika? - Ungada here kuedza katatu che "ZHMZH"?
Mamwe mibvunzo inowanikwa kubva kune mhinduro dzakanaka ("hongu", "hongu kwete pane kwete"), iyo yakakwirira mikana yekuita bisexuality yako. Kana iwe ukati "kwete" kumibvunzo yose, iwe uri 100% hutano hwepabonde. Kunyange zvazvo mhinduro dzakadaro dzinogonawo kutaura pamusoro pezvinetso muhutano hwepabonde, uye pamusoro pehutsika hwakanyanya hwekukwezva zvepabonde kune chero zvepabonde.