Iro psychology yemari ndeimwe yemirairo yesayenzi yemweya, kudzidza mafungiro evanhu kune pfuma yake, mari nemamwe maitiro. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinoita zvidzidzo zvakawanda zvekushandiswa kwemari pamararamiro evanhu, pane hukama hwehukama pamwe nezvimwe zvinhu zvinokosha. Kune vamwe, zvingaita sekuti pfungwa dzepfungwa neyemari dziri kure kwazvo, asi chaizvoizvo hazvisi. Kushushikana kunobata kwete mararamiro ehupenyu hwedu chete, asiwo unhu, maonero ekureva chokwadi uye nevanhu varipoteredza. Muzvinyorwa zvesayenzi uye zvinyorwa-nesayenzi, unogona kuverenga mazano akawanda anofadza ane chokuita nemafungiro omunhu kune mabhizinesi.
Nezvehutano hwepfungwa, mari inotevera inopiwa mumabhuku:
- kuda mari;
- usatya fuma;
- funga zvakanaka;
- dzidza kupa mari yako;
- Iva nepfuma mumifungo yako;
- Farai mumatare ose;
- tenda mukubudirira, nezvimwewo.
Vakawanda, vadzidza mabhuku ose akadaro, vagara uye vamirira pfuma yakapikirwa. Asi hazvikurumidzi kwavari. Chii ichocho? Aya maitiro epfungwa haana kushanda here, kana tiri kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipa?
Zvose zvakarurama uye nzira dzinoshanda, chete chinetso mumamiriro evanhu. Isu tose tine mafungiro akasiyana nezvehupenyu nehupfumi, kusanganisira. Mafungiro edu ekufungisisa uye zvinoreva mari zvakasiyana zvachose. Kune mumwe munhu, mari ndeyezvose, uye kune mumwe munhu ivo chete nzira yekuvimbisa hupenyu hwehupenyu.
Iro psychology yekuita mari inofanira kunge yakavakirwa pane chokwadi chinotevera:
- Pakati pedu pane mikana uye nzira dzekuwana, zvinongova zvakakosha kunzwisisa nzira iyo yakakunakira iwe.
- Mari uye basa hazviwanzobatanidzwa. Vanhu vazhinji vanove vasina ruzivo mubasa ravakadzidza kuchikoro, saka vachitaura kuti nebasa rangu iwe haungabhadharwi zvakawanda - hazvibatsiri. Tarisa zvaunowana.
- Kuipa kwemari kunokanganisa mufaro wekuwanikwa kwavo. Muchiitiko ichi, inofungidzirwa sekushungurudzika uye makaro, uye doro rakawandisa. Mari inofanirwa kushandiswa nemari yakachengetedzwa.
Zvinetso zvepfungwa dzemari
Izvi zvinetso zvakabatana nemanzwiro edu nemafungiro anozvidzorera pfuma kubva kwatiri. Kazhinji isu pachedu tinoisa zvipingamupinyi zvakasiyana-siyana kuti tidzivise kuita zvakakosha. Izvi zvipingamupinyi zvinogona kuva zvizhinji, chimwe chazvo chinopesana mupfungwa - kugutsikana nekusingaperi kwemari yemari. Munhu wacho anorarama zvakanaka uye inoronga chaizvo. Chimwe chipingamupinyi - kusatenda - munhu anonyatsotsunga kuti haagoni kuwana mari, uye hupenyu huri nani hahuoni kuonekwa. Kutya chimwe chipingamupinyi chekuzadza kubudirira kwemari. Kutya kugadzira mari uye nekurasikirwa navo usiku humwe, kunopedza chimwe chinhu kuti chiite.
Psychology yekusimudza mari
Kuonekwa kwenguva refu kwehupenyu hwevapfumi kunotibvumira kuti tifunge. Vanhu vakachengeteka nguva dzose vanoziva kuti nei vachida mari, vanogadzirisa zvinangwa uye vanoenda kwavari. Vanoda mari - vabata navo noruremekedzo uye kuremekedza. Kazhinji kazhinji ivo vanogadzirisa mari, vanopedza mari chete pazvinhu zvakakosha zvikuru.
Kuti uve munhu ane mari, tora mazano kubva ku-psychology yekubudirira:
- Usanamata mari, asi usazvidza.
Iva nechokwadi chekuongorora kukosha kwavo muupenyu hwako. - Kurukura nevanhu vakarurama. Tambanudza kune akabudirira uye usapinda whiners.
- Usambogodora munhu. Kana mumwe munhu kubva kune shamwari dzako achiita zvinhu zviri nani pane iwe, edza kusvika pamwero wake, uye kwete kuti awire kune yako.
Uye iyo inonyanya kutonga ndeye "iwe unoda mari - unovaita". Chimwe chido hachizoiti chero chigumisiro, chinofanira kutsigirwa nezviito. Nhau nemhaka inongoerekana yafa uye anoroja murume muhupenyu hwavo hunoitika zvishoma nezvishoma pane paTV zviratidzo uye zvinyorwa zvishoma.