Nguva inobhururuka zvakakurumidza, uye nokukurumidza mwana wako achava wokutanga. Akagadzirira chikoro here? Ndezvipi ruzivo rwechikoro rinofanira kuitwa kuchikoro chekutanga panguva ino? Chii chinonyanya kukosha: ruzivo kana kugadzirira mupfungwa? Mibvunzo - gungwa!
Vose vana vari kuchikoro vakasiyana. Vamwe vanoenda kuchikwata chechikoro, vanodzidza tsamba, nhamba, vanopinda makirasi mune mutauri wekutaura uye mupfungwa wepfungwa. Vamwe havana kumbobvira vari mubindu, uye denderedzwa yekukurukurirana inongogumira kuvabereki nevana vevanozivana navo. Vamwewo, kwete kuenda kuchikoro chechikoro, vane nguva yekudzidza munzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana dzekukura kwekutanga, denderedzwa uye zvikamu. Ndeupi wezvikamu izvi mwana wako angave ari, kana pane mwedzi mitanhatu yakasara chikoro chisati chavapo, saka zvose zvinogadziriswa!
The Psychological Aspect
Zvinokurudzirwa kwepfungwa dzepfungwa kuvabereki vekuchikoro vana vanowanzoputira kune chokwadi chokuti nzira huru yekugadzirira chikoro ndiko kukwanisa kufunga nezvemaminitsi anopfuura makumi matatu, uyewo kushanda. Kana vari muchechi yevana vekudzidzira vanoziva mitemo yekufambisa panguva dzezvikoro, zvino kune vana vasingaendi chikoro chisati chava kuchikoro, kugara pa desk kwemaminitsi anopfuura gumi nemaminomwe makumi maviri nemashanu ndeyekuedza kwakaoma. Kunyange iyo nyaya inofadza zvikuru haikwanisi kuchengetedza chikoro chekare kutora nguva inopfuura 10-15 maminitsi. Mhinduro yakanakisisa ndeyokushanyira mapoka ekugara kwenguva pfupi kuchikoro. Zvinosuruvarisa, hapana maitiro akadaro mune zvese chikoro. Kana iwe usina mukana wekunyoresa mwana mumutambo wokutanga wekufambira mberi, ita zvidzidzo zvisinganzwisisiki kumba. Raira mwana, somuenzaniso, kutora mifananidzo, asi edza kuva nechokwadi chokuti panguva yekukwevera haasi kukanganiswa uye kugara panzvimbo imwe. Chimwe chirevo kuvabereki vekutanga vana: panguva yechikoro, edza kuita saizvozvo kuti mwana aite zvawakamuraira, uye kwete zvaanoda. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, rega atore muti, sezvawataura, uye kwete murairiki kana zuva.
Usakanganwa kuti vanaamai vakawanda havana dzidzo yepamusoro, zvinhu zvakawanda zvakakosha pakugadzirira chikoro zvinogona kushaikwa.
Unyanzvi hunokosha
Unhu uhwu hwechikoro chekutanga hahuna hunokosha kudarika ruzivo rwetsamba uye nhamba. Mwana wacho anofanira kukwanisa kuzvishanda pachake: kuveura bvudzi, kupfeka, kushandisa mazano kuvanhu vakuru. Mukuwedzera, panguva ino vana vane ruzivo pamusoro pezvimbo yavo yekugara, mazita, mazita avabereki uye nzvimbo yebasa ravo, nguva, nguva.
Pamberi pechikoro, vabereki vanofanira kutarisira kukura kwechiyeuchidzo chomwana . "Kudzidzisa" kwakadaro zviri nani kuitisa mumhando yemitambo inofadza. Tarisa pane kufamba kwe shiri, vanhu, teerera mavara emotokari, uye kumba, mushure mekufamba, kumbira mwana kuti ingani motokari dzemotokari, somuenzaniso, akaona. Kuverenga nekuyeuka nhetembo kwakanaka kwazvo, uye kana mwana akazviziva nemoyo, vakuudze kuti vaudze nhetembo pane imwe nyaya (nezveamai, nezvevamwe shamwari, nezvimwewo).
Muchirevo chevabereki vevana vekuchikoro, kutarisirwa kunofanira kubhadharwa nekugadzirwa kwemagariro emwana. Kuti uite izvi, unogona kushandisa mutsara wemifananidzo kana zvifananidzo, apo chimwe chinhu kana zvikamu zviviri zvichave zvisingasviki (zvinomera pakati pemichero
Kana kudimburira, ruzivo runobatsira kuvabereki vepakutanga vana runotevera:
- kudzidzisa chiyeuchidzo, kutarisa mwana;
- Teerera kutarisa kwemashoko, magetsi, ruzivo uye kutsungirira;
- shandisa maitiro ekufambisa ose;
- mufambiro makirasi mufomu yemutambo.
Uye yeuka, mutemo mukuru wevabereki vekutanga-tanga vana ndekuita kuti mwana ave nechido chokuwana zivo itsva, kumudzidzisa kuti asatya mitemo yakaipa uye kuti awane mutauro wakafanana nevadzidzi vaunodzidza naye, nokuti iwe wakagara ari uye achazova akanaka uye anodikamwa!