Haisi chakavanzika kune ani zvake kuti nyika yomukati yomunhu chinhu chinoshamisa chinoramba chichishandura muupenyu hwose. Nguva pfupi ingatiita kuti tisiyane zvakakwana kupfuura isu tanga takaita miniti yapfuura. Uye zvechokwadi, chii chiri matiri chinoratidzirwa mune zvatinoita. Kunyanya, inosangana nemunhu. Chiitiko chimwe nechimwe chatinosangana nacho chinokanganisa mararamiro edu ega. Uye zvingave zvisina kunaka kusava nehanya nemamiriro uye nzira dzehupenyu hwekuita. Zvichida kuitira kuti tinzwisise kuti sei uye sei patinowana izvi kana humwe unhu hunobva kwatiri.
Kuvandudza nekuumbwa kweunhu
Unhu unogona kuva nechivimbo unonzi hwaro hweunhu. Uyu ndiwo mhando yepfungwa, iyo inobvumira imwe nzira yekupindura kune zvakasiyana-siyana zviratidzo zvehupenyu. Dambudziko rehuwandu hwemaitiro rakataridzirwa nesayenzi kwemakumi emakumi emakore. Zvinowanzotenda kuti dzidziso iyi yemunhu mumwe nomumwe maitiro evanhu yakatanga kuwanikwa naJulius Bansen, uyo aiona unhu sehumwe humwe unhu hweunhu. Mushure maro, mazvikokota emagariro nemazita enyika (Freud, Jung, Adler) vakafunga kuumbwa kwehutano hwemunhu senzira isingazivi uye yakonzerwa nepabonde kana zvimwe zvinokurudzira. Uyewo nhasi, mubvunzo unhu hupi huri maumbirwo, anthropologists akabatanidzwawo. Chinhu chavanonyatsocherechedza ndechekukosha kweunhu kune mumwe munhu.
Zvinokonzera kuumbwa kwemunhu
Kuumba uye kuchinja kwehutano inzira inotora chikamu chikuru chehupenyu. Kuva nemafungiro evanhu vane hutano akaparadzirwa mazai kuburikidza nevabereki, munhu gore negore, seanisii inotanga kukura nemhando dzakasiyana dzeunhu uye unhu hunoumbwa zvikuru pasi pesimba rekugara kwevanhu munharaunda iyo inowedzera uye inovandudza. Ndicho chikonzero nzira dzehutano hwekugadzirisa dzinokosha kune vanofunga nezvepfungwa. Uye, pasinei nokuti iyo nzira ine munhu mumwe munhu, pfungwa yeiyo tsika haina kubviswa. Uye matanho makuru ekuita maitiro ndeaya anotevera:
- Nguva yakatarwa iyo inopikisana nehupenyu hwomunguva yemunhu inotanga kudanwa inonetsa zvikuru. Mune dzimwe nyanzvi dzepfungwa izvi izvi zvinorondedzerwa kubva pakuberekwa, mune vamwe-zvichida kubva kumakore maviri. Chero zvazvingava, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti nguva kubva pamakore maviri kusvika gumi ndiyo nguva yenguva yakanakisisa yemwana kune zvaanoudzwa uye kuti vanhu vakuru vanoita sei pamwe naye. Uyewo, usakanganwa nezvehutano hwemamiriro ezvinhu hunokonzera maonero ehupenyu hwomunguva yemberi. Izvi zvinosanganisira kuchena.
- Chinhu chinotevera chinokurudzira kuumbwa kwehutano huri kare kuchikoro ndechekuti, hongu, chiyero chekubata kwevana mumabasa emapoka nemitambo. Kana ruzivo rwekukurukurirana kwakadaro kune mwana, zviri nani kuti dzive nehutano hwakadai sehutano hwakanaka, kutendeseka, kuzvivimba, nezvimwe. Asi zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti mamwe maitiro ekubatana anogona kuita zvinoparadza kukanganisa kwehumwe unhu.
- Munguva yechikoro, makore anenge 7-15, chikamu chepfungwa chomunhu chinoumbwa. Kubudirira kwehumwe unhu hunoenderana nehutano hwekuzviremekedza kwevechiri kuyaruka, mafungiro evadzidzisi nevezera ravo kune iye, pamwe chete nemafungiro evhidhiyo (Indaneti, terevhizheni, nezvimwewo). Pedyo nemakore 15-17 munhu anenge atova nehumwe humo hwemukati hwehuhu hucharamba husingachinji muupenyu hwake hwose. Kuvaruramisa kuchakwanisa chete munhu iyeye semugumisiro wekuvandudza nguva dzose nekushanda pavari. Zvakare, zvose zviri munharaunda yakanaka (basa, self-dzidzo), uye mune zvakaipa (kusvuta, kudhakwa zvinodhaka).
- Pakazosvika 25-30, kuumbwa kwehutano kunosanganisira kubva pa "ucheche" (maximalism, capriciousness, nezvimwewo) uye kubuda kwehutano hunobatanidza (mutoro wezviito zvako, kungwara, nezvimwewo).
- Pashure pemakore makumi matatu emasere ekuchinja,
semitemo, haichazoitiki. Chimwe chinogona kunge chiri chirwere chepfungwa kana kushungurudzika. Pakazosvika makore makumi mashanu, vanhu, sekutonga, vatova pamwe nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzemafungiro uye kurota uye vanotanga kurarama maererano nemutemo we "pano uye zvino." Munhu akakura munhu anova, kunyanya nzvimbo muhupenyu hwake huyeuka hutanga kutora. Kunyanya ihwo hunhu nehutano hwekwegura.
Nokudaro, pakutanga kwehupenyu, hwaro huri simba hwemhuri uye hwemagariro evanhu pane unhu hwekuita. Asi mukuru munhu anova, kunyanya mune ramangwana kunobva pakushanda iwe pachako uye iwe wepanyika.