Chii chandinofanira kuita kana murume wangu akachekwa?

Munyika yanhasi, pasinei nekukurumidza kukura kwehutano hwehutano, simba remafungiro pamusoro pemafungiro evanhu riri kuwedzerawo. Zvinowanikwa muhupenyu uye zvakadaro, apo kamwe kamwe murume ane rudo anotendeuka kubva kumukadzi uye anosiya mhuri , sekunge akafadzwa nomumwe mukadzi.

Tichaedza kuziva kuti chii chatinofanira kuita kana murume akatumwa uye kuti aite sei nazvo.

Kutanga, funga nezvezviratidzo, izvo zvinoratidza kuti kusaziva kwakakanganisa upenyu hwako. Mushure mezvose, hazvisi kutonhora nguva dzose pamunhu wemunhu anokwanisa kupupurira kuti aibatwa nemashiripiti. Zvichida anongoda nguva yekufunga zvakawanda uye iye zvino hazvibatsiri kumubvunza pamusoro pechinhu chero chipi zvacho.

Ndingaudza sei kana murume wangu ari kundirova?

Ngationgororei zvakanyatsoratidza zviratidzo zvikuru, izvo zvichakupa mhinduro kumubvunzo "kuti ungaziva sei kuti murume wangu akadzurwa."

1. Iko yekutanga uye imwe yezviratidzo zvikuru ndeyechido chakasimba chemudzimai kune munhu akachirota. Pakutanga chido ichi hachionekwi zvikuru, asi pasina nguva chinoshanduka kuva mania. Nokukurumidza murume wako anoratidza kusava nehanya nezvose, kusava nehanya, asi kwete kune uyo akamufukidza nemashiripiti. Kuda kwake nyaya dzemhuri, vana uye kukwezva kusinganzwisisiki kumunhu ane mhosva yepenzi rudo, anomuchema. Chinhu chinonyanya kufadza ndechokuti munhu haakwanisi kuongorora mamiriro acho ezvinhu zvakananga, anonzwisisa kuti zvose zvakamboitika zviri kuitika naye. Panguva imwecheteyo, rudo rwemavara runotarisa sekuratidzwa kwemanzwiro echokwadi, ayo aigara achigara mumweya wake.
2. Mudzimai uye anokwevera kune uyo akachekwa, uye, panguva imwe chete, anoputira pairi.
3. Kuti uone kuti unonzwisisa sei kuti murume wake akachekwa, unofanirwa kutarisa manzwiro omumwe wako. Icho chinochinja maminitsi ose. Mukuzvibata, zvakajeka kusagadzikana, kusava nepfungwa. Intuitively, iwe unogona kuzviona.
4. Murume wacho anowira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaora mwoyo .
5. Muimba, zvinhu zvose zvemhuri yako zvinowedzera.

Nzira yekudzorera sei murume akaratidzirwa?

1. Nzira yakanakisisa yekudzorera murume kumhuri ndeyokutsvaga kudanana nemashiripiti. Izvi bedzi zvinofanira kushandiswa kana paine kubatana kusati kwasvika mumhuri yako.
2. Kana wakambove nemakakatanwa nemurume wako, zvakakosha kuongorora hukama hwako. Ongorora zvakajeka zvose zvaunoita uye mufambiro wemurume wako.
3. Usati waita tsika, tarisa maitiro akaitwa akaparadzana murume. Iwe unofanirwa kuchengeta hukama hwepfungwa nehuviri nawo. Nokuda kwetsika ye rudo, shandisa mufananidzo wemumwe wako. Shandisa pajeri kubva kune iyo yakagurwa, zvino ita tsika yekudzivirira.

Ngationgororei pane zvakadzama kuti tsika iyi inosanganisira:

Nzira iyo inofanira kugara ichiitwa neye murume wake akatumwa.

Kutanga iwe unofanira kudyara muti muduku pedyo nemuti wako. Kana iwe uchiziva zita remunhu akagara mumoyo wemumwe wako, uye zita rinowirirana ne rako, unodyara spruce.

Ipapo iwe unofanira kunyengetera kuna mutsvene wako. Munyengetero uchatarisa seizvi:

"Ndinyengetere kuna Mwari, mutsvene mutsvene waMwari (zita dzvene), sezvo ndiri kutendeukira kwauri, ambulensi uye bhuku-munyengetero pamusoro pemweya wangu."

Verenga chivande chamambakwedza kwemazuva makumi mana anotevera:

Ndakamuka mangwanani, mutambo wangu mutsvene pamusoro pangu. Amai Pasi vari mberi kwangu, Muponesi Kristu ane ini. Enda, chido changu, kusuruvara, pedyo, kure, wana muranda wangu waMwari (zita rake), tora chibatiso kune kuruboshwe, uuye nayo kumba kwangu. Iwe, dhimoni, usadaro. Imi, mushumiri waMwari (zita romupikisi), musafara. Ishe aneni, Pasi iri pamberi pangu. Apo muti uyu uchararama, muranda waMwari (zita romupikisi) nemuranda waMwari (zita romurume) hausi pamwe chete. Holy icon, korona yaMwari, Amai Cheese Pasi, uye kumushumiri waMwari (zita romurume), ini chete. Chino, kivha, rurimi. Nokusingaperi nekusingaperi. Ameni. Ameni. Ameni.

Mukati, unoda kubata zvishoma zvepasi, zvakatorwa pedyo nemuti wawakasima.

Nzvimbo shomanana yemazuva makumi mana aya inotakura muhomwe, uye Apo nguva yekuverenga urongwa huripo, inokanda nyika pedyo neimba inoparadza mhuri yako.

Usakanganwa kuti kwenguva yenguva, tarisa "Baba Vedu" katanhatu manheru oga oga.

Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muupenyu hwako husingafadzi vanhu vane simba remashiripiti hachina kupindira, kugadzira ukama hwakabatana mumba, kukanganwa nezvekukakavadzana uye kuzvidzora.

Zvakakosha kuziva kuti kuitira kudzivirira vanhu vasingafadzi vane masimba ekupindira kupindira muhupenyu hwenyu, kugadzira ukama hwakanaka mumba, kukanganwa nezvekukakavadzana uye kuzvidzora.