Rudo nderwo iwe usingaoni vapemhi, vanhu vasina pokugara, vanhu vane nzara, vakadhakwa, doro, rudeness, kuba uye nezvimwe zvakafanana. Uye panzvimbo yeizvi zvose, unonzwa kuti shiri dzinoimba sei, fungidzira kunaka kwakaita mamiriro okunze (kunyange kana kunaya mumugwagwa nechando chando), uye kuti ungafadza sei nhasi nechinangwa chekuda kwako.
Rudo ndiro pfungwa "Ndinoda kumuita iye / anofara zvikuru munyika."
Zvose izvi zvakanaka kwazvo, asi kwete kwenguva refu. Uye zvakanaka kwazvo, izvo zvinogara kwenguva pfupi. Iye zvino tichakuudza iwe kuti rudo runogara rini uye nei runopera.
Rudo - pane pane kusiyana kwepabonde here?
Kusvika pakupedzisira, rudo rwemurume nemukadzi runoguma kwenguva refu, mushure mekudzidza kwenguva yakareba nyaya yacho kwakauya masayendisiti uye vezvepfungwa. Icho chinosvika pakuti nguva yacho inenge makore maviri. Izvi, kana vakaroorana vachigara pamwe chete. Kana ukama huri pakavanzika (somuenzaniso, nevadikani), kuwira murudo kunogona kupedza nguva shoma.
Vanhu vanoshuva rudo, nokuti nyika iyi inogona kuratidzirwa nekunaka. Kunaka kana kudengenyeka nguva dzose kunodzivirira kweAdrenaline, hormone inoshungurudza iyo yakanyanya, inofadza zvikuru. Pasi pesimba reAdrenaline, rimwe nerimwe remanzwi edu rinowedzera - kunhuwa, inzwi, chiratidzo. Hazvishamisi kuti nhamba yakawanda yemabasa ekugadzira yakafuridzirwa nemanzwiro aya.
Rudo runoguma rini?
Kana iwe uchizvibvunza iwe, rudo rurefu runotora nguva yakareba sei, saka nguva yerudo rwako inotanga kubuda.
Ichokwadi ndechokuti, kuva murudo, munhu haagoni kufunga nezvechinhu chipi zvacho, kunze kwechikonzero cherudo rwake. Pano tinouya kune chikonzero nei kusingaperi kwe rudo kusingabatsiri kuvanhu.
Kana tikakwanisa kuva murudo maawa makumi maviri nemasere, hupenyu hwose, hapana aigona kushanda, kudzidza, kusika, kuzarura, hupfumi huchazoguma, nokuti vanhu vaizorega kusimba.
Kana mudzidzi achizopedza kuongororwa kwemauto ehondo yechikamu chechipiri chezana remakore rechi15 muFrance, paanenge ari murudo, nditende ini, haazokwanisi kugadzirira kana kupedza kuongorora. Nokuti, kutanga kwezvose, "iye", uye nyika yose ichamirira.
Saka, chiratidzo chokutanga chemagumo ndeye mubvunzo wekureba kwenguva yorudo. Zvose zvinoratidzwa muupenyu hwezuva nezuva.
Pakutanga kwehukama, iwe unoregerera murume uye kwete chigaro chinoderedza chikwata, nemasokisi akapararira, uye kwete masuo akapfigwa emakabati. Iye zvino, iwe unoti kwaari: "Zvakakwana!". Iwe unofunga kuti ivo vakadya zvakakwana nehutsvina hwake, uye mumakore matatu aigona kunge akadzidza kumwe kurongeka.
Kana tichitaura pamusoro pemusiyano, rudo rurefu runowanikwa kuvakadzi uye kuti runotora nguva yakareba sei kuvanhu, hatingawani chero kusiyana.
Ichokwadi ndechekuti kuwira murudo -
Apo izvi zvakaitika, kune zvingasarudzwa zviviri:
- kurambana uye kutsvaga rudo rutsva;
- inyanzvi yekugara pamwe chete norugare uye rudo.
Paunosarudza sarudzo yechipiri, iwe uchava nemukana wekuziva kuti rudo rwechokwadi chii, uye kwete rudo .