Zvinosuruvarisa, munyika yemazuva ano kune dzimwe nguva mamiriro ezvinhu apo vabereki vanoda kugadzirisa kuramba kwomwana. Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zvinokurudzira vanhu kutora danho rakadaro. Asi kana chisarudzo chacho chave chagadzirwa pakupedzisira, zvingava zvinobatsira kuziva rutivi rwepamutemo yeiyi nyaya uye kudzidza kudzidza kugadzirisa kuramba kwomwana.
Ikozvino Family Family Code haigadziri nyaya iyo "Kuramba kwomwana." Ichokwadi, maererano nemutemo, hazvibviri kusiya mwana. Kunyange zvakadaro, vabereki vane kodzero yekunyora chikumbiro chekuramba kwevana, pachikonzero chavanorasikirwa nekodzero dzavo dzevabereki.
Kupikira kodzero kumwana hakurevi kusunungurwa kubva kumabasa. Kana baba kana amai vakasarudza kurega mwana, havabvumirwi nemutemo kubva pane zvavanosungirwa kuti vabatane mukurera kwake uye kupa rubatsiro rwezvinhu.
Kuramba kwomwana naamai vari muchipatara
Kana mukadzi wacho akaita sarudzo yakadai, anofanira kunyora chirevo pamusoro pokuramba kwechipatara. Muchiitiko ichi, mabhuku ose anotumidzwa kubva kumba kwekuberekwa kuenda kuvane simba rekuchengetedza, uye mwana anoiswa muimba yomwana. Nekuregererwa kwekuzvidira kwomwana, amai havasi kumurambidza kodzero dzemubereki kwemwedzi mitanhatu - nemutemo anopiwa nguva yekufunga uye, zvichida, kuchinja sarudzo yake. Pakupera kwenguva ino, mutariri angasarudzwa kumwana.
Kana amai vacho vasina kutora mwana kubva kuchipatara, zvino maererano nechisarudzo chevatongi vekuchengetedza, baba, pakutanga, vane kodzero yekutora mwana. Kana baba, zvakare, vasingatori mwana, zvino kodzero iyi inogamuchirwa na vanasekuru, vanasekuru uye dzimwe hama.
Kunyanya kodzero dzevabereki kunotora mwedzi mitanhatu. Munguva ino mwana wacho ari muhurumende yehurumende.
Kubviswa kwemwana nababa
Kuramba kwomwana nababa kunoitwa kuburikidza nedare. Kana baba vacho vakasarudza kupa nokuzvidira mwana wacho, iye zvino anofanira kunyora kushanda kwakakodzera kubva kune nyanzvi. Mune imwe nyanzvi yevhangeri, mubereki anopiwa muenzaniso we fomu yekuramba mwana. Kuregererwa kwekucherechedza kwemubereki kubva kumwana kunoendeswa kudare, uye mutongi anosarudza pamusoro pekudzivirira kodzero dzevabereki.
Mukadzi anokwanisa kumhan'arira kubviswa kwekodzero dzemubereki kuvabereki mumatambudziko anotevera:
- Kana baba vakavhiringidza kubva pakuzadzisa mabasa ake ekurera mwana;
- kana baba vakamanikidza mwana;
- kana baba vari chidhakwa kana chidhakwa chemishonga;
- kana baba vakaita mhosva kune mwana.
Izvo zvataurwa pamusoro, zvakare, zvikonzero zvekuramba kodzero dzevabereki dzeamai.
Baba vanoremekedzwa kodzero dzevabereki havakwanisi kubhadhara chikwereti chekubhadhara vana. Kana mwana uyo baba vakaramba iye akazogamuchirwa nemumwe munhu, saka munyaya iyi mabasa ose anopiwa kumubereki anogamuchira, uye baba vanoberekwa vanobudiswa kubva pakubhadhara kubatana.
Chero bedzi mushure mekubvisa baba kana amai vane kodzero dzevabereki, vabati vekuchengetedza vanogona kusarudza
Kuramba kwevana vakagamuchirwa
Maererano neMhuri Code, avo vanogamuchira vane kodzero yekuve nekodzero dzakafanana sevabereki zvakakwana. Nokudaro, kana uyo anenge atora akaita chisarudzo chekuramba mwana akaberekwa, zvino nzira yakadaro yekuderedza kodzero inoitwa. Mutevedzeri, semubereki, munyaya iyi haasi kubviswa kubva kumabasa.
Zvikonzero zvekuramba vana
Maererano nehuwandu, vabereki vakawanda vanoramba vana vavo muchipatara. Chikonzero chechiitiko ichi kazhinji kusakwanisa kugovera pfuma yemwana, kuda kwebaba kutakura mutoro, amai vacho vaduku zvikuru.
Mune dzimwe nguva, kunyanya, kurasikirwa kodzero dzevabereki kubva kuvabereki vezvinwiwa uye zvinodhakwa zvinodhaka zvinoitwa.