Kukurukurirana pakati pevanhu

Hapana munhu anokwanisa kurarama ari oga oga, rumwe rutivi rwekukurukurirana pakati pevanhu huchavapo. Ichi chinodikanwa chekushamwaridzana kwenguva refu, kwenguva refu kunogara kune mumwe nomumwe wedu. Inotsanangurwa nemagariro evanhu uye ehupenyu uye inotarisirwa kuponesa kwevanhu.

Mafomu nemarudzi ekukurukurirana kwevanhu

Psychology yakagara ichifarira mubvunzo wekubatana kwevamwe uye unozviona kuburikidza nejeri rekukurukurirana , sezvo zviitiko izvi zvinowirirana, asi hazvina kukodzera kuvhiringidza pfungwa idzi.

Kukurukurirana kuchaitika senzira yekukurukurirana (kutumira ruzivo) rwemashure maviri kana kupfuura, inogona kuva yega kana yekunze (mail, Internet). Asi kushamwaridzana hakurevi nguva dzose kutaurirana, izvo zvinoita kuti iyi yekupedzisira ive nyaya yakasiyana yemhando dzakasiyana dzevanhu vanobatana. Muhutano hwemagariro evanhu, izwi rokuti "kushamwaridzana kwevanhu" rinoreva kusangana kwemashure maviri kana kupfuura, zvichiita kuti kuchinja maitiro avo kana manzwiro avo. Zvinhu zvitatu zvakakosha zvekubatana uku ndezvi: kuumbwa kwehukama hwevanhu, maonero evanhu uye kunzwisisa kwevanhu, kupa kwepfungwa. Kugadzirisa matambudziko aya, maviri maitiro makuru ekukurukurirana anoshandiswa: kubatana - kufambira mberi kune chinangwa cheumwe wevadzidzi vanobatsira kana kusingapindirani nekubudirira kwevamwe, uye kukwikwidzana - kuzadzika kwechinangwa neumwe wevadzidzi hakusiyi kana kunodzivisa kupera kwekugadzirisa kwezvinhu zvevamwe.

Panewo kuparadzanisa kwekubatana kwevanhu pakati pezvipenyu:

1. Zvichienderana nechinangwa - bhizinesi, rega.
2. Zvichienderana nehutsika-hwakanaka, hwakashata, hunoita.
3. Zvichienderana nehutungamiri - zvakajeka, zvisinganzwisisiki. Muenzaniso weukama hwakadaro hunogona kunge huchishanda nevatauri, pane nyaya yekukurukurirana nevane masimba kana vari pasi pepamusoro, chinangwa chichave chakajeka, patinenge tichitaura nevamwe vatinoshanda navo - zvisinganzwisisiki.

Kuoma kunzwisisa kwezviitiko zvekushandurana kune vamwe kunobatanidza zvakasiyana-siyana zvekugadzirisa, mamwe acho akanyorwa pamusoro apa, asi pfungwa yacho haigoni kubudiswa zvakazara pasina kutaura maitiro ekuratidzwa kwavo, ayo akawanda kwazvo. Icho chikuru chazvo ndeichi: ushamwari, rudo, rudo, kutarisira, kufara, kutamba, kufambidzana kwevanhu, makwikwi, kukakavadzana uye mutambo wekubatana. Chimiro chekupedzisira chakajairika, chakasiyana nemitemo inokosha iyo hukama huri pasi. Izvi zvinobatsira mukufananidzira kuratidza hukama hwemagariro evanhu muboka, iyi fomu inogadzirwa zvakananga kuitira kuti munhu wese anokwanisa kugutsa chido chavo chekuzivikanwa. Mitambo yakadaro inoshandiswa nemunhu wese - pakutaurirana nevabereki nevana, vamiririri nevatungamiriri, vashandi vehurumende uye vatengesi vari muchitoro. Chimwe chemiitiro yekubatana inoita chimwe chezvinhu zvitatu - rubatsiro mukugadzirisa kune mamiriro matsva, kuziva kana kugutsa zvinodiwa nemunhu zvekutaurirana nevamwe vanhu. Izvi zvakare zvinotsigira kukosha kwechiitiko, pamwe nekuoma kwayo.