Kumbira nzira yekugadzirisa nzvimbo yevana yemukomana, iwe unofanirwa kuterera kune dzimwe nhamba dzinokosha.
Nzira yekugadzirira sei mukamuri wemukomana?
Chokutanga pane zvose, kugadzirwa kwekamuri kunofananidzwa nezera remukomana uye zviri nyore kuchinja, zvichienderana nezera rake. Nokudaro, zvakakosha kupa kupa mafungiro emhando dzakawanda, nguva dzose kuwana kona yemidziyo yemitambo (mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa, kukwanisa kusvitsa rusvingo rweSweden) uye kupa nzvimbo yekugadzira iyo munguva yemberi inogona kushandiswa zviri nyore sechishanda (chikoro) chimwe. Kusarudza ruvara urongwa uye kuronga kwemadziro eimba yemukomana, hazvidikanwe kuti uite zvisingatauriki zvakasimudzirwa zvakagadziriswa:
- mavara ebhuruu nebhuruu - iyo yakanyanya "boyish". Nehuwandu hwemavara aya, imba yacho inotonhora uye isinganzwisisiki. Zvinonyanya kusarudzira kusarudzwa kwemavara akareruka mavara, kunyange zvazvo mavara akazara ( yellow , orange, emerald) anogamuchirwa sechiedza chakajeka uye kupa mukamuri mamwe "kurarama" mafungiro;
- mifananidzo pamapuraneti ndeyomutopirita chete. Haisi chokwadi chokuti mukomana wako achave achifarira nzira iyi. Kuratidzwa kunofanirwa kuratidza zvinodiwa nemwana, kwete vabereki vake.
Iva nechokwadi chekusarudza zvinhu zvekugadzirisa, simba, micheka yekamuri yemwana, teerera kubvumirwa kwekushandisa zvinhu zvakadaro nezvinhu mumakamuri evana, mukana wekugara vachichenesa kana kushamba.
Dzimwe nguva mubvunzo unomuka kana kuumba mukamuri wakatsaurirwa mukomana achangoberekwa? Zvisizvo, iwe haugoni kuzvipindura. Mwana achangoberekwa anoda amai vanochengetedza nguva yose. Nokudaro, zvinonyanya kukosha uye zviri nyore, zvichida, kurongedza kona yevana muimba yekuvata yevabereki. Kunyangwe mune dzimwe nyika dzekuMadokero (muFrance, somuenzaniso) vana kubvira paucheche vari muimba imwe chete. Sarudzo ndeyako.
Kugadzira imba yevana yemukomana wechidiki
Mukomana ari kuyaruka, anopinda mune izvo zvinonzi nguva yepakati penyika, achange aida imwe "mukuru" kugadzirwa kwekamuri. Uye kuti kugadzirwa kwekamuri yevechiri kuyaruka kumukomana hakuiti kukakavadzana nevabereki, kunosanganisira mukuita kwekunyora kwevana vako. Kuve kwekamuri yevana yemukomana-wechidiki kunogona kuitwa nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana-dzisingaoneki zvekare, zvemazuva ano zvepamusoro-soro kana kuti zvidzidzo zvakagadzirwa, asi chero zvakadaro, unofanira kunyatsotarisa kuiswa kwezvikamu zvakasiyana-siyana zvebasa uye kutarisira maitiro avo akakwirira.
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