Kuumba sangano revanhu, mumwe nomumwe wedu anofanira kuziva kuti danho iri rinosanganisirei sekuumbwa kwemamwe kodzero, saka chido chekuzadzikisa kwekuita kwemabasa akawanda. Uye zvinokanganisa munhu wose - vabereki vose nevana vavo.
Chikonzero chekubuda kwekodzero dzevanhu, pamwe chete nemabasa evabereki nevana, ndiyo yakagadziriswa (yepamutemo) yakabva kumabatana emhuri pakati pavo. Zvakakosha kusimbisa kuti mabasa uye kodzero dzevabereki pakurera, kuchengetwa kwevana, pamwe nekodzero uye zvinotarisirwa zvevana maererano nevabereki vavo zvinorayirwa mumitemo. Somuenzaniso, muRussia mutemo wemabasa, kodzero dzevabereki, vana ndiwo Family Code. Inotsanangurwa munyaya yakataurwa uye kuti vana vevana havatariswi nemabasa.
Mabasa
Ndezvipi zvinokodzera kumwana, mumatambudziko akawanda nokuda kweamai vake nababa - chikwereti chinoyerera kubva kurudyi. Semuenzaniso, Amai nababa ndivo vanhu vanopiwa kodzero yepamusoro uye isina chikonzero yekurera vana vavo. Uye izvi ndizvowo basa ravo. Basa revabereki nderekuchengetedza hutano hwemwana, hutsika hwake -mumweya , mumuviri uye mupfungwa. Muchengetedze mumhuri, kudya kwakakwana, basa rakakwana rekuita, kutarisirwa kwehutano panguva yakakodzera, kutarisirwa, kutarisa uye, zvechokwadi, rudo - ndizvo izvo mwana wose anofanira kunzwa. Asi kukanganisa kwekugara kwakanaka uye hutano hwevana kunorangwa.
Mwana wacho ane kodzero yokuwana huwandu (hutsika) dzidzo. Panguva imwe chete, anogona kutora chikamu (kana achida uye mukana) mukusarudza chigadzirwa uye maitiro anobvumidzwa ekudzidziswa. Imwe mutoro ndeyekudzivirira zvido zvevana uye kodzero. Hapana masimba anokosha anodiwa!
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti mitemo yemhuri haisi imwe yemabhizimisi ehurumende inotungamirira zvinotarisirwa nevabereki. Saka, kodzero dzevana (ndiko kuti, mabasa evabereki vavo) dzakabatana neimba, uyewo nhaka, hutano hwehupfumi.
Kodzero
Kana kukwezva kwomwana ibasa, ipapo kusarudzwa kwemhando ipi zvayo isingapesani nezvinodiwa uye mutemo ndeyechokwadi, iyo yevabereki. Amai naBaba vari nani kupfuura ani zvake anoziva mwana wavo, saka vanogona kuita zvisarudzo zvakanaka. Mutemo mukuru ndeyekutanga kwezvido zvevana. Uyewo, hurumende inotora matanho anotsvaga kupa rubatsiro rwevabereki vose. Saka, hurumende inovimbisa kuti dzidzo yepamusoro, yechikoro uye yechipiri yepamhizha yepamhizha ichagamuchirwa nemwana pasina mari, kana masangano ehurumende kana masunisi. Kunyange kana mumwe wevabereki ari kuraramira oga, hapana munhu, kunze kwemudare, anogona kumudzivisa kodzero yekukurukurirana, kubatanidzwa mukurera, kugadzirisa chero nyaya dzinokosha pamusoro pomwana. Saizvozvowo, zvipingamupinyi kubva kune mumwe mubereki zvinorambidzwa.
Mutoro
Vabereki vanofanira kunzwisisa kuti kukundikana kuita kana kusaruramisira kwebasa kunogona kutungamirira kumhuri-mutemo,
Nekuda kwehuwandu hwezvitsigiro zvevana, vanoiswa muhuwandu wehuwandu hwekuwana uye nhamba yevana (25% imwe chete, 30% yeviri uye 50% kune vatatu kana kupfuura vana). Asi basa revana rakagadziriswa rakagadziriswa pamunhu mumwechete, zvichibva pamhuri, mamiriro ezvinhu emapato mune mari yakatarwa (yakasarudzwa). Kuti uone kuti iwe nevana vako hamufaniri kutarisana nezviyero izvi, pedzai mabasa enyu nehana!