Munhu wose ane mukana wekudzidza ramangwana ravo, uye nokuda kweizvi haufaniri kuenda kumunhu ane ruzivo, zvakakwana kuti utsanangure zvakakodzera kurota kwawakaona usiku. Chindori chechato chinoonekwa sechiratidzo cherudo, asi zvichienderana nemamwe mashoko, unogona kuwana mamwe mashoko. Zvakakosha kuongorora kuti kutaridzika kwakatarisa sei, chii chawakaita nacho, nezvimwewo. Inokurudzirwawo kuenzanisa ruzivo rwakagamuchirwa nezviitiko zvinowanikwa muupenyu.
Chii chine chindori chechato painota yako pamusoro pako?
Mhete dzechikwata dzinomiririra kushamwaridzana kunofadza nevanhu vashoma. Kana kubwinya kwakagadzirwa nesirivha kana chimwe chigadziko chemwenje, saka zvakakosha kugadzirira matambudziko akasiyana-siyana anogona kuchinja zvose zviri zviviri uye zvinhu. Irota, uko kwaifanira kubvisa rwonzi rwechato, rinomiririra kubuda kwekukakavadzana kukuru nemunhu waunoda. Kune vanhu vasina kuroorwa, nyaya yakadaro inopikira kuoneka kwematambudziko munyaya yemari. Kana muchiroto zvaive zvakakodzera kutarisa bhandi rekubatanidza, zvino kune vanhu vari vaviri vaviri, ichi chiratidzo chemufambiro wakaipa weshamwari. Kurota umo munhu akatenga bhandi rekubatanidza nematombo, anofanotaura rudo rwakajeka uye kushamwaridzana kwakanaka. Kana kutenga kwacho kwaiva nemhete maviri, uye nokukurumidza hupenyu hwehupenyu huchaiswa pamuchinjikwa.
Sei mukadzi asina kuroorwa achirota nezvekuita zvindori?
Chishongo chakadaro chinogona kureva ukama hwepedyo nemurume anofadza. Chigadziro chakadaro chinogona kuva chiratidzo chemuchato unofadza. Kugamuchira chindori chemuchato kubva kumunhu sechipo chiratidzo chokuti anonzwa manzwiro echokwadi. Imwe yemabhuku ekurota, iyo musikana asina kuroorwa anorota bhandi rekubatanidza pamunwe wake, anodudzira, sechishamiso chokuungana nomunhu asingazivi, izvo zvinogona kuva nengozi. Kune musikana akaberekwa munguva yechando, chiratidzo chakaita seusiku chiratidzo chekuparadzanisa nemunhu waunoda.
Sei mukadzi akaroorwa achirota bhandi rekubatanidza?
Kurota kwakadaro kunopikira kuvezve kweukama hunofadza nemudzimai. Kunyange zvakadaro inogona kuva chiitiko chekudzorerwa mumhuri. Kana ringinenge ichipenyera uye ichipenya muzuva, ipapo mukadzi haagoni kutya kutengesa uye chero matambudziko emhuri. Kuonekwa kweusiku, kwavakabvambura chindori chekubatanidza, kunonyevera nezvekugona kutengesa murume wake, nekudzivisa izvi, zviri nani kuva nehanya nemumwe wako.
Ndezvipi kurota kwechiso chechato chakakoromoka?
Chirongwa chakadaro chiratidzo chisina kunaka, chinovimbisa kubuda kwematambudziko akasiyana-siyana. Kune vanhu vari muukama nyaya yakadaro inoratidza kusatendeka kwemumwe wako. Humwe husiku husiku, uko kubatanidzwa kwegore kunopera, kunofanotaura kubuda kwematambudziko mubhizinesi. Kune vanhu vari muwanano, kurota uku kunoratidzira chirwere chikuru chemurume wake.
Nei uchirota kurasikirwa nemhete?
Kune vasikana vasina kuroorwa, kurota kwakadaro chiratidzo chisina kunaka, kuchenesa kuti nekuda kwezvakaipa zvakawanda, mukurumbira unogona kutambura zvakanyanya.
Sei uchirota kune imwe yomumwe musungo wokubatanidza?
Kuona chishongo pamunwe wemumwe shamwari kana kuti kuzivikanwa kunoreva kuti pane ngozi yekurasikirwa nekuvimbika mumaziso evanhu vepedyo, uye izvi zvichaitika nekuda kwezviito zvisina kufungidzirwa. Kana muroti achiyera imwe yenzani yekubatanidza - ichi chiratidzo chekufarira pane zvinorambidzwa zvinofadza. Chiratidzo cheusiku, uko akakwanisa kuwana chiyero chemumwe munhu, zvinoreva kuti muupenyu hwehupenyu, chisarudzo chisina kunaka chakaitwa.